Options for Low Status Men?

MoodyBrizo · 2019-06-02T13:32:42+00:00

Drop your standards to the floor or find meaning in life that doesn't involve romantic companionship. What you're essentially asking is how to win the game without playing it, and there isn't any satisfying answer.

0kool74 · 2019-06-02T17:22:55+00:00

Assume that a man is low status and he can't do anything to raise it - what are his options in the dating market?

Basically, he has none.

jonascf · 2019-06-02T15:27:39+00:00

Assume that a man is low status and he can't do anything to raise it - what are his options in the dating market?

If he can do absolutely nothing about it? Then there are no options except lowering one's standard. But I believe it's very rare for someone to be in a position were they have absolutely no ways of raising their status, so my advice would be to just keep struggling.

PrimeSinister2031 · 2019-06-02T13:41:05+00:00

Honestly, if that's your situation in life, you have bigger things to worry about than finding a partner. But OP, if you're in this position, there's a few things you can do.

You can type and make Reddit posts. Why not learn a web-based skill like graphic design, programming, transcribing, etc? That way, you could work from home and need less recovery time. Or get a desk job. Or go to community college to get a degree that will get you a desk job.

Do you like swimming? It's a great way to work out for people with limited mobility. If you can't do that and you're looking to lose weight; download MFP or Cronometer, calculate your TDEE, and reduce your caloric intake.

Do you have a hobby? Join a Discord server or Facebook group and make friends there. Go to meetups if you can, or social nights at local bars. Join your high school's (or university's) alumni association.

Nodoxxintoxin · 2019-06-02T14:07:38+00:00

Anecdotal evidence is all I have, but I know a burn victim (serious deformed/facial burns) who had a 4/5 normal looking gf and tons of friends. Extremely outgoing, hellava nice guy and a fantastic Cajun dancer.

[deleted] · 2019-06-02T15:31:42+00:00

Assume that a man is low status and he can't do anything to raise it - what are his options in the dating market?

Pornhub & Kleenex. Also, go to the gym and get buff.

Some conditions leave you with overwhelming fatigue, meaning that life consists of work (if you can even manage that) and then spending the rest of your time at home recovering.

I was there at one point (health issues). Tough luck, nobody gives a fuck.

Do you know any men who are low status who have found a way to make the best of their situation?

Nope, most of them died in their 50s, 60s or 70s of liver poisoning from alcohol or from drug overdose.

The few who didn't are living OK lives but they live in monk mode and have developed mental issues due to social isolation.

CamoWoobie10000 · 2019-06-02T15:13:45+00:00

If you're a western man, bonus points if you're white, try relocating to a second or 3rd world country. Instant boost to your SMV.

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Talkytalktalk · 2019-06-02T15:00:39+00:00

commit a cyber crime and buy hos.

[deleted] · 2019-06-02T15:33:40+00:00

Despite popular assumptions that escorts are disease ridden, there are plenty of ladies who do not take on a high number of clients, provide a personal girlfriend experience, and are open to those with disabilities. I know a few of these girls, and they do travel. However, it may not be affordable and it's not dating but it's a small shot at intimacy and human touch.

Also read about "hug therapy" sessions on the incel subreddit, which sounds like it wouldn't be as pricey as an escort It is a fact that isolation and lack of human touch drives people insane, happens in prisons all the time. If the low status man can do what he can with the good advice provided here, and supplement with some form of "touch" therapy, I'd say his mental state would improve greatly.

oneprettycoolcat · 2019-06-02T19:20:45+00:00

Why do there have to be options. Life isn't fair. Some people get a shit hand in life and that's just the way it is. The problem is people (mainly women) assuming someone's character or value as a person simply based off of their attractiveness to said women but that also isn't ever going to change.

[deleted] · 2019-06-02T22:35:39+00:00

Prostitutes, porn, plastic surgery

Choose one of the 3Ps or death buddy boyo

RoninCDN · 2019-06-03T01:45:32+00:00

LDAR. Find something else to occupy your life with. Volunteer or pickup a hobby. Anything but date.

wtffellification · 2019-06-02T13:54:31+00:00

do i know any low status men who made the best out of their situation?

yes, me. my secret is positive attitude to life, simple as that

if a rock falls on my groin someday, maybe i shall lose the positive attitude to life... but until then i remain quite grateful, for it could be much, much worse

but it could also be much better! - believing this gives me motivation to improve and not stagnate too much

LeJacquelope · 2019-06-02T14:11:51+00:00

However, what about men who are low status but can't do anything about it? Certain medical conditions make it impossible for some men to do anything other than survive. Some conditions leave you with overwhelming fatigue, meaning that life consists of work (if you can even manage that) and then spending the rest of your time at home recovering.

If they are that unable to do anything, why are they even considering dating and relationships which they probably won't have the energy for.

i_have_a_semicolon · 2019-06-02T15:56:11+00:00

I think finding a low status woman is a good way to start. For instance my dad is obese, so for his second marriage he found a woman who was a little more obese. They've been together for decades now.

[deleted] · 2019-06-02T20:26:15+00:00

The advice, regardless of status, is to look at the risk/reward. What exactly do you get back for giving so much?

If you date a woman, you're looking at paying her basically $125,000 over 18 years, and being involved in her life forever. According to women, you stick your cock in her, that's what you deserve.

What do you get for the risk of all this, never mind being used, manipulated, shit tested and generally treated like a resource until she gets bored? A few orgasms?

Really worth it?

It's like I have this great X-Box game. But if you fail to score at least 250,000 on it, you now owe me a quarter million dollars. Or go to jail if you don't pay. Even if you can't. Still want to play?

couldbemage · 2019-06-03T18:16:58+00:00

Full disclosure, I think the op is bullshitting us.

But, assuming he's not, and assuming first world:

The obvious solution is to go on fucking disability. Then take your now copious free time and work on being attractive on the way that work on non materialistic women. Think art.

analt223 · 2019-06-03T18:20:12+00:00

self improvement is patriarchy, so go out there and compete. Otherwise if you are a dude, sorry

couldbemage · 2019-06-03T18:28:50+00:00

I really want to know what the medical condition is.

[deleted] · 2019-06-03T23:37:41+00:00

All these comment are essentially "you're fucked"!

Barely-moral · 2019-06-02T14:35:32+00:00

The same options that a hideously deformed and socially inept woman has.

None. Life is unfair. Get used to it or rope.

[deleted] · 2019-06-02T19:03:09+00:00

There are none these days.

invisibletoucan · 2019-06-03T03:19:03+00:00

You lower your standards or you raise your status. That's it.

What medical conditions are you talking about?

I know a guy who's quite disabled with CF. Is in and out of hospital and will probably die from in in the next couple of years. His disability and the treatment for it is not sexy.

He has to spend a lot of time in bed, so he got really good at cool stuff. He's a renowned tattoo artist, writes trendy punk zines and makes backing tracks for hipster rappers. He's got a big online following now because of it, and in his insta stories he always has some hot hipster babe rolling him a joint in her underwear.

Fuck. I know another guy who is horribly disfigured from meningitis. He had special hooks made to replace his amputated arms, learnt to DJ and is now engaged to a total babe.

What handicaps are you talking about that trump these guys'? What exactly are you talking about that makes it so hard to meet a girl?

fuckdr11 · 2019-06-02T15:14:24+00:00

However, what about men who are low status but can't do anything about it?

Find a way to exist, or don't exist. Not my problem.

wotsittoyou · 2019-06-02T15:52:39+00:00

Get real good about telling the difference between your needs and wants, and telling when you're imposing upon someone too much.

[deleted] · 2019-06-02T16:55:46+00:00

Go after lower status women, as low as it takes to get dates.

Ask yourself if that’s fine. If not, improve yourself. It’s like jobs, it’s no rocket science.

blackkindergods · 2019-06-02T18:48:24+00:00

Legalize prostitution.

Love is so overrated

boomcheese44 · 2019-06-02T20:54:27+00:00

There are plenty of options, but what really matters is if you want them or not. Prostitutes, escorts, sugar babying, low status women, going to even lower status countries.

md8716 · 2019-06-03T02:32:47+00:00

Military is always an option for younger men. If nothing else, it will reset the options on the table for you and maybe you can get dealt a better hand in life after about 4 years.

Certain jobs that have you on the road, like trucking, deckhand on large commercial ship, working oil rigs, foreign contract work are all good choices because you've got nothing to lose or tying you down to one location.

Apart from that? Physical labor for jobs that require legal residency. Typically, government work -- working for the city, county, state, or federal government.

portalpro14 · 2019-06-04T00:11:11+00:00

In the Japanese anime and gaming culture there are certain storys called 異世界 (isekai) or another world. Here MC gets reincarnated or transported or summoned to another world and lives a life full of adventures. It is basically a fantasy of escaping this ever boring world and society. Now how does this apply here? Well in most of these the MC (typical guy not Chad maybe 5/10) after gaining incredible power or magic or something like that, gains a female 12/10 love character or even a harem consisting of these. Moreover many of the authors of said storys are mostly betas, due to the style of living they choose (alone, working 20/7, ....). I personally think that it is basically the desire of gaining what you never can reach. I believe that someone who is at such a low point in life or in general has no other choice than to fantasize. I therefore believe that for a beta that has no choice than to survive and be “medially entertained“, it is the ultimate fantasy to just escape this world without dying and having a better chance in another world. I think there is a wish for change or improvement in our society. And I think it is the wish for children of their own and a mother who can nurture the kids of them. And I am due to chemotherapy unable to have children of my own and since I was 7 years old I wanted kids(18 M btw). So I am now in a position where I need to find a new life goal. But it is hard, but I due to my position can understand both sides. I personally know that the grief for something you want to have and at the same time the certainty of your inability to obtain certain goal and finding a new one is the hardest thing I can possibly imagine. And in the end I believe that the only way is to escape through fantasy and become happy somehow. Because in the end everyone wants to survive their lives, even suicidal persons they have just a very different approach at it.

HarpyMaster · 2019-06-02T15:35:49+00:00

nothing. your post implies men are owed sex when in reality they arent. there will always be sexless men and nothing will change that.

[deleted] · 2019-06-02T19:36:47+00:00

First it was looks now it's status..incels never give up

Title	Options for Low Status Men?
Author	invisibletoucan
Upvotes	12
Comments	134
Date	June 2, 2019 5:30 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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