What I mean is any kind of social activity, whether it's platonic or romantic, there are probably higher social highs for women than men. Maybe there is more in general for women, because there is social risk as well. I'm not arguing against that. I'm simply saying there's not as much good socializing as a man than as a woman.

It's way easier to date and have sex as a woman -- socially you are considered the prize.

A standard relationship involves the man doing more for the woman than vice versa, at least during the courti g phase.

Women are generally seen as good by default, men are seen as a threat by default, i.e., the women are wonderful effect.

Men are pressured to be less expressive, less vulnerable, more stoic. People care less about mens emotions than women's.

It's much easier to be valued enough to be present at a social venue. Men have to put in more work to get invited.

Women can be attractive in a purely pro social, agreeable, "nice" way, whereas men cannot because male attractiveness to some extent is gated behind dark triad traits. You can see this in all the discourse about "good men being capable of violence" stuff.