No game needed with some girls. Stick only to high interest women.

D4rkr4in · 2019-07-18T06:30:37+00:00

No game needed when you have the power

bsutansalt · 2019-07-18T13:55:32+00:00

No game needed with some girls. Stick only to high interest women.

This tracks to my bell curve observation I came up with years ago. Some women will naturally be attracted and interested whereas some won't no matter how perfect your game and good looking and whatnot. Most women are going to be in the middle and could be interested if you put in the work and have tight game.

The more you improve yourself, the more women will naturally be interested in you on that end of the spectrum/bell curve.

Most of the guys who run pickup in my experience find success mainly because by going out and making thousands of approaches they're just more likely to run into the women who are naturally interested. It's damn difficult to flip a woman from ambivalent to interested, so focusing on your strengths and the women who are into you be default should be where you should focus your energy.

Think of it in terms of the Pareto Principle. 80% of your results come from 20% of your effort. Think about all your past successes: odds are most came without having to put in a ton of work. Now you know why.

teveza11 · 2019-07-18T12:50:14+00:00

You are going to be one of those guys who is a 9 or a 10, but ends up with 6s and 7s.

Not really much to be proud of.

There are always lower quality girls who are interested in us.

But I'm not interested in picking up the lower quality, low hanging fruit.

I like the 8s-10s.

You eventually need game with all women if you are talking LTRs, because her temporary feeling of being "blown away" by you will fade.

What you don't realize, is your IDGAF attitude with these girls is what is considered game.

But if you continue your desire for the easier girls who are blown away by you, you'll be one of those guys who settles for girls who are below your SMV because you want the easy road.

Lots of guys who are 10s end up with mediocre girls. I see you as one of those guys in the future.

The hottest girls are often with guys who are probably 7s or 8s, while the guys who are 9s and 10s are with mediocre ass girls, and you illustrate why.

ZachMeadows · 2019-07-18T10:16:48+00:00

Sure for a time it can be nice to go for the easy lay.

I mean, I always pick up the small change I see on the ground. However, I do not define my fortune by it.

Sorry for the incoming explanation, English isn't my language.

The key point is to not settle for what you are given. You can try and make the best out of it, even be happy with it. But you shall always go for bigger and better. It applies to fitness, finance, women, anything.

While it should not make you suffer, it is good to have a few easy back up plans, some high stakes prospects and close to no trouble while managing all that.

throwlaca · 2019-07-18T21:38:44+00:00

>I needed to do nothing at all.

Except go to gym, go to college, work for 10 years and buy a nice car and nice clothes. It seems like it's nothing, but it's a lot.

Cryptoguru777 · 2019-07-18T07:34:05+00:00

They want you because they see you as higher smv than theirs, it works for you with 7.5 girls because your smv is 8.5-9 (or you misjudged theirs idk), anyway this doesnt work for guys under 6 unless they want girl smv 3 to have as fwb

lala_xyyz · 2019-07-18T12:41:40+00:00

One of the less known TRP adages: "If she's not chasing you, you're wasting your time." Chasing also encompasses IOIs. Just improve yourself and slay women who indicate interest, it's that simple.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-07-18T12:53:30+00:00

You are running game. Start going beta on them and see what happens.

FollowerTRP · 2019-07-18T07:55:29+00:00

Cool story, bro and also absolutely shit advise. Happy it works for you tho.

Started working for me just a little bit when improved I after 4+ years of hard work.

Do not listen to this OP Chad, keep your game tight and develop it folks.

youcantdenythat · 2019-07-18T18:45:26+00:00

If they are on tinder and they matched you they want you for one of two things.

They are attracted to you.
They want you to be a beta orbiter.

If they are attracted to you, you pretty much just need to generate enough comfort that they don't think you'll murder them or something. A few booring questions, seen any good movies lately? etc and then meet for a drink. When you meet them, don't do anything stupid and they will go home with you for another drink and to watch some Netflix or whatever.

If they want an orbiter they won't want to meet you. Unmatch those ones, why waste your time.

wildtimes3 · 2019-07-18T12:03:07+00:00

These are solid 7.5's (blond hair, blue eyes, good career and fit) which I know could get a ton of guys within a minute, yet they stick around. Why, I do not know.

Yes you do know. You said it over and over. You held your frame. That is game.

MentORPHEUS · 2019-07-18T16:04:03+00:00

Sometimes the fish really do just jump right into your boat! Don't get complacent over it however; you still need game to maintain attraction. These tend to come in waves with dry spells between I've noticed. Also, easy come, easy go. Sometimes when it's too easy on the front end, you discover RMV problems on the back end ranging from uncalibrated clinginess to Axis II disorders. Buyer beware.

Don_Draper27 · 2019-07-18T16:30:16+00:00

I agree that you should move forward with the girls that are "fuck yes" about you. The ones that are genuinely attracted to you. The ones that will find great pleasure in draining your ball sack.

It's still work though for most guys. How attractive are you OP?

personaldistance · 2019-07-18T10:24:17+00:00

Absolutely the most worthless thing I've read on this sub. Good job.

Cryptoguru777 · 2019-07-18T17:26:42+00:00

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rpsheepdog · 2019-07-18T13:40:32+00:00

I'm not sure who is advocating going for girls with lower interest? I'll also argue that maintaining frame is a sort of game, whether or not you're consciously doing it.

If you have a girl who is into you, then you still need to work some sort of game that keeps you ahead (basically don't do beta shit) so you keep the attraction high.

LightSkinKen · 2019-07-18T20:31:57+00:00

The women you can’t ever fuck , FUCK ME. The women I can never fuck , FUCK YOU. It works both ways. Have fun gaming. The only time you lose is when you take it personal.

pacjax · 2019-07-18T21:45:48+00:00

unless your rich or jeff seid then you should pursue women of all interest levels unless youre ok with fucking 5 girls a year

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ComplexProjection · 2019-07-18T11:06:58+00:00

You don't need game with girls who have a big smv difference with you. Game is used to reach girls closer to your SMV. The best your game is the tighter the gap between your smv is.

uptimex · 2019-07-18T16:13:40+00:00

Yes, I think you are right. Sometimes even 9s and 10s can happen if you hold your frame. The thing is when you make too much effort you instantly lose your value. I know what you are saying about. You keep some plates and meanwhile you improve yourself and time to time you can even target 9s and 10s. But just from time to time, to not make assimetric efforts.

foomasters · 2019-07-18T17:40:48+00:00

The way I see this situation is to not throw away what you already have. Instead, use it as a playground to practice game and let those mindsets and attitudes help you get better women. Contrast this with the situation where you don't have any access to women and you go out gaming. Naturally, one starts coming off as needy, but not when you have a woman that you can turn to at the end of the day.

It's just a comma, not a full stop. Enjoy the journey and strive to get better.

drsherbert · 2019-07-18T19:26:59+00:00

GO TO WHERE YOU’RE CELEBRATED!!

tony8832 · 2019-07-18T21:58:22+00:00

I understanding game is important to not blow it with a high interest woman. Also prevents you to think a high interest woman is your soul mate or worst a unicorn .

lafingman0 · 2019-07-19T00:45:18+00:00

I had this but afterwards I was terrified of STDs. Luckily I tested clean. How do you deal with this anxiety issue or do you have a que sera attitude?

McDrMuffinMan · 2019-07-19T01:17:43+00:00

Let me preface by saying I'm still internalizing the pill and working on improving myself.

Having said that would it not be wise to at least have the ability to attract low interest women? Not necessarily to keep but to develop more tools in ones arsenal to have. It seems to me to be along the path of self improvement, developing unshakable charisma and game , not just relying on the circumstances of oneself.

Is this wrong?

chazthundergut · 2019-07-19T02:48:04+00:00

Of course it's easy to fuck chicks with high interest. If she perceives you as 2-3 points above her in SMV, you just have to show up (and not be autistic) and she will fuck you. The catch is, there is a reason she is a "low hanging fruit" ... women who start off with super high interest tend to be lower in SMV.

The reason we come to TRP and learn about game is so that we can fuck hotter chicks (who tend to have low interest). TRP teaches how to raise and maintain interest from these women.

My advice is to not let yourself go stagnate. Keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and keep pursuing better and hotter women. You obviously have the fundamentals down, and it would be easy for you to cruise with 7s and 8s.

But you know you want the 9s and 10s. You want the juiciest, sweetest fruit? You're gonna have to climb some trees. Keep climbing dude

MeansToABenz · 2019-07-19T04:46:47+00:00

Controversial topic. I like it. TRP should be even more philosophical.

THOT_Analytica · 2019-07-19T21:20:55+00:00

Why go for a girl with low interest? Obviously these women are high interest women and it gives much more peace of mind knowing this. Dating women and having a rotation can be a full time job if you let it be, and that is not healthy. We (speaking for myself mostly) tend to obsess over women, sex and spinning plates. Just stick with the low hanging fruit if you already have options.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2019-07-19T22:37:11+00:00

Almost assuredly we've all run across the girl that is highly interested, recognized it and fucked it up somehow. Either by over gaming because you're an inexperienced idiot or getting flustered because you don't know what to do.

In these situations you are the pretty girl. They handle all of the work. They will ask you questions and talk constantly, they will follow you around if they can and all the other beta shit. There's only one thing you need to do. You have to break the barriers. You have to break the interaction barrier and the physical barrier. Everything else you don't need to worry about.

There's one moment in particular that stands out in my mind when I think of these "low hanging fruit" girls and me not taking advantage. I went to the grocery store after getting done at the gym. Right there in the drink aisle I see this thin cute girl from my gym. So while I'm there grabbing my drink I say to her, "hey, didn't I see you up at the gym?"

She unloads on me a bunch of questions. Doesn't even respond to what I said, just, "what high school did you go to?" uhhhh "Do you live around here?" ummmm "How long have you been working out there?" .... I gotta go.

I was so set in the mindset of the usual dynamic of flirting that when she started trying to endear herself to me I was so taken aback that I just bounced out of there. I've had other similar times since where a girl will just talk and talk and talk but now I know you just let her run and when the time is right, pull her in close.

McVaghunter · 2019-07-22T14:58:55+00:00

This is a great strategy yet people in the comments are too lazy to do the hard work needed for this strategy to work properly. A man should maintain a very high SMV so that his high interest girls will also be of a high SMV.

It's sad to see people in TRP say shit like "You eventually need game with all women if you are talking LTR", deep down they still want that comfy monogamous loving relationship with their special girl to cuddle with and hold them tight at night... Bunch of low SMV pussies.

2019-07-22T16:37:57+00:00

The problem is AWALT. Or rather AWAreallyLTdespitehidingitwell.

It's easier to pick up 7+'s these days because thanks to Instagram men compare themselves and under-rate themselves too visciously so the 7+'s get hit on less and less. All the 9's I have known complain they never get hit on...because so many 6's are telling men they aren't worth their time. You used to shrug it off but now you compare yourself to that 6's ex and he's a 21 year old student with an 8 pack and you just can't compete as you are too busy building your "brand" to go to the gym 8 hours a day.

I don't even speak to 8's anymore as I would rather MGTOW than have to settle for someone, not to mention 7/8's tend to actually BE NICER to spend time with these days.

It's like, bruce banner doesn't talk shit about how he can fuck people up, cos he is the Hulk and the Hulk just DOES. If you have it, you don't need to flaunt it. Go on a date with a 9 and the date is great. Go on a date with a 6 and she's on her fucking phone the whole time.

Nevertheless drop your gaurd just once and it's AWALT time.

Title	No game needed with some girls. Stick only to high interest women.
Author	Cryptoguru777
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Date	July 18, 2019 6:21 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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The more you improve yourself, the more women will naturally be interested in you on that end of the spectrum/bell curve.

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