✨Y’all heard?✨

That's horrible and sounds very similar to what I almost went through. I was promised all along that we would only have children if it was under very, very comfortable financial circumstances. So the requirements were very specific: we must be able to afford a top private school, big house in the suburbs like I live in now, the same high-end car I have, etc. I am used to a certain lifestyle and had zero intent of lowering it just to have children. This was crystal clear at all times. And he always agreed and like you, I received the same assurances.

To make a long story short, he never got to the point in his career where he could afford all that, and I was getting on in age and unwilling to risk my life to have a baby. He accused me of never having wanted kids in the first place (100% not true), and then he revealed this gem: that since I saw he was going nowhere in his career, I was supposed to have caved and just given him a baby even if we had to live in a rat trap somewhere. HA! I should have laughed in his face like that Eartha Kitt video if I hadn't been so utterly livid and shocked. He really felt it was my womanly duty to give him children, yet the fucking bum expected me to live like a pauper with him because he was too lazy and unmotivated to finally drag his ass to law school like he'd been saying for eons.

That's why this topic irritates me so much, whenever I hear guys whining about wanting babies, or about being """pro life""", yet I bet you 3/4 of them make less than I do and would have the exact same attitude towards me or any woman. You hear that you fucking losers out there?? GO BE REAL MEN AND MAKE REAL MONEY TO SUPPORT A FAMILY.