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Woman finds out her boyfriend has been browsing TRP. Hamstering ensues.

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Title Woman finds out her boyfriend has been browsing TRP. Hamstering ensues.
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Upvotes 156
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Date July 10, 2014 7:58 PM UTC
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[–]Algermas236 points237 points238 points 12 years ago (71 children) | Copy Link

Their relationship was perfect because he swallowed TRP, that's what's making her furious.

[–]MorePancakes136 points137 points138 points 12 years ago (43 children) | Copy Link

But that isn't even what she said. She said he had been commenting for months! But she wasn't upset till she knew. She obviously likes the man TRP helps this guy to be... But she hates the name.

[–]Algermas96 points97 points98 points 12 years ago (39 children) | Copy Link

Women hate TRP because deep down they know it works, if it didn't work they wouldn't be upset.

[–]eugene_goldfarb31 points32 points33 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Women hate TRP because we talk straight instead of in code. If you wrap it up in prettier language you can put it on every radio station in America. Like the song "Restless Heart," about refusing to commit to a duplicitous slut. Note how much more palatable it is to say someone has a restless heart than it is to call them a slut, but it's the same thing.

[–]Algermas14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Definitely, I can get all but the most stalwart feminst to agree with everything TRP advocates as long as I reword it to sound less direct and harsh.

[–]eugene_goldfarb9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's also why so many of us needed TRP to snap out of fantasy land. The truth was all around us the whole time, but it was wisely disguised to seem less offensive. So many of us were (or still are) socially thick, and we needed help to start reading between the lines.

[–][deleted] 5 points5 points5 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I think what he meant was Women usually beat around the bush or try to give off signals instead of just hitting the nail on the head and being done with it.

[–][deleted] 3 points3 points3 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If that's what you meant, then I agree 100%.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW161 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I disagree with you keyboard_mash, here's why. Every term here is clearly defined and there is even a glossary for readers to check out. So when someone says "What do you mean I should increase my VALUE?" People have defined value and will say something like "Hit the gym, dress better, make more money, cultivate interesting hobbies." That isn't code and the word 'value' isn't a code word, just a defined term.

Now go to XX subreddit or any fem subreddit. Read their dating advice. What does "just be yourself" actually mean? Those 3 little words actually take a few paragraphs to flesh out. They are filled with ideological baggage. Firstly, they want you to be yourself because they want natural-alphas to be easily recognizable. They want beta boys to stay beta providers so they always have a backup option when getting off the carousel, which they ride due to good ol' hypergamy. Wow, already getting quite complicated, but why don't girls just find me attractive when I am already myself? Oh, you must think that just by being yourself you are entitled to the female body! So you are a misogynistic pig! Wait, I just want to know how to attract a g/f! Well "just be yourself" and when the time comes, it will happen! /s

Feminism talks in code because it is a bait-and-switch, entirely dishonest ideology. It promotes the hatred of men and therefore seeks to take away men's tools in all spheres of the sexual arena. Feminism uses code that can't really be translated, it must be explained and interpreted. TRP uses jargon, but it is all up front and available for quick reference. X = Y simple as that. No tricks, no games, simple truth.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW161 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A car-related subreddit uses "code words" like muffler, torque, top speed, exhaust, intake, etc. to talk about cars. TRP has a variety of "code words" like sexual market value, tingles, hypergamy, orbiter, etc to talk about male-female interaction.

[–]alphabux0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

By "code", he means sugarcoating.

[–]lloopy-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love that. "Hey, that skirt makes you look like you have a restless heart" sounds so much nicer than "...skank whore"

[–]MorePancakes59 points60 points61 points 12 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure, I think that's right... I think women hate it because humans have the need to feel special and different. They hate the idea of them being that predictable.

The same way I don't like "all men... etc" posts.

[–]Algermas56 points57 points58 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

They see it as "manipulation", of course when women tell eachother about what makeup to wear or how to dress to impress that's just dating advice.

Telling guys to get off their ass and to the gym is "manipulation".

[–]CocaineOnThaSink40 points41 points42 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Man I went to the track today and it manipulated the shit out of me.

[–]MorePancakes8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, nobody likes to be manipulated.

[–]TheRealMewt12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Me and my new muscles and confidence don't mind being manipulated.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can put lipstick on a pig... but she'll still be a hamplanet.

[–][deleted] 3 points3 points3 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Algermas0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Specifically in shape? No, but TRP as a whole? Yes. Even though it's all about the same self improvement.

Women hate TRP because they want to keep their beta "bitchboy" orbiters. If every man took the pill and saw reality as it is they wouldn't all magically become Super Ultra Alpha males but they would stop being orbiters.

And who would do her homework/listen to her complain/drive her to the airport/help pay her rent if she didn't have orbiters?

[–]Leovinus_Jones25 points26 points27 points 12 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

More like no one - considering ourselves to be conscious individuals above biological programming - wants to be reminded of the fact that we are, in fact, animals. Animals with a wide range of biological imperatives, drives and behavioural traits, men and women both.

This sub is simply about the objective study of the female side of that - and the adaptation of corresponding male behaviour to capitalize on it. They resent the idea that their inner workings - not so much of their conscious minds but unconscious drives, biases and tendencies, is a well read and presented open book, available for men to read.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I like to think that while we as humans are animals. The fact that we can think and reason enables us the unique trait to selectively choose to ignore certain aspects of biological programming.

This trait alone is what separates humans from other animals.

[–]Leovinus_Jones4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely.

However it seems that TRP is predicated on the notion that women are unable to overcome certain aspects of that programming; at least in a sexual sense.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I actually think women are capable of overcoming aspects of their programming.

It is just that we as a society have provided incentives and disincentives that combined have prevented women from ever needing to overcome aspects of their programming. Thus only women who consciously decide to do so (red pill women) ever overcome their programming.

[–]RulerZod1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My thoughts exactly for awhile now. They will not overcome it cause why would they have to bother?

[–]boscoist8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am an animal. I have no qualms about that fact. Of course I also don't believe in sky fairies or an afterlife. People seem to get mad when I disagree with them for trying to give things a higher purpose.

[–]MorePancakes2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Completely agree with that.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm an animal i have no problems with it.

[–][deleted] 3 points3 points3 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One of my favorite fake pick up lines: "Let's just assume I said the right thing to get into your pants tonight and skip the chit-chat."

This would obviously never work unless your body language and chemistry were already spot on, but I love the message this promotes: There's a certain something a woman is looking for when you're making that connection in conversation, and if you hit on it, you get to hit it.

[–]MorePancakes0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, some people just can't see it.

[–]super-nsfw0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The same way I don't like "all men... etc" posts.

I'm perfectly fine with this provided the generalization is true.

[–]MorePancakes1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ehh I don't like fitting into any cookie cutter molds, but I wouldn't argue if the generalization is true.

[–]LineOfCoke5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think I would be pissed too if confronted with thefact that I was actually a simple machine that thought I was a person. Push a button, pull a lever, wind a crank, and watch her do exactly what you intend!

[–]MrMathamagician-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

ie The lady doth protesst too much, methinks

[–]PenisInBlender2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She hates that he reads things about men's rights and might break up with him for simply reading something. But proudly displays her feminist agenda and expects him to support her toxic ideas.

How is that okay?

I hope for his sake she does break up with him.

[–]MorePancakes0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

agreed, but there is question if the story was even true. All the same I hope he sees it.

[–]writewhereileftoff38 points39 points40 points 12 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

Yet they haven't had sex in a while. That poor sap.

[–]ButterMyBiscuit50 points51 points52 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

That's probably why he started on TRP in the first place. Back when I was a beta boy early in an LTR (embarrassingly, cringe-level BP) and still got sex, I thought TRP type thinking was stupid garbage. Then the sex dried up and I got sad and resentful. Then, predictably, the relationship died.

Then I found TRP and realized how right it was all along.

[–]1PaulRivers1012 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yet they haven't had sex in a while. That poor sap.

Actually, did it actually say that in the post? I searched for "sex" and it didn't say anything like that, just said "Our relationship was so perfect until today".

Edit: Ah, she repeats it several times further down in the comments. Honestly, it's kinda hard to believe that it's a real post - what actual feminists claim their relationship is so perfect without sex? Seems...odd...

[–]NoFappin201415 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I was thinking it looked like a troll post. Some of her comments are just too extreme. Or maybe she's just a fucking moron who knows

[–]huge_gap11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. It almost seems like a woman - hating TRP fanatic wanted to create propaganda to then make a red pill post about it and reap karma/TRP circle-jerking.

[–]dgillz3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes she said it a couple of times in the thread.

[–]Algermas34 points35 points36 points 12 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Just because they haven't been having sex doesn't mean he's not having sex.

[–]MorePancakes17 points18 points19 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Or he is one of the TRPers looking for a legit LTR? It'd be funny though if he saw this post at work before he gets home lolol.

[–][deleted] 34 points35 points36 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If he's reading this. Maintain Frame!

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Cant call himself a TRPer if he's looking for a LTR with a feminist.

[–]LineOfCoke24 points25 points26 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

not necessarily. what is dating a feminist if not playing the game on God Mode?

[–]elevul11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

More like Nightmare Difficulty. God Mode makes the game as easy as possible.

[–]GC0W304 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TRP God Mode would be fucking nothing but 500-lb-ers who were raped as kids and flat broke.

[–]LineOfCoke0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i was thinking ofcivilization, where deity is the highest level of difficulty and cheiftain is the lowest.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminists do often make fabulous plates - the internalized hatred they have for feminine traits makes them think they actually want to just fuck with no commitment. Somehow, their hamster makes them believe they can stick it to the man... but getting stuck by the man.

[–]kenatogo2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He could have already been in the LTR before takin the red pill

[–]MorePancakes0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Valid point, just whole thing seems odd.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Actually... This is great for him!

[–]love2fap14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

she also goes on to say they havent had sex in awhile. a good measure of how well your relationship is going is by the sex. albeit, wouldnt put it past her to lie about how much sex they dont have.

edit-just found out this was a troll post

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Where was the evidence of it being a troll? Sure it's extreme, but still I know people who would post this kind of trash. Or did the poster come out?

edit- I should have read the comments below -_-

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[–]AlmostRP4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Either that or their relationship was perfect for her and shitty for him.

[–][deleted] 95 points96 points97 points 12 years ago (33 children) | Copy Link

sexistentialist is a clear gimmick/troll account. I hope you all keep that in mind before making a comment on this issue.

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[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor26 points27 points28 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It was pretty plausible. LOTS of women are that crazy.

Love how the "dumb misogynist TRP'ers" outed you so fast while the 2-X Hamsters kept spinning.

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman24 points25 points26 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you all are supposed to be my sisters and you treat me like this?!

Nice one ;)

Though I have to admit I was actually pleasantly surprised they called you out on sniffing through "your boyfriend's" posting history.

[–]Algermas34 points35 points36 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Actually, plenty of women are that crazy. Snooping and being outraged at what they find is the bread and butter of the <35 female.

[–]weag5l5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Game works best on the crazy ones, my friend... The sane ones are less gamable.

[–]lesbianDREAMS0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

sane ones

Where do you find these unicorns?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

hot / intelligent / not crazy, pick 2.

[–]puaSenator0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You often get 1, and are lucky if you get 2.... And if you won the lotto within the sexual marketplace, you get all three.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Sorry for blowing your cover. I just can't stand the redpiller circlejerks that happen over those kinds of threads.

"I-I knew women were shitty! Look at this reddit thread!"

It's just a cycle of phase 2 that never ends.

[–]MakeTheSexyTalk3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I came here to beg the "boyfriend" for a field report.

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[–]duckducklandwhale0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol. I just typed your username into the page to get to this comment. Something about the way you wrote was odd.

[–]eisbaerBorealis1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So did the mods find you out and delete your thread, or did you delete it after getting your kicks and giggles?

[–]MassivePenis0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry to break it to you but MOST women are exactly that crazy.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was such an obvious trolling attempt. Don't know how they all bought it.

[–]MorePancakes3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Saw another post saying that, looked briefly through her history and didn't see anything obvious.

[–]TehFuggernaut8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

She has to be a troll - I'm reading her responses and they are inane and looney. I feel like anyone who reads at least a couple articles here can get a good sense of what it is: solid advice for men, with a little misogyny, a little WTF, and a little 'women actually do this in real life' examples thrown in.

And plenty of dudes saying idiotic bullshit about how they hit the bar and slew tons of pussy. But thats fine too - its guys being guys and talking about what works for them with women.

[–]ButterMyBiscuit6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She identifies as a feminist.

[–]puaSenator9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I've dated girls who identified as catholic who would let me fuck them in their parent's bed. Actions > words

People identify as shit all the time, but at the end of the day, it's about how they behave. I'm sure there are many feminist -- no excuse me -- I'm sure most feminists like TRP men.

There was once a post a year or so ago in some female sub that made /r/bestof where the discussion was about feminist women who hate the fact that they like TRP type men. They just can't help themselves liking cocky alpha types even though it goes against their core beliefs.

You can't use logic to out smart biology. That shit is solid.

Though, I'd never date a chick who posts in feminist subs, because you know she's going to be a mess to deal with. There is the normal life which you can manage, then a bunch fat ugly feminists on the otherside filling her head with BS. Then she's going to be constantly having these dialectic tensions which will just fuck up the relationship.

[–]Senior Contributorexit_sandman0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm sure there are many feminist -- no excuse me -- I'm sure most feminists like TRP men.

Unless they call it TRP...

Then she's going to be constantly having these dialectic tensions which will just fuck up the relationship.

Where has all that good old "thesis - antithesis - synthesis" brought us...

[–]NakedAndBehindYou0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm reading her responses and they are inane and looney.

You'd be surprised how many retards there are in the world.

[–]theredpillager0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I came here to cry troll. Glad you beat me to it. Funny hamstering though.

[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend61 points62 points63 points 12 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Chances are, that if he's agreeing with our premises, he will see her bullshit and dump her. Dating a feminist, especially batshit insane fourth wave one, is like making love to a ticking time bomb. She's going to throw all "stonk independent womyn" when she accidentally gets pregnant.

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan38 points39 points40 points 12 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

I stopped reading when I read "she's a feminist". There are certain catch-phrases that women say that should have you running, not walking, away. It ranks right up there with "I'm hyphenating my name if I get married" or "I'm a strong, independent single mother."

[–]1 TRP SupporterFred_Flintstone31 points32 points33 points 12 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

I know a guy who took his wife's surname when he married her.

...Let that sink in for a minute...

To make matters worse it was a hyphenated surname because of her mother being a feminist!! He got his mother-in-law and father-in-law's surnames hyphenated together as his new surname. His old surname was only 4 letters and now its like 20

Might be one of the first betas in the world to do that...

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I got a similar one: I know a guy who hyphenated his own name along with his wife when they married and then when they had a son the kid got ONLY THE WIFE'S NAME. She completely hijacked the guy's legacy in favor of her own.

[–]Endorsed ContributorRedBigMan37 points38 points39 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well given the guy is probably a huge beta pussy it's probably not his DNA in the kid anyway.

[–]RulerZod13 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I laughed out loud until I realized how likely and sad that is :'(

[–]Johnny_Shades2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That shows who's in charge of the relationship. If the woman respected the guy and followed him, she would gladly take his name. If she's leading the relationship, that beta bitch is going to follow her.

[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

See, in some cases I would have no problem taking my wife's surname. If it's Habsburg and we're in the medieval ages, or if it's Rotschild or such.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16-2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You pull a woman up to your station, not the other way around.

[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. Dating a feminist is like dating a Jew dating a hardcore Nazi. They might "love" you, but ultimately they will be more than willing to gas you to get a promotion.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When I get around to starting a useful quote folder, you can bet your ass this will be in it.

[–]Johnny_Shades0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

An average girl saying she's a feminist (not a butch lesbian kind) is usually just a girl who wants to trick herself into thinking she's independent and don't need no man.

My buddy's GF preaches feminism yet we shit on her about it and she reacts to our dialogue like any girl would. Labeling an average girl a batshit insane bitch just because she embraces feminism is like people saying TRPer's are abusive dickwads.

However, obviously based on this girls text in that post, she may be the batshit insane kind. I'm just saying, not all girls who identify with feminism are like that. It's more a power trip for them.

[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dating a feminist, especially batshit insane fourth wave one

Considering how contemporary feminism is third wave, and third wave feminism makes second wave (you know, E=MC2 is sexist equation) look sane in comparison it's safe to assume that any girl with any knowledge of feminism will either distance herself from it (like Paglia or Hoff Sommers) and openly call them out on their bullshit or be eligible for being branded batshit insane.

[–]Johnny_Shades0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Many can be. What I'm saying and many of you are missing is that many women that say they are feminist are weak. They need some kind of unity to boost themselves up and feel better. However, deep down they are the same as any other girl. My buddy's gf always caves when we act alpha around her. It's like a self-esteem boost for her. However, a lot of feminists if not fucking all of them, are bat shit insane and entitled out the ass.

[–]insane_psycho77 points78 points79 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

relationship is perfect

Then she goes on later to say how they haven't had sex in a while. Hurr durr maybe he doesn't think it's half as perfect as you do?

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan50 points51 points52 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Solipsism defined, my friend. In her mind, I'd bet a month's salary that she truly does believe "everything was fine". Ironically, her withholding of sex is what probably drove this guy to the manosphere in the first place.

[–]EducatedCavemen6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Chicks try to manipulate man with their forbidden fruit but once a guy says "fuck that noise, I can get some punany alsewhere" girls flip that shit over and start to complain that they are the ones being manipulated. Play with fire and you will get burned.

[–][deleted] 43 points44 points45 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This seems fake.

SINCE WHEN DID THIS SUBREDDIT BECOME FULL OF TRP APOLOGISTS

you all are supposed to be my sisters and you treat me like this?!

This person is either crazy or trolling.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe it's the 4chan counter-raid spreading to reddit. (I really hope this is the case)

[–]puaSenator8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It is a troll. It's likely someone from TRP trying to "verify" TRP principles outside of the sub.

"OMG I have the perfect man and he's a terper! But I though TRP was bad! I must have been wrong all along, maybe TRP is great!"

Just stupid trolling.

[–]Endorsed ContributorWe_Are_Legion0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's likely someone from TRP trying to "verify" TRP principles outside of the sub.

I hate to be that guy but you know, that was my exact same impression as well. Pathetic if that's the case.

Show yourself so you can be banned, you worm.

EDIT: Holy shit, its true; http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ad0ds/woman_finds_out_her_boyfriend_has_been_browsing/cituxgm?context=3

[–]1Mikesapien20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's all in the title:

"Just found out my boyfriend has been reading some pretty uncomfortable sexist articles"

Reason has little, if anything, to do with it. She feels discomfort, but feeling ain't thinking.

EDIT: She goes on to say

"I don't want a guy that's trying to emotionally manipulate me by negging or whatever the hell they do over there. "

Again, feeling. Not thinking. She's furious about something she doesn't even understand.

[–]Meglomaniac7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It also hints that she has no idea what we discuss here.

She knows that reddit hates TRP for being anti-feminist. She has never read the articles, she is rolling on feelings right now, not logic.

Hamster 101.

[–]Squabbles12313 points14 points15 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I stopped reading at "proud feminist".

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[–]Misteralcala0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

THIS. Give a woman an opportunity to snoop and SHE WILL take it.

[–]Azediae11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

TL;DR There's no way to reason with someone who lacks the capacity to respect differences and entertain notions without necessarily accepting them, neither Feminism nor TRP have anything to do with ignorance.

This is basically her logic:

  • Run into your SO reading something you don't agree with
  • "How could he betray my trust like this and read that toxic garbage"
  • "Our relationship was so perfect until today" (read: TRP works)
  • "and I can't WAIT to hear his explanation" (implying one is owed)

You could replace TRP and Feminism with Democrats and Republicans, Progressives and Conservatives, or any other two opposing ideologies - taking an opinion that differs from yours as an affront is fucking retarded. Even worse, the entitlement required to imply another person owes them an explanation for not agreeing with them is mind blowing.

This is what happens when someone stands on an imaginary moral high ground: "I ran across your watercolor palette and saw shades of Orange. How dare you like Orange? You know I like Blue. Blue is a better color. Why did you like Orange behind my back? You betrayed me. You should explain yourself and work towards liking Blue."

Nietzsche said it best: You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"You're all supposed to be my sisters and you treat me like this?!"

---The troll is strong with this one...

[–]Sir_Fancy_Pants9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow she sounds like a catch.

[–]WZT4437 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is such an obvious troll but it's still hilarious.

[–]Mouthpiece4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It sounds like a brother in arms just dodged a bullet.

Interesting that she's most upset not about what specific views he may or may not agree with, but the fact that he's "one of them".

[–]joaquim565 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This owed sex business is the biggest crock of shit straw man. Part of the of the TRP is self improvement, which may include attracting women. Nothing here is about coercing women to give it up, nor is it a sense of entitlement.

TRP is totally anti-entitlement. We're going against the BP lies that tell us that if we follow a certain script, we are then entitled to things. We learn, like men, women are opportunistic as well.

This is just another invading of a male space that feminist have an obsession with. I'm grateful for TRP because unlike mainstream femcentric society, there is a place to discuss masculinity in a positive fashion, which may include how to develop and attract female sexual attention.

[–]TankVet4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, this actually smells of trolling. At least I hope. A proud feminist who claims unidirectional sexism and rails against TRP? C'mon, we didn't get set up that neatly did we?

[–]Brainiac_Outcast3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's got to be a troll account.

you all are supposed to be my sisters and you treat me like this?!

[–]Panzer_Geist10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No self respecting TRP:er dates a "proud feminist". Next her.

Pump it and dump it.

[–]Divinityfound1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To be fair.... if feminism is merely just a "shit test"....

It really doesn't matter. You just don't take their shit, roll your eyes, and have a party.

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[–]Hoodwink0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, about 70% of the freakouts I've seen women go through look fake as hell to me just because it usually breaks logical barriers. 'Outrageous' doesn't really sell fake to me anymore..

Women are a lot like Fox News - you can't really parody them because you just end up being a copy or they actually surpass your 'parody'. All you can do is just quote verbatim.

[–]Median22 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she can be a proud feminist why can't he be a proud Alpha?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a proud feminist and he knows that.

Why the Hell is this guy even considering her...

[–]nem2k2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a proud feminist

They treat women like meat. Objects for sex. Which is funny, considering we haven't had sex in a while

Not really much else to say

[–]limem2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Their relationship was perfect before she found out because the relationship was going her way and every little desires of hers were being met.

Shes a selfish prick

[–]Petrarch16032 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hope the OP's boyfriend posts in this thread

[–]_orion1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Was that a post on /r/feministfatties?

[–]1PaulRivers101 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was going to respond about how typical this is (sounds like "I'm emotionally manipulate/blackmail him because I think he might try to emotionally manipulate/blackmail me) -

Honestly, now I'm not sure if I see a future together. I don't want a guy that's trying to emotionally manipulate me by negging or whatever the hell they do over there.

But after reading through the comments the poster left, it sounds like "she" is a troll. Her comments are pretty crazy, but more pointedly I've known a lot of feminists and none of them would say "Our relationship was so perfect" about a fairly sexless relationship. She's either unusually bonkers, or a troll.

[–]JIPIDIAZ1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Who else can't stop laughing as they read through and imagine the hamster?

[–]Misteralcala1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

YUP I agree! Hamster's gonna hamst and she's hamsting as fast as hamsterly possible.

[–]Immuchtooawesome1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that's trying to emotionally manipulate me by negging or whatever the hell they do over there

Lolwut? Seems kinda irrational to be so upset over something you know nothing about.

/serious

I guess it is infinitely easier to blame rather than to learn. Come on guys lets neg some bitches.

/s

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is probably the single most TRP confirming thread I've ever seen.

[–]RulerZod1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Did anyone over there have the balls to state the obvious. The reason she felt everything was so perfect was because he was making it so lol

[–]iwannagethugeee1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, that sounds like some 4chan troll-like post. Either that, or reality is stranger than fiction and I hope they break up. No one deserves to date a feminist.

Edit: Probably should have read the comments on this thread

[–]ioncloud91 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You are fucking lucky she found out about your history bro. RUN from that shit. RUN AS FAST AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY YOU!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The more I figure out how women work, the less I can comprehend it.

Chick loves her boyfriend and everything he's about until she finds out that he's been reading this sub. Then goes insane about it. Is she that thick headed that she can't understand that she's attracted to this kind of philosophy?

[–]Senbo1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If he is on TRP regularly but hasn't seen this. He may be coughing up the pill. I'm pretty new to the sub but in would expect someone so deep into TRP would have ignored her shit and commented here

[–]CptDefB1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The fact that he's done nothing wrong, the tone she's taking in her last sentence...

It seems this is her hamster trying to rationalize its way back into feeling like some sort of independent leader, as opposed to being a woman that loves a man who knows how to be a man (and perhaps - gasp - follows his lead from time to time).

In a parallel universe, this self proclaimed feminist feeling so betrayed by her SO's contrary views, actually sits back and evaluates what this "toxic garbage" has done to her man, and her relationship. She could then hamster her way into feeling validated about being a feminist who has managed to attract a high value man... but as I type this, I realize the idea of a "high value man" may not even register on a feminist's radar (especially a self proclaimed one).

Since all the links were purple, I imagine boyfriend is here.

Keep Frame and Carry On, good sir.

[–]GC0W301 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She thinks the relationship is perfect, and they haven't had sex in a while. I'm going to submit this guy isn't actually living redpill, OR he's fucking other girls and using her as a roommate.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This woman has essentially reduced herself to the braindead mental equivalent of a subreddit. If you have any TRP in your post history, you get banned. It doesn't matter what you're like, what you say, or who you are.

He's dating r/feminism, not a real person, and she checked his post history and saw TRP.

[–]Acx31 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Guys the post is a fake- Op was just trolling lol.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The boyfriend needs to get back to us on this

[–]MaxJohnson151 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"...how should I react?!"

Well if you're asking for input from others then you're not really reacting at all. You're just acting a certain way.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I see that he's been reading it for months

and then

< Our relationship was perfect until today.

It was perfect because he was reading it, and is now ruined because she knows

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[–]Algermas6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, we have. If your boyfriend had been a beta male bluepiller you would never have sucked his dick. He's welcome.

[–]its_a_trp6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Plenty of reasonable guys that don't mistreat women post here. What makes you so mad about it?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Left it alone. Now that you're here,

1 Do you think it's unreasonable for a man to dump his girlfriend if he finds out (contrary to his perception of her) that she's slept with scores of men, participated in orgies, being sexually liberated, etc even though their relationship has been really great up until he finds it out?

2 Your boyfriend has been, and continues to be, great, right?

Your boyfriend has also been a member of this community for a while. Ok. During the entire time youve been with your BF, do you feel like he's treated you like a sex object? Has he been a woman hating misogynist? You may be surprised to learn that there are very many reasonable, kind men here, like I try to be. There is a lot of pain here, expressed by men in way that may shock you and cause you to think they're evil. There are a lot of ways to be a participate in this group, agree with things, disagree with other things, and still maintain strong amount of egalitarian respect for women.

Stop going insane, and observe your BFs behavior for a week. Is he really a slimy, manipulative TRPer? Maybe hes a good man, a great TRPer.

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[–]HitlersCow0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's is why the pill is so hard to swallow!

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you aren't trolling you should seek some counselling.

[–]1Mikesapien5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's why we use reddit snapshots - specifically so we don't send "downvote brigades" like the feminists are so fond of doing. We're here to discuss.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You should break up with him. You're too immature for a relationship.

[–]QQ_L2P3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The fact that your thread is titles "how should I react?!" (double punctuation for all that extra grammar), implies that you really don't know what to think about this yourself.

If your relationship was happy before you found this out, do you really give a shit why it was right?

Either way, if you're going to dump him do him a favour and do it "the thread is for my support and my boyfriend". Not "our support", but "my support and boyfriend", amazing. The guy would be better off without you lol.

[–]Ginger_19772 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love that it's titled 'how should I react' but in one of the replies she complains that it's labeled 'support' when someone wrote something she didn't want to read

[–]Dwarkarn2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The thing you don't realise is that if you do break up I think you are the one that is going to be taking it hard not your soon to be ex. You sound like the type of woman that gets hysterical at the drop of a hat and overreacts to the smallest things just so you can make the topic of conversation all about you. You will most likely be doing your man a favour by breaking up with him.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I mean if she is that angry she should just give her boyfriend feminist approved sites to only visit and take him to a reprogramming cult.

[–]MooMooMooN0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I'm a proud feminist"

ugggggggggghh....

[–]VarsitySlutTeamCpt0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They've been dating for over a year, everything is fine and dandy but she finds out he's a TRP and now she's upset? Ok...

[–]icallmyselfmonster0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

We haven't had sex in a while, could that be causing his resentment?

But have you read some of these articles? They treat women like meat. Objects for sex. Which is funny, considering we haven't had sex in a while...counterintuitive!!

That bitch is cray cray. Here is a Nicki Minaj song for her.

[–]dropit_reborn0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is incredible. I mean, I'm sad for the relationship and the two involved, but as an internet voyeur, I can't tear my eyes away.

[–]cooledcannon0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This sounds horribly fake/trollish. I know because its the thing I would do.

[–]diablomalambero0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I hope the boyfriend maintains frame and posts to this thread! Then gives us field reports. Then on top of it she continues posting and complaining but stays with him and he continues to field and she continues to bitch. If she was a true feminist she would have left already, that kind of behavior is unacceptable. I doubt her conviction to the cause.

[–]Average_Black_Man0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It was a troll post, which is funny because it seems perfectly plausible up until the edit.

[–]BlackFallout0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Cows. Its filled with cows. I cant believe they let livestock on Reddit!

[–]Misteralcala0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There's no such thing as bad publicity.

[–]DanG30 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If he has internalized Red Pill - is living RP - it doesn't matter that she found his history. Hopefully he just did the "right thing:" Put on his best Mickey-Rourke-in-his-prime smirk (http://www.aveleyman.com/ActorCredit.aspx?ActorID=15023), lifted an eyebrow and walked away in silence.

[–]Gold_Leaf_Initiative0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If he had been reading for months, but their relationship was perfect until today, what is the problem exactly? She herself said she liked him the way he was up until she found this out today.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why I don't fuck with this "leaving your phone / computer / ipad unlocked" shit. In the beginning of relationships its important to establish firm boundaries. No shared passwords, no going on my phone for anything, no getting on my laptop or desktop even if its just to browse the internet.

It sounds extreme, but it will severely improve your life.

[–]ComplainyGuy0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

After reading the comments.... which one of you posted this bait!

The comments are like a living caricature. I have trouble believing a person that horrible can exist and I fully assume this is baiting the crazy feminists to come out swinging.

[–]thepillwastaken0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

It's hilarious to read "her" freak out posts. What a god damn maniac. I love when she says "He's one of them!!!" like he is secretly a reptilian alien.

And yes I know its a troll post, but read the comments to the troll. Its just a great post.

[–]hipst0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That OP is TROLLING 2XC. There are some markers in there. It's a bit blatant, actually. I mean WTF is a "proud feminist" anyway??

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh that poor bastard.

But have you read some of these articles? They treat women like meat. Objects for sex. Which is funny, considering we haven't had sex in a while...counterintuitive!!

Well then, maybe he is better off without her or already has a plate or two.

[–]frag950 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hahaha I love the part where she says " we haven't had sex in awhile..." I wonder why he went to TRP. weird....

[–]Kellermann0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What happened to the original thread?

[–]Fzed6000 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"TALK TO HIM. Doesn't mean he believes it or follows it. And if it has something to do with TRP, be wary, that the leaders of that often guise their main context and goals by appealing to guys with common problems, improving confidence, doing better at work, improving their social abilities and more. Many guys get sucked in by this and often their failure to be happy with certain parts of their life and turn to things like the TRP to solve them and are given a beautiful promise of women, money and happiness. A lot of guys are just honestly tricked by this."

It must be opposite day today.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If true, she probably got a bit wet down there when reading our stuff

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