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greatnesdbyamu
[β]NonRedittorFDS Newbie178 points179 points180 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Most of the time they dont even miss YOU. They miss the attention you gave them and the ego boost they got
[β]Appropriate-Pea-7345FDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think itβs deff an 80/20 mix, with 80% of the time being that they donβt miss you
[β]theperfectsunflowerFDS Apprentice370 points371 points372 points 3 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
My old self used to be flattered when a man came out of the blue with an βI miss youβ but now I know they just want to see if they still have access to you.
[β]gambuchaFDS Newbie86 points87 points88 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I used to think it was flattering as well because it came from narcissistic men I was hurt by. I thought it was sincere but now I realize some play only games and that shit isnβt sincere
[β]heythere360FDS Apprentice37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Isnβt it such a mind fuck realization??
[β]greatnesdbyamuFDS Newbie[S] 86 points87 points88 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This!!!!!!
[β]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist61 points62 points63 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"My life isn't better without you in it". Well, DUH. Stay sad.
[β]Struggleis4realFDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I detest this phrase. It would irk me when guys would text me βI miss youβ; like DUDE you donβt even know me enough to miss me! We stopped talking for a reason!
[β]plutonian_princessFDS Newbie102 points103 points104 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I dedicate this also to my toxic pickme friends who still try to contact me despite being dumped years ago β¨
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[β]ms_monquisFDS Disciple62 points63 points64 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's not bad to miss someone.
What we're talking about here is someone using sentimentality as a tool to manipulate you. Knowing someone is thinking about you when you're not there feels good, and there are people who knowingly use this as a way to make you feel warmly about them while they offer nothing new or valuable.
So this post is very contextual, like a lot of the posts here are. Someone who did not treat you well, who didn't deserve your attention at THAT time, reappears with sweet (trigger) words, hoping to smooth over past misdeeds, that's the bad thing.
I tell my *actual* friends that I miss them all the time. And that's because I actually do miss them, not because I'm just trying to slide back into their lives like some greased up poltergeist.
[β]IDontExist4uFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Greased up poltergeist π
[β]SarcasmSlideFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I tell my actual friends that I miss them all the time. And that's because I actually do miss them, not because I'm just trying to slide back into their lives like some greased up poltergeist.
Biiiiiiiiiiitch π π
[β]HottPinkSlugFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Boooom
[β]letsdoityesterdayFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mood for life.
[β]_nyleaFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha, yep. My ex (who I have a restraining order on) texted me that he βmisses me terriblyβ...to my email, since obviously I blocked him on everything.
At some point, itβs just so pathetic that itβs laughable.
[β]LemonEnhancingPolishFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The Pisces in me is glad I can swim TF away.
[β]stg21987FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can drop em and swim as far away as possible. Pisces power!
[β]MomcellaFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I needed to read these exact comments. Having received the "Hey! I miss you." text, my emotions are playing tug of war.
[β]fresiparFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
it's not real. if he really missed you, he'd find ways to show up and fight for you; i'm sure he had plenty of chances before your final decision. it's only manipulation; forget it and move on.
[β]MomcellaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree 100%. It's such a struggle relearning.
[β]Annia_CornificiaFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol this is so fucking relatable. All my exes have tried to get me back and now I realize it's because I was the better half in the relationship.
[β]bootyandthebeetFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Argh I have an unhealthy fantasy of my LVM-ex trying to get back together with me and me laughing in his face
[β]throwawayy92838383Ruthless Strategist6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% this!
[β]AotearoaCanuckFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg this SO good!! πΈπ»
[β]sunset_sunshine30FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is spot on
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[β]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist61 points62 points63 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[β]Struggleis4realFDS Newbie47 points48 points49 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[β]ms_monquisFDS Disciple62 points63 points64 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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