Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like?

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rayrayrayray · 2026-03-29T19:49:13+00:00

Awesome. Same feeling as driving an exotic car. You'll also get more looks from other women. Received a lot of special treatment from service staff and restaurants. While I trusted the women I dated - there were guys constantly hitting on them. You will find out that most hot women don't have the best personalities or have a warped sense of entitlement because they have coasted on their looks.

I remember one conversation among some friends where a woman was having a hard time finding a job. My ex commented that she got every job that she ever applied for and couldn't understand the struggle.

generaltso81 · 2026-03-29T19:50:00+00:00

I was hesitant to be in a relationship with her because she really seemed to enjoy the attention she got from other men. She also told me all of her ex boyfriends have cheated on her. We were 8 months into a relationship before I found out she was cheating the entire time. It doesn't matter how hot she is, listen to your gut gentlemen.

trdcr · 2026-03-29T19:39:22+00:00

10 in beauty is usually 4 in character.

creamyturtle · 2026-03-29T19:50:25+00:00

demanding, difficult, lots of weird confrontations with aggressive guys hitting on her in public, way too many creepy dm's and guys pursuing her online. oddly when I treated her bad she loved me and when I showed her affection she would think I was weak. pretty girls are all messed up in the head, they live in an alternate reality where everything comes easy and they can be choosy. you feel like a king for landing a super sexy girl like that but the headaches aren't worth it

Toomanymisses · 2026-03-29T20:42:33+00:00

Good and bad comes with it. One I dated for a bit would put zero effort into sex because she expected every guy just to be so all over her and worked up just from being there, so that was super lame, I've had 5s and 6s who were amazing in the sack because they put in way more effort. Second down side is the fucking arrogant prick or tough guy that decides to flirt or hit on them even if you're right there, I'm also 6'2" and an ex body builder so I'm not someone people normally would want on their bad side. Also many "10s" have always been pretty girls and don't understand pretty privilege and just think thats how the world is for everyone.

Now for the good part, the sex can be amazing because they are so hot. It's also pretty wild how other women see you with her and suddenly you've gone up a few points too. Overall though I have found that I am more happy, especially with age, that I go more for someone that I have chemistry with over looks. Physical attraction is important, but good looks fade, a shitty person will always drag you down.

Superfumi3 · 2026-03-29T20:14:42+00:00

Good for the most part, until they reveal and eventually embrace their true narcissistic tendencies

Teshuahh · 2026-03-29T20:02:28+00:00

Dated a supermodel once, she was quite boring. It was like dating a snail.

jsanchez030 · 2026-03-29T19:52:32+00:00

Very expensive 😭. I’m into Abg type look. Obviously have to pay for everything. But it gave me a unique experience to realize how the world revolves around them. All that talk about how hot girls never get hit on is fucking bullshit. My girl gets hit on and asked for her number 20+ times on an average night out. Not just by random dudes but also celebrities including recently a household name with 100+ mil ig followers asked her to take her home. Online is impossible. She set it up as a joke when she traveled and got 10k likes in a week. All the rules here don’t apply to them. They’re almost impossible to pull from cold approach bc they have so many in their network to choose from.

A ton of ups and downs emotionally for sure and some crazy experiences. The rational me wants to date a normal girl but I still keep coming back to these heartbreakers.

lanseri · 2026-03-29T21:49:13+00:00

It's just another person. Perhaps more often coming from a slightly easier life, having the benefit of looking nice. But that's certainly not always the case. The moment you realize that 10/10 women are just people, you can start dating them.

Edit: After reading some comments here, y'all need to get out of Miami or whatever and start meeting real people. Not all attractive women are narcissistic gold diggers with daddy issues. If you only date awesome people, you'll eventually run into a 10/10 awesome woman.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2026-03-29T19:43:33+00:00

Usually these types of women get by on their looks

They're usually not super intelligent

beti88 · 2026-03-29T20:50:18+00:00

Men who date 10s aren't on reddit

Will_Murray · 2026-03-29T20:36:54+00:00

Similar to most here. Felt awesome at home and with friends, but in public she would get hit on in front of me regardless of the situation. Which is fine, but she relished the attention and didn’t shut it down. Not emotionally mature.

refreshingface · 2026-03-29T19:56:31+00:00

Never dated a 10/10 myself but I have dated some good looking chicks.

I’d imagine there are a lot of negatives. However, it is probably extremely validating walking around with a true beauty. It signals to society that you are doing something right.

aaahditya99 · 2026-03-29T20:41:59+00:00

Man I feel like I haven't even crawled outta the hole listening to all these experiences

chamberlain323 · 2026-03-29T21:14:22+00:00

One woman I dated was a solid 9 and was frankly out of my league but I had fortunate timing and we had a friend in common who set us up, so I managed to charm her and we dated exclusively for about six months. It was great while it lasted, but like many guys who date hot women, she two-timed me and then dumped me for the other guy.

Like others have said in this thread, hot women make your life more exciting and give you confidence, and sex with them is definitely awesome. The observation about getting better service in restaurants is definitely true (I had never had free dessert gifted to me before) and just about every dude I knew would give me complements (introducing her to friends was always fun).

The drawbacks are serious though. Hot girl entitlement is real, and she had guys hitting on her often, one of whom managed to woo her away from me (never did find out who he was). It’s hard to impress them unless you have money, and the very real possibility of losing them on any given day is stressful. So…proceed with caution.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-03-29T22:31:58+00:00

I dated a girl who was both 10 in body and soul and it was awesome. We broke up mutually due to living in different cities, but she was kind even during that. Definitely worth working for, a relationship with her taught me a lot, especially about focusing on myself and my happiness.

renegade453 · 2026-03-29T22:41:07+00:00

They lack integrity, something you most likely will have to live with. But i am telling you in the end they are not really worth it. You will most likely tolerate it because of the good sex and what else comes with it but down the road the tradeoff just does get you anywhere.

PrettyBlueEyes · 2026-03-29T22:43:19+00:00

Very high maintenance, she spent a grand a month on her face and another grand a month on her hair.

BigKushi · 2026-03-29T20:17:43+00:00

Just like dating 4/10s they’re still regular women behind the looks

TimeIsFractal · 2026-03-29T23:16:26+00:00

One that comes to mind was a fwb situation. Absolutely gorgeous girl. Just such a pretty face, easy on the eyes. And had absolute WATERMELONS, on a thin/average frame with nice hips. Good bone structure and symmetry all around. Physically, she had it all.

And personality wise, she was just as great. She was shy, down to earth and rather introverted. Came from a small town and didn’t use social media much so didn’t have a super inflated ego.

But here’s the kicker: she had 3 kids from 3 different dudes by age 25. So that definitely made her not as appealing as she could be, unless you just wanted to fuck. that definitely also gave her self esteem issues, according to what I gathered from her over time. She thought no guy would want to settle down with her anymore, like she’s used goods (her own words).

It was fun while it lasted. She eventually found some average looking fat/short dude to lock her down (he’s about as tall as she is, and she is like 5’5), and she stopped reaching out after that and is in a committed relationship with this guy (she’s a very loyal girl and I respect her for it).

Connection-Is-Cool · 2026-03-29T22:12:55+00:00

It started when I stopped thinking of women as subjective numbers to rate.

deliskermann · 2026-03-29T22:39:03+00:00

Power trip. Highly intoxicating. Addictive even. Walking down the street with a "10/10", noticing the looks she gets, then the looks _you_ get... it's a dopamine hit not unlike a line of the finest. Social status, instant elevation. You're showing off what most people will only ever dream of.

Someone compared it to driving an exotic car. Fair but a couple notches above that, because anyone with enough money can get the car. I never got there through money, so the pride runs deeper. Feels more like a trophy you actually earned, as superficial as that may sound.

That said, the rush is real but it's a rush nonetheless. The risk is that the benchmark shifts and suddenly you're chasing hotter and hotter - a loop that quietly works against anything long-term.

I wish I was better at this but know this to be the truth: drop the rating. It puts her on a pedestal and puts you beneath it. Beauty standards exist, sure, whether culturally or genetically baked in, but the power that beauty holds over you? That's yours to grant or revoke.

On a few comments I saw:

- "How did you get there?" - self-confidence and social skills built over time. Exposure and rejection. Importantly, a social circle that mingles with beautiful women + good dating app photos.

- "10/10s are dumb." - I'd discourage that generalisation. Pretty privilege can breed entitlement, agreed. But it's more about culture, education and values. Some of my best relationships were with stunning women who were perfectly aware of their pretty privilege and still showed up with real character.

Answering this is inevitably a brag. I'm aware. I find beauty and its power genuinely fascinating, partly because I'm still a sucker for it (contradiction with 'drop the rating' noted - I'm at peace with it).

DrBarackPendergrass · 2026-03-29T21:11:57+00:00

Dating Coach here — Physically speaking, the instant epiphany you get when you first make out with a Ten (when you’re new to it anyway) is that it automatically feels like it’s “Your Birthright” — Meaning, it feels so natural that you can’t even feel her lips on your lips, or feel your tongue on her tongue. It’s just one motion, like “The Universe” is saying ”It’s supposed to be this way….”

And yes, the sex is even more surreal — You can’t believe you’re fucking her even while you’re watching your own dick slide in and out of her pussy, and you literally don’t know what to look at first — Her facial reactions, her perfect tits, her luscious legs (My bad, I’m seriously reminiscing here……..)

Anyway, it all levels off back down to a normal baseline (Except for her admirers and your haters) once you get used to it — Just like everything else in Life.

Conversely, you know it’s the exact opposite feeling if you’ve ever kissed a below average woman before — You’re extremely aware that your lips are touching hers and you’re subtly wondering what you’re doing with your Life.

prof_franco · 2026-03-29T22:08:28+00:00

You need to be absolutely confident in yourself. Anywhere you go, any restaurant, any street you walk or interactions you have with your girls people will be STARING. Girls will always come up and compliment. And you just have to be absolutely sure of yourself.

MrDownhillRacer · 2026-03-29T22:40:40+00:00

I mean, it's great. Sex is great, because even though a big part of sex is sexual chemistry and skill, another big part is just raw attractiveness. All other factors being equal, sex with a hot person is more pleasurable than sex with a less hot person. I mean, being with hot people feels good. That's why people want hot people in the first place.

It's kind of like how eating delicious food tastes good, so that's why people want delicious food. Yeah, you don't need delicious food to exist, and there is plenty of non-delicious food that is good for you. But it feels good to eat, and all other factors being equal, people will prefer the delicious food to the non-delicious food. It doesn't even conceptually make sense to say "eating delicious food doesn't feel any better than eating non-delicious food."

One thing I did notice: the hottest women I've dated never offered to split the bill. I don't know if it's just an attractiveness premium you have to pay. If it's like "I'm in higher demand, so I can net a higher price." Eventually, it was was like "I'm a broke student. Does this chick think I'm made of money?"

But it's really hard to lower your standards again after being with a total dime. You want to date equal attractiveness or higher. I know folks will say "looks shouldn't matter that much," but it just plain would not be fair to a future partner if I was secretly wishing she looked as good as a past one.

Culius_Jaesar · 2026-03-29T23:17:04+00:00

First of all. She was 34 and single. She seemed to have a great personality, read books, cared about politics. So I couldn’t figure out how such a 10 was single. Sex at beginning was great, great body and figure.

Turns out she enjoyed attention from other men, lots in her DM’s, didn’t like having sex except when drunk.

She wanted to mould me into a man she wished I was, wanted to almost choose my hobbies, books I read, the amount of times o went to the gym.

It was a hell of a relationship. When we broke up she was a 6/10 in my eyes.

fredewio · 2026-03-29T23:24:06+00:00

I was expecting at least one picture in these comments but nope.

vacationbae · 2026-03-29T23:29:08+00:00

I’ve had my share of beautiful women, I’ve been called a “Black Chad” whatever that means.

You eventually accept that men are going to turn around and look at her ass when your together (everywhere you go)

I’ve seen grown men climbing out of passenger side windows while the car is going full speed just to say “GOT DAMN” Tupac style when he spit at the camera if you know what I mean lol

Men will either give you respect…or try to talk to her when you go to the bathroom

Naughty women will try to sleep with you after they see your Lady…sometimes just to expose to her that you cheated in an attempt to make her jealous

It’s a satisfying experience when she loves you, I need to stress that she has to love you if you want the good experience because pretty girls get lots of free shit and she’ll always share that free shit with the man she loves.

YashiroOG · 2026-03-29T21:05:30+00:00

I think one of the biggest things is paying attention to why they’re with you. Do they actually care about your appearance, your demeanor, your presence… or just what you have and what comes with you?

As for the experience, it’s different.

You’ll catch people staring a lot. Sometimes it’s admiration, sometimes it’s straight up confusion, like “how did this dude pull her?” I usually just smile, rub the back of my neck, and keep it moving.

Everywhere you go, you get treated better. It’s like you’re walking around with a VIP pass. No lines, better service, more attention, especially if she looks like someone who could be famous. You’re with a “queen,” so naturally you’ve gotta carry yourself like a king.

The experiences are wild. Girls like that don’t come easy, but they definitely come with a lot of doors opening. You end up meeting people you’d never normally meet. I once became friends with a guy who owned multiple banks just because he thought it was insane I pulled a girl like that. Meanwhile, she had already turned down hedge fund guys, fashion designers, big-time entrepreneurs, you name it.

Life’s a game, and yeah… being in that situation definitely makes certain parts easier.

That said, the real key? Actually liking them as a person first. When there’s genuine friendship underneath it, everything else just hits way different.

DamnThatHeadBig · 2026-03-29T20:18:26+00:00

Fantastic

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2026-03-29T20:19:10+00:00

Makes me think building an online gravitational pull in a particular niche or such that guys can't replicate as such or so is always the best way to kinda bring women in possibly. Even if there's a lot less eyeballs the actual interest is MUCH higher basically.

Emotional-Style5275 · 2026-03-29T20:31:26+00:00

Overrated. In this day and age they’re so pandered to online they have super inflated egos. I’ve been with a few 10s who were really boring in bed too.

CTEcowboi · 2026-03-29T20:19:48+00:00

I Can’t answer this but another question for the lucky few who got to experience this: how in the world did you even get into a relationship with a 10?

They seem impossible to talk to online and cold approach seems unlikely to work with all the other attention she gets

Affectionate_Delay35 · 2026-03-29T20:37:05+00:00

Great. In my case, she wanted to live abroad so we broke up but it was great. The 11 usually is a trick, she was rich, almost famous and it felt like some cold shower sometimes

TheMrMacaroni · 2026-03-29T20:56:19+00:00

I’ve dated 8+ girls that were also rich and from wealthy family on top.

I think girls from wealthy backgrounds are more of a headache than their looks imo.

They were bewildered that I was paying for my own trips or things like parking fines etc.

zebekias · 2026-03-29T21:12:24+00:00

At 40 I dated a 28yo Thai-American exotic beauty (a 10 in my eyes) that turned heads everywhere we went, but was total nightmare to deal with. Thanks to her I found my type looks wise, and now happily married with 3 kids, and she still looks stunning.

DalekSupreme23 · 2026-03-29T21:24:44+00:00

Depends some are very demanding and some are very chill. But you have to get use a lot of men looking and trying to make advances. Some will be disrespectful about it.

cloudtwelvy · 2026-03-29T21:40:36+00:00

I dated a 10/10 once in my life, last summer we had a coffee date and later on we planed to go to greece togheter but it didnt happen sadly but on the other hand im glad because she looked more for somebody to go on vacation with her to protect her and take cute photos which i can both do but she was very picky and arrogant..

SatsuiNoHadou_ · 2026-03-29T21:40:57+00:00

Honestly I was too insecure to be with her, but my fears ended up being correct. Lol. I’m sure there’s true unicorns out there though (10 personality with 10 looks)

WigglyDust · 2026-03-29T21:41:54+00:00

I found it exhausting. Yeah she was super hot but at no point could I let my foot off the gas. If I wasn’t giving her 100% of my attention, another guy would step in to give it to her. And in the end that’s exactly what happened.

She also has a history of cheating on every one of her boyfriends. So I knew what I was signing up for. But I had to try. Physically she was perfect.

serialcompression · 2026-03-29T21:48:42+00:00

Enjoyable from a vanity point of view especially because the girl I dated was rich and smart her job and education alone would make people double take. Didn't make much of a difference because for all that intelligence she didn't know how to act in a relationship, not like she cheated but she was wildly disrespectful so I ended up having to end the relationship relatively quickly.

I don't think of her as "the one that got away" but more of a sad lesson in how even when people love each other they can end up hurting each other deeply even if they didn't meant to. Also she was the one that cemented "Never tell women your problems" because she did in fact use my anxieties/worries against me, albeit perhaps subconsciously but never the less...

OilMelodic1987 · 2026-03-29T22:03:36+00:00

It was awesome. Picked her up in a bar, a chinese model. She was so attractive, everywhere we went people would tell her how beautiful she was. Constant validation and boost to the self-esteem. She was so hot she would have people invite her to party on yachts, pay for her villas, etc. And at the end of the day, that girl then comes to bed with you and you have the best sex of your life.

MasterYoda7 · 2026-03-29T22:59:57+00:00

All is vanity

MacinTez · 2026-03-29T23:36:29+00:00

Honestly? Not great.

Some have deep character flaws that they hide with their looks. They’re typically not that great in bed, even with their willingness to perform certain sex acts they don’t do them well. Many threads on Reddit spoke about BJ’s and how some women would rather look good doing it as opposed to actually LIKE doing it. They’re either not deep intellectually or superficially intelligent. Don’t understand pretty privilege, so their ego can be distinct (My job is hard and I really am good at it even tho my boss wants to screw me so bad that he gave me a 30% raise). My criteria as far as a “10” has 100% changed because of this.

My “10” may be a 7-8 in looks, but a 9 in bed, and a 9 in personality, and 10 in hygiene 😂.

kornhell · 2026-03-29T23:43:28+00:00

You get all the looks from everyone or I saw other people staring at her. Men tried to flirt with her in front of me. Other women got attracted to me in the long term, because hey, I must be got at something to attract her, right? Wherever we went, we got looks from everyone. It was cool for the two weeks we spend together every year, but as a serious relationship it would annoy me to have that "being center of interest everywhere we go". The sex was insanely good, but there surely are super model type of girls that are boring in bed.

Anyway, she has a kid now and is 15 years older in her middle forties, so I'm pretty curious how people would react now.

060Bdk · 2026-03-30T00:07:04+00:00

10/10 and most 10/10s have BPD. Hooooooly fuck everything I did was not enough and everything I did was wrong. I miss the attractiveness and sex but the headache is what you gotta deal with EVERYDAY

Friendly-Win-2115 · 2026-03-30T00:50:49+00:00

Headache

sir_calv · 2026-03-29T20:58:52+00:00

never again. they will act prestige and are used to men paying for everything. i'm no beta male about to get used.

_your_face · 2026-03-29T22:36:36+00:00

They’re so annoying.

Finding like a 9 who blossomed late in life is the unicorn.

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2026-03-29T20:26:39+00:00

Had a girl that worked out twice a day and I AM happy to say that I think the first we had sex was EASILY one of the best rounds I've ever performed....

Nonetheless it didn't work out for long and she was ALWAYS late as shit and said it was just a quirk of hers....

Was annoying as shit given....I don't know were got damn adults?!?

She was fairly sweet as well but it just didn't work out for long.

Nonetheless I'll ALWAY be proud of how damn good my performance was with that one.

I have had some cute ones in the last year or so as well. Like 7s and up consistently. (I was in a bit of a slump-ish post pandemic or for a few years but corrected over the last year or two and got my groove back).

Had another DAMN good looking girl in December but....dear Lord I had to do a LOT of the lifting and she barely had to do anything and yet still kinda played bullshit a bit. We only ended up meeting twice but she was a LOT of fun.

I'm heavily into bdsm and kinks as of the last few years after I had a threesome where I made both women cum at the same time multiple times before they EVER had to worry about me and them we ALL came at the same time when we all went at it.

I've probably grabbed over 30 kink toys or accessories in the last two years or so and have a SLEW of things built out.....as of last maybe October or so once I acquired a certain amount of things or items....it's likely those items and the genuine experience I could provide created it's OWN set of gravity for me if that makes sense.

Nonetheless, i think most would WAY rather take a cute seven or so that can be an 8 when she dresses on point and is WAY more aggressive than a 9 or 10 that's just gonna be a CONSTANT pain in the ass....

Nonetheless I've seen SEVERAL times where a girl is like a six.....AT BEST and yet still wants to play bullshit and games and make you jump through hoops for SEVERAL reasons....

Yeah....nah.

Matter_Still · 2026-03-29T20:40:15+00:00

How is it even possible that not one guy had something positive to say about the experience: it was always the same tired B.S.—they’re self-centered, stupid; they couldn’t spell “cat” if you spotted them the “c” and the “t”.

Keeping in mind the whole dumb 1-10 scale is arbitrary (I know girls who rate George Clooney a “6” and Scarlett Johansson, a “5”) I’ve had relationships with two by my standards—and both were wonderful. Intoxicating, in fact. One was an attorney, the other a veterinarian.

In fact, I’d go so far as to say those who some might describe as “mids” were not infrequently the more ill-mannered, superficial, and demanding.

And here’s something to chew on: numerous studies find no evidence that lower intelligence is associated with higher physical beauty; in fact, some studies show a positive correlation between attractiveness and IQ.

A few notables: Emma Watson went to Oxford, Danika Mckellar has an IQ of 154, Cindy Crawford was a Valedictorian with a GPA of 4.0; Alivia Keys began composing at age four. Sharon Stone’s IQ is 154,

The lawyer I dated graduated from U. Chicago and the Vet, who specialized in ophthalmology, graduated from U.C. Davis, one of the word’s premier institutions.

I suppose it’s quasi-comforting to believe the “Fair Play” myth: nature compensates for beauty by inflicting dumbness on the beautiful and gives a leg up to the unattractive by making them smart.

I guess this is why smart guys are depicted as George McFly and not Aston Kutcher.

PoweredByCoffee5000 · 2026-03-29T22:24:44+00:00

Honestly? So, while for the most part of my life I dated 6 to 8 range, I got fortunate in dating specifically two 9 to 10. One of them was bi, gamer girl, spontaneous to sudden bursts of doing random wild and exciting things. - in the summary that any guy would dream of. Skinny outgoing blonde with blue eyes. Loved to ride horses and WoW hardcore player. She would eat metric ton of fast food as well and never seemingly to gain any weight as well, always looking healthy without trying (good genes).

What was the huge drawback that eventually led us to the breakup? When you date someone at that level here are the cons that I've noticed:

They will (may, but in 9 out of 10 will know and will not since they lived and grew up in that environment, so it is both subconscious and/or self aware) not tell how high maintenance they're. She kept saying through entire relationship, when we lived together "I am low maintenance!" - The fk no she wasn't. Everyday with th googly eyes and that sweet voice it was "Hey sexy, may I get that Venti Mocha Latte?" "May I get that Boston Market Chicken Pot Pie Meal?" - it was non stop the rides to get her fast food between her WoW sessions and her online college classes. She didn't work (on that later).
They tend to be very self centered without coming out as such. She got fired from her work as Starbucks Barrista (and she transferred from CA to Midwest to live with me - keeping her pay rate of 15 to 17$/hrs in comparison to about 9$/hour - huge pay discrepancy for transferring to Midwest from one of the most expensive states to live in and she was from OC). She started out good, with a lot of cooworkers liking her, but her snobby attitude towards her manager and associate manager, took her one alarm clock not working one day, for them to change her schedule to 2 hours shifts (what typically such establishments do to not fire people but get rid of them without straight up firing them).
She was emotional cheater and hypocrite to the core. Keep in mind it is probably also gow women percieve cheating. When you date someone at level 9 or 10, you'd think you made it. Oh boy, the competition has just started. Every dude will want the piece of that and they would definitely do everything to treat you (the dudes) that either that you don't exist at best or subtly drive the convos to throw the shade on you at the worst. Quite often it is both.
To emotional cheater part. She would allow the dudes straight up to hit on her both in real life and online (such as WoW), even when I would tell her "Hey that dude is definitely having the crush on you and this is not okay". Example: There was one time, while we.was sitting at Chinese Buffet she straight up blurted "How her friend on WoW named Steve tried to get the hotel room, tickets for both of them for Blizzard/WoW Con and how he was pissed off that the 200$ worth tickets got sold out within seconds". I was definitely there going into WTF mode, she instead matched started yelling and berating me for being possessive and jealous freak, that I was overreacting to who is "Just an Online WoW friend" who was clearly flirting with her for entire time. Not gonna lie, I cried like a B for the first time, not because of helplessness of the situation, but the feeling that I am being treated as such and unable to do anything about it, while feeling like I was the guilty party. This very muscular, athletic dude, combat veteran and at that time working as CO at mid to max sec penitentiary dropping tears at the effing Chinese buffet. Would you think of anything anymore pathetic? Those 10s can afford that level of manipulation. Just for the background she was married prior to meeting me, cheated while she was married with another guy she met through WoW, and then broke up with that guy and started dating me, then after our break up within 3 days she was already banging what is probably still or was her husband, also from WoW.
To the Hypocrite part Example: She literally broke up with me once through WoW and said "we should take things separately for a bit from each other", while she moved back to CA with her parents. For the reasonably thinking man this means break up in the plain black and white message. When one of the girls (18 year old mechanic girl) at my Army unit found out, she was all over me. I was still mopping after basically being dumped with the twisted gymnastics words over the WoW, while this cute 18 year old (I was 23 at that time) kept inviting me to hangout with her and, as any lonely feeling human being I did. We went on the dog dates (I owned Australian Shepherd Ibought as present for ex and she owned German Shepherd). Intimacy wise, I kept my distance since after coming from dating someone that you see as 10/10 both physically and character wise, there was just the feeling that it would never get any better and you effed up. Should of just let her walk all over you (BTW the reason we broke up, it was due to us spending less and less time in WoW - the only.way we could and the only that became common between us since she left the Midwest. I talked to one of her guildmate girlfriends mentioning it - big mistake).

When that 18 year old invited me on her friends list, and after are first dog play date, she made the public post saying word for word "I thought I was going to meet really cute boyfriend tonight, but it wasn't meant to be! (Crying emoji) But at least I made a really good friend." - My ex was apparently reading it and mind you - after "online breaking up with me" all the way from CA by "let's take things apart from each other for a bit" siddenly began to call me 30 times a day and cursing my existence, how I am cheater, how I am nasty SOB 23 year old hanging out with "nasty 18 year olds" (as in US Army soldier - full on grown adult with 4 years plus tail the age difference). It didn't matter to her. She quickly spread the word among her family and friends of how much of the cheater I was and evil, while she was this innocent victim, being cheated on thousand + miles away.

Unfortunately if you read through this, it is quite common at the level of 9 or 10, when the people been treated and lived in or know they're at level 9 or 10 value.

There are exceptions of course, but tend not to be the norm.

Title	Men who date 10/10 (gorgeous type of women), what was the experience like?
Author	Parking_Custard5235
Upvotes	169
Comments	130
Date	March 29, 2026 7:37 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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