Let's say you're in an hetero relationship. If you were a man, would you tolerate as much inconsiderate behavior from your partner as you may currently be tolerating as a woman?

I asked this question under the premise that women are more willing to compromise in a relationship than we men are. Specifically, I think it more frequent for men not to reciprocate than it is for women. But maybe I'm wrong.

For example, I remember a woman who told me that her boyfriend expected her to join him for meals with his parents, which she did - but he consistently refused to do the same with hers.

Or take the case of oral sex: If a guy doesn't want to go down on his partner, that's fine - everyone has boundaries - but he shouldn't expect you to give him BJs in return.

Oh, and what about weaponized incompetence? Has it ever been used against you? And if you were a man, would you be tempted to seek revenge? Oddly enough, I don't recall ever seeing this mentioned as being used by women against men.

After all, a healthy relationship should be based on mutual respect and reciprocity, right?

So, if you were a man, do you think you would be more demanding of your significant other and not accept the bad behavior you might presently accept from your male partner?