When girls say they like guys to be "toned" or "athletic".

currentissuesofme · 2017-03-01T23:40:45+00:00

Frankly, your post isn't in good faith imo. But,

... and when you ask them what kind of guy is that they point to someone who looks like this:

Women go out and see people, just like regular humans. I am a hungry skeleton and I have been called "toned" many times.

Why do girls try and push the narrative they don't like guys who look like clouds?

I think it is well known that women prefer people who have an ideal body type, this is a tautology (better is better). You can't conflate "women are more attracted to attractive people" with "women have unrealistic expectations"

BiggerDthanYou · 2017-03-02T00:48:20+00:00

The first two look more like the typical gay models TeRPies are regularly posting and less of what women say they want.

Now look at your third pic. He isn't as muscular, but he's not "gay". He's masculine, and not some "I take daily showers and know how to use a razor"-pretty boy. He's got stubble and some hairs on his body, while the others look as if they hotwax each other.

The baseline of muscles that women need to get horny is simply lower than the amount that gay men want. So if you are willing to go the extra miles they will even think you've got no interest in women unless stated otherwise.

When I think of athletic bodies I think of the men that women are actually reblogging and sharing on their social media en masse and not what TeRPies are trying to gaslight us into.

Like this one (who admittedly looks gay as fuck, but it's not the same "gay" as earlier. This is the good gay), that one, this one or that one

And if it were so easy to say which body type the most women find find the most attractive there wouldn't have been so many discussions on female oriented websites about who's hotter in Twilight, but that's the thing: women aren't all the same person and that's why female oriented movies always offer several different kinds of attractive men

There's a place for all kinds of body types (except american-chubby and above). Some want hot dad bods, others skinny or skinny-fit ones and even other ones muscular and above.

But huge muscled up roid bodies? That's something you show off at a gay parade

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-03-02T00:18:36+00:00

the fact that you cant see the difference between the 1st two and the third is you not seeing withgirl eyes

could everyone from TRP stop making me look at gay porn

TheChemist158 · 2017-03-01T22:43:28+00:00

Why do girls try and push the narrative they don't like guys who look like clouds?

I'm going to be a bitch here, but I have to wonder what is even the point of this post. You aren't asking us what we think the toned and noemal are. You are asking us to defend a position we never even took.

So to answer your question, go outside and stop obsessing over problems that don't exist.

dakru · 2017-03-01T22:52:10+00:00

they don't like guys who look like clouds?

...wait what? Look like clouds?

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-03-02T00:46:41+00:00

When I met my husband he was 25 half starving and rode a bike everywhere. He had naturally broad shoulders and like no body fat. His body was perfect and it wasn't stay-puft man roided out deliberately worked out waxed abs fag muscles, it was lean naturally high t life muscles. Ottermode is what women like. Stop posting homoerotic gay pictures

dakru · 2017-03-01T22:45:04+00:00

... and when you ask them what kind of guy is that they point to someone who looks like this:

http://www.trimmedandtoned.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Marc-Fitt-Fitness-Model.jpg

https://i.ytimg.com/vi/hpGYT-GZcrE/maxresdefault.jpg

It has not at all been my experience that such pictures usually get posted by women as their ideal level of musculature. When a picture is being offered of a "muscular" guy, usually it's Brad Pitt in Fight Club, especially this picture:

https://cdn.stronglifts.com/wp-content/uploads/brad-pitt-fight-club.jpg

That body doesn't need steroids. He's not even that muscular, mostly he's just really lean.

I'm a guy, but I personally think that Justin Lascek is a good contender for an ideal male body.

lollygagyo · 2017-03-02T08:28:30+00:00

When I say ''lean'' I mean Andrew Van Wyngarden when MGMT was just starting to get popular.

When I say muscular, I mean Sergei Polunin -- so still lean but shredded.

I do not mean any of those dudes you posted above, most of whom look gay.

goatismycopilot · 2017-03-01T22:39:28+00:00

No, when I say I like a toned and athletic man, I mean I like a man who is not overweight, who does some kind of regular activity that is physically challenging. I am partial to men with broad shoulders and good arms. Edit. One example I can use is Ben Hur Charlton Heston. He clearly worked out but was not super cut. I use that example because it is an old timey movie that even younger people might have seen. That kind of body is not in style.

For body builders most people agree in terms of symetry and atheistic appeal Frank Zane was ideal. He is smaller than most amatuer body builders are today. The pictures you showed those guys might have even done minor juicing to get the muscle/body fat ratio correct.

goatismycopilot · 2017-03-01T23:12:48+00:00

In a recent thread several guys posted pictures of porn stars and said they would of course fuck them but not marry them, okay one person wanted to marry a porn star. So for many guys that is an ideal, so what? How is women liking the jacked up dudes different?

Merger-Arbitrage · 2017-03-01T23:44:21+00:00

Given how this is going, I can see people calling me anything from a couch potato to a pseudo-roided gymrat. :|

questioningwoman · 2017-03-01T22:45:03+00:00

What do you think athletic means? The average person's not athletic. Of course you'd mean that if you said athletic.

mathemagician117 · 2017-03-01T23:38:55+00:00

I've tried to bait the women posters here into claiming natty max was toned and >1gram of test was too much muscle on here before. They didn't bite.

Returnofthemack3 · 2017-03-02T00:41:51+00:00

It's not just girls. People are fucking stupid and don't even understand what they're attracted to. They definitely don't understand what goes into muscle growth and being 'fit' either. They think of obscenely ripped guys obvious on juice when tehy think weight lifting

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T09:09:59+00:00

Brad Pitt in Fight Club. The end.

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T10:11:17+00:00

Most women will hate the first two but think that the final one is breathtaking.

EliteSpartanRanger · 2017-03-02T00:36:11+00:00

I don't care too much about body type tbh, it's one of the things in appearance that I'd compromise on. I just prefer a guy to be healthy.

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2017-03-02T03:20:05+00:00

That's so unhealthy and unnatural. Real women love men with curves. Minimum BMI of 25.

By today's standards Kirk Douglas was morbidly obese (just like miss Monroe).

sovietterran · 2017-03-02T07:12:35+00:00

My best action was being far skinnier than those guys. Women aren't as unrealistic as you think just because best and ideal don't always line up with what people get.

Also, note, those bodies do not require roids. Exercise, diet, protein timing. Don't get me wrong, it's hard to get bodies like that, but the bulking ideas on TRP sound like someone who hasn't ever lifted.

babyreadsalot · 2017-03-02T15:00:23+00:00

Meh, I don't like massively built muscles. Always makes me think they guy is a halfwit who can't put his arms down properly.

Like the last one best. I like my guys to be lean muscle, not bulk muscle.

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T19:56:01+00:00

I wouldn't ever date first two guys. They look disgusting. Yuck.

Even the third guy is a bit too muscular for me. I definitely would call him athletic, but I prefer guys who are just lean. No protruding veins like that please.

Superfluous_Toast · 2017-03-03T15:36:45+00:00

Ooh! That is a good way of describing overly muscled guys, I'm gonna use that from now on. And no, I don't like cloud men.

[deleted] · 2017-03-04T02:22:06+00:00

You can look like the first two without taking juice, it just takes years and extreme dedication where you eat nothing but chicken breast and celery sticks.

With that said, most men you see on the beach who look like that walking around with a cooler of Bud lights are just juicing to look like what women have sex with during the summer.

Title	When girls say they like guys to be "toned" or "athletic".
Author	mathemagician117
Upvotes	6
Comments	145
Date	March 1, 2017 9:48 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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