This may not apply to all women, probably not in a daytime environment either, but I notice especially for night game, women tend to gravitate to dudes who put off a really alpha, egotistical, and douchey vibe. Guys like this call women names, pull on their hair, make fun of other people in the environment. It seems to go beyond just basic teasing and confidence into real asshole territory, yet the girls seem to love it.

This is not me as a person. Although I can put this act on if I wanted to, it just seems wrong to me. Yet, my more refined behavior may not be leading to the same results as these guys. I throw in teases, make the girls laugh, try to move beyond conventional questions like “where do you work?”, but sometimes it doesn’t seem like it’s enough.