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Would men prefer a fun woman or a reliable woman?

hating-life
May 3, 2018
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Title Would men prefer a fun woman or a reliable woman?
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hating-life
Upvotes 5
Comments 87
Date May 3, 2018 9:25 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8gtxe1/would_men_prefer_a_fun_woman_or_a_reliable_woman/
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[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪14 points15 points16 points 8 years ago (37 children) | Copy Link

they prefer to marry reliable women and have affairs with fun women

[–]throwbacktuesday98Blue Pill Woman21 points22 points23 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

So... The same thing TRP whines about women doing?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪8 points9 points10 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sure

[–]jax006Red Pill Gives You Wings6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The same thing TRP whines about women doing educates misled men about women doing

Ftfy

[–]AstuteBlackManRed Pill Man-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah. How turns table

[–]Cho_AssmilkArrogant RP S.O.B.0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (29 children) | Copy Link

What makes a women "fun" to you?

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Women who dont ask anything of men that serves a particle of the female imperative

[–]Cho_AssmilkArrogant RP S.O.B.3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Wrong. You can have a women who "identifies" as a feminist and is still really fun.

Fun = Good sense of humor, ability to hold meaningful conversations, likes to have adventurous sex, etc.

[–]SweeterPicklesLet's Get Physical, Physical6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

“What’s your opinion on what you find fun?”

answer

“Wrong. It’s this.”

[–]Cho_AssmilkArrogant RP S.O.B.0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Except I said "what makes a women fun?". In the context of the OP, it's what makes a women...fun to men.

I wanted to see what she thought men found fun in a women. Apparently anything a women does that doesn't folloew her hypergamy is fun.

[–]SweeterPicklesLet's Get Physical, Physical0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You said “to you, what makes a woman fun?”

Different men find different things fun in a woman.

[–]exit_sandmanstill not the MGTOW sandman FFS0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Atlas isn't a guy, though.

And quite frankly, I see where Cho is coming from. Women who do expect men to also aquiesce to their female priorities can indeed be fun, if it's not everything they do.

[–]SweeterPicklesLet's Get Physical, Physical0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know she isn’t. That still doesn’t make her opinion wrong

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

what did "feminist" have to do with ANYTHING i said?

[–]Cho_AssmilkArrogant RP S.O.B.2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Nothing. It's the worst of the worst of female traits and a girl can still be fun with it. So of course a women who follows her biology can also be fun.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

what i meant by "the female imperative" was trying to get men to invest in stability marriage and children

[–]Cho_AssmilkArrogant RP S.O.B.1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And that does not negate her ability to be fun

[–]Eastuss༼ つ ▀̿_▀̿ ༽つ0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's a high RMV reliable woman, not a fun woman.

Just like men, fun women are also kind of assholes and therefore it implies a bit of selfishness.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Doormats aren't fun.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

men love doormats, dont fool yourself. thats woman bullshit

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Lmao 😂

Men love women who abuse and abandon them in a way that reminds them of the abuse and abandonment they got from their mothers.

A doormat is just that. Something for a man to stand on. They'll even marry a doormat, but the whole time they will long for the woman who hurts him and gives him the trauma bonding he needs.

Eventually doormats get old and dirty and thrown out. ;)

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

well youre the big expert

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No need to get emotional. Truth is truth.

[–]darla10-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men love doormats but cheat on them. Men are infatuated with bitches but eventually get tired of them.

The best woman is the goddess: strong core, soft exterior.

Those are the ones they never leave nor cheat on.

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Mine goes on stunt rides with me and records for snapchat from the back of my bike

She also has a remote controlled bullet and likes it when I fuck with her by turning it on as she's ordering at a restaurant talking to friends while out etc

[–]sadomasochristnAWALT = Not red pilled0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Which one, the clip or panty style?

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Clip

[–]decoy88Black Male in London0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She also has a remote controlled bullet and likes it when I fuck with her by turning it on as she's ordering at a restaurant talking to friends while out etc

Okay stop! How does this work? Is it loud? I need DETAILS

[–]Cho_AssmilkArrogant RP S.O.B.0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy gets it

[–]MercedesBenzoAMGbringing percocets molly percocet back to ppd-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

She also has a remote controlled bullet and likes it when I fuck with her by turning it on as she's ordering at a restaurant talking to friends while out etc

Those are great fun. My girl has one of those, I can control it from my phone from anywhere.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Good lord the apps and things they have these days. Hubby took me shopping for my bday and I couldn't believe how futuristic it all is now lol

[–]MercedesBenzoAMGbringing percocets molly percocet back to ppd0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's crazy. It's not just turning it on and off either, I can control how strong it is like a dimmer switch. Just whenever I want.

Battery on those things only lasts like 3-4 hours and the connection can be a bit iffy though. Still a fun toy.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What a wonderful world we live in

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They have designated tech support too 😂

[–]Five_DecadesKnows what women want. Knows he doesn't have it0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the answer.

Fun for short term. Reliable for long term.

[–]azngirl76890 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The male version of AF/BB than? That’s not hypocritical at all.

[–]damaskrose 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

In my experience: reliable men like fun women. He makes sure her life is stable, and she makes sure his life is interesting.

[–]yaseedog will hunt0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

living in a van and pooping outdoors

sign me up...but yeah that probably loses its charm after 50

[–]chira-chira 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

based on what men have said here... fun.

[–]Cho_AssmilkArrogant RP S.O.B.2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fun women are great when you decide to have children. They suddenly go from "fun" to "OMG I can't deal with adulting!"

[–]SweeterPicklesLet's Get Physical, Physical0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bingo. I love spontaneity, it’s definitely a key feature I look for in a woman, so I guess I’d choose that, but I definitely want a little of both

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

why are you replying to yourself

[–]DareyFathom2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The only trait more important than reliability is attractiveness.

[–]CharlesChristI'm Neutral2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends on who's hotter

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd prefer attractive woman. But if I could choose on top one of the qualities, reliable or fun, I'd choose reliable since I usually have fun with male friends.

[–]wtknightHardcore Romantic1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Definitely reliable. I'm not particularly fun myself and I wouldn't want the pressure of having to constantly entertain her.

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[–]goatismycopilotPurple Pill Woman4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Is she hot? That is what the men people care about. She could be a serial killer who invents the next bitcoin or whatever weird bullshit fantasy money transactions there are and what will matter is how she looks. Is she a hot serial killer, no problem? Is she fat, no way.

[–]Pope_LuciousSeparating the wheat from the hoes1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But someone out there is fucking a fat serial killer.

Poor dude.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But I like fat girls... : (

[–]PennnyLameMade a margarita once3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fun. Then trick them into marrying you so you never have to go to the DMV or set up the internet 😈

[–]Electra_CuteChristian, Flat Earther, Anti-Vaxxer, Astrologer-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

How come someone is unable to be fun and reliable at the same time, those do not appear to be opposing traits.

[–]Atlas_B_Shruggin🔪Yeetus that Feetus🔪5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Fun" generally involves an amount of spontaneity and risk taking that doesnt travel well on the same gene as reliability

[–]OfSpock0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And also, things 'fun' people think are fun just aren't fun to reliable people. Omg did you forget the sunscreen again? Now I'm sunburnt and the day was crap. No, it wasn't fun and quirky. If you thought for five minutes we could have had an enjoyable day.

Source: my mother spent my childhood trying to be 'fun' and spontaneous.

[–]DareyFathom0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not mutually exclusive, but I'd wager conscientiousness (reliability) and openness (fun) are generally indirectly related.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most people are mostly fun or mostly reliable.

[–]RockinSocksII25F poiple INTP - Not single, Eastuss needs to know this-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm reliable and fun (to nerdy dudes).

[–]hammerhauntsbread pill0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reliable

[–]crackrocksteady7Jason tell me what you're chasing0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll take both please, thanks

[–]prettydrunk230 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

FUN!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A reliable fun woman.

[–]80_20SCIENCE / non-incel incel advocate / NO PILL0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

which one is hotter?

[–]ExistentialLibertyPurple Pilled Centrist, Former Red Pill0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why not both?

[–]exit_sandmanstill not the MGTOW sandman FFS0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If it's an either/or decision? Reliable.

What is "fun", by the way? "Funny" or "good to have fun with"?

[–]DarkLord0chinChin0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Depending on what you mean by fun and reliable.

I want a professional woman. She is fun because is experienced and isn't afraid to experiment, she is reliable because she is responsible

[–]newName543456went volcel0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fun, because those actually exist.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i prefer both

[–]mistercheeez-o____O-0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Half and half.

[–]Aufbruch0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ideally I'd want both...but would lean more towards "fun", personally.

[–]reluctantly_red0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unreliable women are seldom fun. Scatterbrained isn't fun. Self absorbed narcissism isn't fun.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

depends. What for?

For sex/dating/casual? Fun.

For LTR/commitment/marriage/motherhood? Reliable.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

But AF/BB is evil!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (17 children) | Copy Link

Nope. Because when men do it, no one's getting used. and no one's being dishonest about it.

And men do not do AFBB. It's "slut flings, virgin rings". And while most women can do AFBB; most men cannot do slut flings, virgin rings. For most men, it's "you take whatever you can get". Most men have next to no power in the SMP/RMP.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Uh huh

[–]LSTW12342 points3 points4 points 8 years ago* (15 children) | Copy Link

Because when men do it, no one's getting used. and no one's being dishonest about it.

Men use “fun” women for sex all the time.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

the women know they're being used

[–]LSTW12342 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nonsense, they very often do not.

[–]darla102 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

no they don't. They think it's going somewhere.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

lol yeah time after time after time... going somewhere. Those women have to be retarded to think that "maybe this 10th time this guy isn't gonna just fuck me and leave!"

[–]LSTW1234 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

That’s not how it works, plenty of men don’t just fuck them and leave, it’s a crap shoot. You pick up on certain signs as you get older, and learn to ignore what he actually says, but it’s hard out there for a young and fun girl!

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Yeah it is 1000 times harder for men. Adults have responsibilities. Plenty of information online. There is no need to be pity for people who did same mistakes voluntary time after time after time.

[–]LSTW1234 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Can we not make everything into the who-has-it-worse game? I never said it wasn’t harder for men.

[–]NalkaNalkayou call it virtue, I call it cowardice1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

heh people can fool themselves into some pretty outrageous shit when they set their mind to it.

[–]says_harsh_thingsRed Pill - Chad1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd argue fun either way. Reliable without fun just leads to disappointment. At least with fun you can temper your expectations.

[–]hating-life 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oops. I meant for a LTR.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Reliable

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