Q4M: Would you marry a woman who had an N-count of 60?

grandaddychimp · 2017-08-06T00:39:49+00:00

I wouldn't marry any woman to begin with but that one especially not

WhiskersNT · 2017-08-06T00:43:13+00:00

Why would she ever tell me

I'd be pretty grossed out that she just told me "oh yeah I've been fucked by 60 dudes", why would I ever marry someone who would say that to me

wtknight · 2017-08-06T04:34:18+00:00

It's not a dealbreaker, but I strongly suspect that my personality would not be compatible at all with a woman who had an N-count of 60.

funny_lyfe · 2017-08-06T01:29:24+00:00

I've actually dated 3 women with N count 60 and over.

And no. Not going to marry them.

60 usually means low value, damaged woman that sleeps with anyone. If I figure out that they are slutting around a lot then I will probably even avoid sleeping with them.

sittinginabaralone · 2017-08-06T02:45:30+00:00

It definitely depends, but like 99% sure I wouldn't. Maybe she traveled to 60 countries over 12 years and had a boyfriend in each, that might be an exception. That's much different than a chick who just banged everyone in college. It's never the number in and of itself.

[deleted] · 2017-08-06T00:45:20+00:00

Men, would you marry a woman with a PiV N-count of 60?

I probably wouldn't.

Why or Why not?

Visceral reaction to high n-counts. Turns me off.

Or would it depend on more factors?

Not much. But it would help if she didn't talk about it and if we didn't run into any of her previous guys. Blissful ignorance basically.

is it a deal breaker?

High n-count was an immediate dealbreaker when I had options. Now that I have less options, I care less than in the past.

cxj · 2017-08-06T04:40:40+00:00

She'd need to bring a lot more to the table than a girl with a much lower count but hypothetically, yeah.

Also, this would need to have been a while ago and the issues leading to it resolved.

jackandjill22 · 2017-08-06T10:02:53+00:00

For the last time....no.

I seriously hope none of you chicks have banged 60 guys. You could field 5 NBA basketball teams with bench players included with all the men you let in your vajajay and you're asking why guys are disgusted by it.

The entire rosters of the Cleveland Cavaliers, Philadelphia Sixers, New York Knicks, San Antonio Spurs and the Golden State Warriors have fucked you.

Hellothere_1 · 2017-08-06T04:24:44+00:00

The n-count itself wouldn't be a dealbreaker as long as I don't think it's an indicator for some deeper problem that would negatively affect out marriage.

couldbemage · 2017-08-06T06:24:30+00:00

Of course I would. But I do open poly. So I obviously don't have the standard attitude.

Most recent wife was over twenty n when I met her, when she was 22.

Littleknownfacts · 2017-08-06T02:18:48+00:00

Does she have a good job?

Asking the important questions here

Love8Death · 2017-08-06T02:21:18+00:00

If she was rich, maybe. If she had some insanely unique connections or spiritual development, maybe.

Kerb_Poet · 2017-08-06T00:55:07+00:00

N count is irrelevant to me. It can be symptomatic of certain problems, but if she's free of those problems, I really don't care.

disposable_pants · 2017-08-06T00:53:07+00:00

i know a girl who has slept with over 50 men, and shes only 22. she never even tells guys what her n count is, and if they ask she says its 6-7

exit_sandman · 2017-08-06T01:00:57+00:00

nope

Pope_Lucious · 2017-08-06T01:28:28+00:00

I'm skeptical of marriage but an N-count of 60 wouldn't necessarily be a deal-breaker. I would have a longer list of vetting questions than usual though.

theiamsamurai · 2017-08-06T02:36:54+00:00

I wouldn't marry either way, sooo....

Don't need a piece of paper to show you love someone.

Dominic_Badguy · 2017-08-06T02:51:23+00:00

I wouldn't marry anyway. But if you changed married to long term relationship then the answer would be yes. Though the question for me would be if the high n count woman would be in a relationship with a person such as me with low sex drive and low sexual experience. If yes then that is good, but I think that would not happen though I don't really know. I suspect that the high n count woman would break it off from me because of our differing sexual drives.

prodigy2throw · 2017-08-06T07:09:14+00:00

I see no upside in being compared to 60 past lovers. Statistically, there is no way I'm the best sex, most successful, attractive, genetically gifted of those 60.

Willow-girl · 2017-08-06T07:42:19+00:00

No. Chances are she'd be settling for me and besides, our lifestyles would be too different for us too fit together. Even if she was settling I'd resent her for all the fun she had had.

Everyones__Grudge · 2017-08-06T09:43:36+00:00

I wouldn't marry a woman who had an n count of 1.

Willow-girl · 2017-08-06T14:32:11+00:00

No. A woman with an n-count of 60 is not someone who is good at choosing a mate. It's someone who values physical casual sex over the mental connection of a LTR.

Also, these kinds of women also tend to base their entire young life around their sexuality, and so tend to not be fun to hang out with.

DarkLord0chinChin · 2017-08-06T15:09:17+00:00

I would if I loved her and she was super into me and was super hot and was a slut for me.

Realistically that probably will not happen because ugly sluts are ugly and hot sluts prefer chad

[deleted] · 2017-08-06T19:14:01+00:00

No, I wouldn't marry a woman with N=60. That's an absolute dealbreaker number.

She won't be able to bond to me. She's been used and abused. She's had sex with many, many objectively more attractive men than me. She will believe she can run the relationship. She wont' be in for the long haul. She's accustomed to moving on when the relationship gets tough - there's always another man she can branchswing to.

boginthefog · 2017-08-07T03:10:59+00:00

Never. That's disgusting and rings many alarm bells.

Eastuss · 2017-08-07T07:23:12+00:00

If she used to have threesomes, wild sex, and such before, I expect she has the same with me. If that is the case, and if her RMV is high, then no problem.

GoldPilot · 2017-08-06T01:52:19+00:00

Sure; sexual history alone isn't really a factor for me unless it presents a health risk.

mashakos · 2017-08-06T09:36:11+00:00

I go narrow and deep vs. wide and shallow, have only had sex with LTR partners. I would just not be able to relate to a woman with an N count that high.

mgtownigga · 2017-08-07T00:53:02+00:00

I don't want to marry, ever, but if I were to, i'd prefer she not have a fucking n count of 60 rofl

CursedLemon · 2017-08-07T01:18:27+00:00

Bruh, I'm not going to marry or even date a woman I haven't known and fraternized platonically with for like, 6+ years.

Partner count is completely and totally unimportant. If a woman or any person at all is flaky/impulsive/unreliable/etc, it's going to show up in almost every aspect of their personality and behavior. Just as well, a lot of sexual partners doesn't automatically mean emotional instability.

Maybe people shouldn't be hooking up with/shacking up with people they don't actually know. If you're too impatient to wait, well enjoy divorce.

storffish · 2017-08-06T00:51:54+00:00

I would not. I don't ask for much out of life but the one thing I do ask for seems to be regarded as asking for the world

I want to "own" a woman in her entirety and I'm not afraid to admit that at all, it allows me to love her so much more if she's mine all mine

It's funny because most here would call me a puritan or tradcon but my outlook when you really think about it is the absolute height of satanic egotism

It's down right heretical in modern times to suggest that a chaste girl that becomes all yours is better in every possible way

Such a creature is honest to God worth more than her weight in platinum

Mattcwu · 2017-08-06T01:58:52+00:00

Only in your impossible scenario, yes. There is no way to guarantee a person has not STD's after having sex with 60+ people.

blackedoutfast · 2017-08-06T02:03:06+00:00

i would fuck her (assuming she's attractive) but definitely wouldn't marry her or be in any kind of serious relationship.

BD112 · 2017-08-06T02:03:46+00:00

Nope. There's a high likelihood that something's not right there. Never sleep with a woman who has more problems than you do.

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ChelseaDagger14 · 2017-08-06T04:09:51+00:00

It depends on age, really. If she's 30, that may only work out at like four guys a year. If she's 20, it probably means she fucks a new guy every few weeks. If she's young, no. It's a bit weird to me dating a girl who would fuck almost anyone, she probably has little self-esteem.

MagicGainbow · 2017-08-06T10:57:11+00:00

Lol, fuck no!

She could be perfect in every other way but yeah...nah, i'm not even casually fucking her.

Dissentient · 2017-08-06T11:36:03+00:00

I would not marry any woman.

Anyway, I'd not have any relationship with her, since even though I don't have any issue with the physical aspect high N-count (with conditions mentioned) at all, I just don't think my personality could be compatible with someone who is capable of having that high of an N-count.

[deleted] · 2017-08-06T16:45:54+00:00

This is something i'd find out within the first year of dating her, but it depends on other factors.

Like age and whether they were all or majority one nights.

Assuming we're getting married, i'd probably be 35 and she'd be 25-30.

60 one night stands for a reasonably attractive young woman by 30 doesn't sound too out of question, but its still gonna be no for me.

If she somehow happened to date/FWB/hang around 60 different guys from the time she started dating (lets just say 17) up until she met me(lets say 25). That would have to 8 guys a year, or 2 guys a month, meaning her relationships lasted 2 weeks at most...I think i did the math right. This is assuming everything worked out perfectly, but im sure there'd be some one night stands and guys she hung around longer, etc.

Either scenario, its a no.

Just like switching jobs frequently looks bad to employers, switching around guys looks bad to me. And if it's a majority of one night stands, sure you can like sex, thats no problem, but to me it looks like you have no restraint and just let damn near any guy who meets your standards(or lack of) hit.

I'm not the type who sleeps around, i haven't really had the chance to(college isn't all its cracked up to be unless you join up a club or fraternity), i imagine i'd want a girl in the same spot as me.

Aeiexgjhyoun_III · 2017-08-06T18:44:47+00:00

I just find it a bit repellent. When being intimate with said woman I wouldn't be able to touch her knowing 60 other guys have left their germs there.

jesset77 · 2017-08-07T05:30:16+00:00

Why, do you know any?

Single mom isn't even a dealbreaker so long as she's the self-sufficient type to begin with instead of leaning on government support or accustomed to any unreasonable lifestyle at the expense of others or anything as antisocial as that. I am a single dad, and I have no compunctions Brady Bunching the shit out of things if that's how to find a compatible mate. ;3

But I'm also not an RP and not trying to out-manipulate any presumably manipulative women. shrugs

Otherside19 · 2017-08-07T12:10:10+00:00

I'm not the marriage type really but sure I would. People have sex, that's just a thing that happens. I guess I could extrapolate from a high N-count that either she doesn't require investment or intimacy as much from a partner, or has poor relationship skills/expectations...but If I'm at the point of considering marriage she would already have proven herself to be a respectful partner.

If I could have an N-count of 60 without repercussions I would, only fair to give my partner the same.

the_calibre_cat · 2017-08-07T14:55:40+00:00

I can't say one way or another. An n-count of 60 is definitely a demerit, though.

HNTI · 2017-08-09T07:38:59+00:00

Lol never, people like mint new stuff, not something what had n owners and is in questionable condition. Fucking such girl ? Maybe if I could learn something from her / have fun ( bonus points for being bi ), but marring ? Over my dead body. She would have too many options/exes to compare me with.

SeemedGood · 2017-08-09T23:21:36+00:00

Absolutely not. Would not even date.

Demonstrates a casual attitude towards sex and lack of deliberation about sexual partners.
She has absorbed the physical and energetic essence of every man with whom she has had natural sex and used it to reconstruct herself. Chances that she will be able to effectively pair-bond? Negligible. Thus, what's the point of entering into an exclusive relationship with her.

[deleted] · 2017-08-06T01:33:13+00:00

Yes of course why not? If she has no kids and is disease free, game on. Not like the vag gets stretched out with use, that's some incel fantasy.

Title	Q4M: Would you marry a woman who had an N-count of 60?
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Date	August 6, 2017 12:32 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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