got 300 likes on a Thailand dating app with women aged 18-24. 0 Likes on Tinder in Europe. im in my 30's.

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-09-18T13:40:53+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

VelvetSinclair · 2025-09-17T22:31:51+00:00

People keep saying "most of them are ladyboys/hookers/only after money/etc..."

OKay, if you remove 99% of them, that's still 3 women in thailand and 0 in europe

LostVirgin11 · 2025-09-17T21:36:08+00:00

Yeah, but these women want your money

Nachimaka · 2025-09-17T21:53:27+00:00

ooh hansum man!

didsomebodysaymyname · 2025-09-17T21:46:57+00:00

this just a reminder. that its all about location

If you mention in your bio that your date comes with a few thousand cash in the US, you will also suddenly get a bunch of likes.

Sex workers will always be happy to date you for the local rate, regardless of location.

Rollorich · 2025-09-17T21:45:19+00:00

That's just some women. There's plenty of documentaries and videos on YouTube about this.

A large number of these women take the foreign boyfriend for however many weeks he's there's and live off him and do lots of activities together. They usually happen to break their phone and ask him to buy her a new one too. Lots of stuff like that.

Then when he leaves she moves on to the next guy. Probably keeps asking him to send money over when he gets home too.

Sweet-Remote-7556 · 2025-09-17T23:38:08+00:00

Its not location, its about money.

Steverocks1984 · 2025-09-17T21:38:43+00:00

Ur still a loser OP, they just want your money.

BulletReaper · 2025-09-17T22:22:45+00:00

lol have you actually talked to the matches in Thailand? Hate to break it to you but most of them are just on there to charge lonely men for the “GF experience” or they’re sex workers

However yes if you are a European man you will easily pull in Asian countries you just need to be careful and avoid touristy areas.

CaptainDolin · 2025-09-18T08:22:29+00:00

What most people here somehow fail to acknowledge is that your caucasian appearance (I assume you are) is not just a sign you're living in a good country but is also plain hot to most Thai women. You're standing out the same way a Latina would in Europe.

Thai people are very western oriented and many younger girls in the large city centres would love to date a "handsome tall white foreigner" even if it's just for a holiday.

Hcdx · 2025-09-17T21:54:28+00:00

Brother. Those girls on Thai Friendly are all working girls.

ArmitageShanks69 · 2025-09-17T23:01:23+00:00

300 squeezes to check for package.

washington_breadstix · 2025-09-18T05:19:10+00:00

And how many of those matches are bots, scammers, ladyboys, and sex workers?

Sherman140824 · 2025-09-18T08:03:07+00:00

Girls smile at me on the street when I travel. I look like Rabban Harkonnen.

fer6600 · 2025-09-17T22:23:02+00:00

Some people throwing 💩 on you but i think some have genuine desire/curiosity for you.

In Europe you have to do cold approach, it's very difficult in some cities but high reward.

wydtim · 2025-09-17T22:56:54+00:00

lol nah they just want $$$$. Same shit happens to me

SeamoreB00bz · 2025-09-18T00:22:00+00:00

1/4 to 1/3 of them were probably ladyboys
OLD is one of the worst cancer's to ever happen to society
dating apps, like all of social media, do not at all or in the slightest way reflect reality

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2025-09-17T22:00:28+00:00

298 were femboys

ENTER-D-VOID · 2025-09-17T21:30:22+00:00

this sub doesnt allow screenshots coz that was my idea to post

ObviousExcitement8 · 2025-09-18T04:22:34+00:00

Everyone here will tell you something to shame you. Go out there and have fun brother

Jimbobbly123 · 2025-09-18T09:20:00+00:00

Don't listen to the choosing beggers here. Right swipe ts

Thierr · 2025-09-18T10:00:46+00:00

0 Likes

That just means you're not seen as attractive or high quality in Europe

7asas · 2025-09-18T11:40:49+00:00

Good job man

mmmm_frietjes · 2025-09-18T11:54:09+00:00

No, Tinder hides your profile when you're over 30 and wants you to pay. It's that simple. And you need the Platinum subscription, Gold doesn't work.

djdante · 2025-09-17T23:32:08+00:00

This is normal, and they're not all hookerw or ladyboys.

As a white guy in Thailand, tinder is just easier. Been there a bunch of times. I don't particularly love Asian women unfortunately. But was very easy to pick Up there without paying.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-09-17T21:56:21+00:00

Step outside of the house and actually talk to real women.

pastor-of-muppets69 · 2025-09-17T22:36:01+00:00

I like how the only way anyone seems to be willing to help these supposedly desperately suffering women is by preventing american men from dating them. You're discouraging people from giving them the help that, you admit, they desperately need AND THEN NOT HELPING THEM YOURSELF! Do you hate them? Suppose you see a homeless woman who needs a root canal and a safe place to sleep and a billionaire comes up and he's like "Hey, youre pretty cute, how about we get you a new outfit and grab dinner? Oh, I know a great dental surgeon, I'll set something up." Do you push a button that makes them never meet?

I also like how these women have no other choice but to date these invading American men. How about, idk, the local men maybe?

Let's be real, if you go to one of these places, the average man is probably 5'4 and makes 1/20th the average american salary. Yes, that is superficial bullshit no one wants to be "loved" for, but is it any different here?

Superb_Branch4749 · 2025-09-18T02:14:02+00:00

It's Thailand. Be wary!

miyass_miyass · 2025-09-18T07:30:35+00:00

In my experience location never made a difference, my dating problems followed me everywhere and I mostly got similar results until I started learning cold approach

Captain-Comment · 2025-09-18T11:52:24+00:00

I had a similar experience in the Philippines. I mean it wasn't close to no 300 likes but it was definitely a stark difference from what I've ever experienced on a dating site. Put it this way, I actually had to shut down my account because of over abundance and not enough time to execute with all of the options.

vanessaLahotte · 2025-09-18T12:23:09+00:00

Hello Rich adjacent Foreigner, it's a totally different vibe yes

Kierenbrowncoach · 2025-09-18T13:26:09+00:00

that’s not random. That’s how dating markets work. In Thailand, you stood out. Foreign, different, western, high status, maybe even exotic to them. In Europe, you’re just another guy competing in the most brutal online dating market in the world, especially if you’re chasing 18–24 year olds while you’re in your 30s.

Here’s the blunt truth: younger women in Europe have unlimited options. They’re getting flooded with matches from men their age, men older, men richer, men better looking. On Tinder especially, the competition is insane. So if your photos and profile aren’t elite, you’re invisible.

But the good news is this. Online dating is only one slice of the game. And if you want to compete in that slice, you need to sharpen your tools:

Elite photos. Professionally shot, styled, showing lifestyle, confidence, and charisma. No random selfies.

Profile copy. Witty, intriguing, something that sparks curiosity and emotion. Not generic.

Age targeting. Instead of only chasing 18–24, widen the range. Plenty of incredible women in their mid to late 20s (and even early 30s) who will find a man in his 30s scintillating.

Now here’s the bigger point. If you’re only focused on Tinder, you’re playing on hard mode. That’s the shallowest, most competitive platform out there. You’ll always be swimming against the current. If you want to flip the script, you need to get good at real-world approaches, Instagram game, and building a life so magnetic that women want to be a part of it.

The fact that you succeeded in Thailand shows you’re not the problem. Your positioning is. The market is different. The competition is different. Which means your strategy has to be different too. So yeah, in Europe, women aren’t just going to hand it to you. But if you build a killer profile, expand your range, and start owning your real-world presence, you’ll see results. Tinder is just a tool. Don’t mistake it for the full game.

m4gnum1 · 2025-09-17T22:37:53+00:00

Yeah, but half of those women are actually men.

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-17T21:32:29+00:00

So when a woman's sibling is at risk of dying of malnutrition, your 6 figure computer touching job attached to a terrible personality is appealing and when a woman's sibling is not at risk of dying of malnutrition you are repulsive? Wow.

Mean_Bumblebee1945 · 2025-09-18T08:38:18+00:00

They are extremely desperate to find a walking briefcase and passport husband. Also they like every male profile.

stick_it_in_your_bum · 2025-09-17T23:04:16+00:00

Bro…you should know better in your 30s good grief.

Title	got 300 likes on a Thailand dating app with women aged 18-24. 0 Likes on Tinder in Europe. im in my 30's.
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Date	September 17, 2025 9:29 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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