Do redpillers think that a majority of heterosexual sex happens between most women but only a small minority of men?

cxj · 2014-12-04T06:36:03+00:00

Hard to say. I've seen 80/20 described several different ways, including 20% of men have 80% of the sex, 20% of men have 80% of the girls, 20% of men have 80% of the options (this sounds most accurate to me), etc.

We_Are_Legion · 2014-12-04T08:11:37+00:00

A small minority of the men are doing the great majority of the raping.

Dunno if its relevant or this source. Just heard this fact in passing and found it interesting.

sleuthoftrades · 2014-12-04T07:22:18+00:00

Bateman's Principle says men have greater reproductive variance. Studies comparing Y Chromosome Adam to Mitochondrial Eve imply that Mitochondrial Eve lived a longer time ago, implying more women than men did reproduce (one article put the numbers at 40% vs 80%). Now we could go back and forth and argue this is only about reproduction and not sex, but I think that is a moot point. Reproduction and sex are related.

Combine this with the modern day "oversaturation of the dick market" and you have a situation where [straight/bi] women (and gay men) have easier access to sex.

Archwinger · 2014-12-04T07:28:31+00:00

Depends on what kind of sex.

Casual sex...definitely yes.

A majority of guys can't and won't have casual sex ever. (Perhaps not exactly 80%)

The majority of women can have casual sex if they want to. Some do, some don't, some try it just once or twice, but overall I'd say yes, casual sex happens between a relatively small number of men and whatever number of women.

Comparing numbers of sex partners could work, too.

an_absolute_rose · 2014-12-04T14:20:49+00:00

My cousin can pull out his phone text any of the 10-20 girls he's met in the last week and get laid within the hour. He stopped, but I don't know very many men who have or ever will have the experiences he's had.

I'd say 30% (and potentially higher) of the male population will have sex less than once in their lifetime. The next 30% will have less than 5 partners. The next 30% will have 10-20 partners. That last 10% is pulling new women everyday... If they want to. Guys like Gene Simmons, who claims to have slept with over 5000 women, are absolutely having more sex than a majority of men even when you count up their collective notches.

We_Are_Legion · 2014-12-04T07:19:55+00:00

The 80/20 theory is so hilariously bullshit. According to the CDC, there are only slightly more male virgins than female virgins under the age of 24, and it evens out after that.

Their "theory" is wishful thinking at best, delusion at worst.

LeGrandDiableBlanc · 2014-12-04T12:55:16+00:00

In a deregulated sexual marketplace, a majority of men will be able to have sex, even casual sex, once in a while, whereas a small elite minority of men will be able to have sex almost at will. Much like how in a deregulated financial market, most people can find a job, but a majority of people struggle week to week to pay the bills while a small minority are multi-millionares. In terms of sex, the difference would be maybe 1-6 average lifetime sexual partners for a majority of men, but with the elite having as many as 50+.

Almost every women without extenuating circumstances can obtain casual sex from a guy more physically attractive than herself. The result is most women trying to (and succeeding at) hooking up with more attractive men then themselves (hypergamy). As a consequence, the concentration of casual sex is heavily skewed towards elite men, whereas is more evenly distributed amongst women.

relationshipdownvote · 2014-12-04T14:36:44+00:00

I think there are social factors at play that skew it slightly, but if we were in our natural state, yes I believe our mating strategy would work similar to our closest ancestors, chimpanzees, where a few males have most of the sex with pretty much all the females. So if we cast aside the conservative social factors, as many young western men and women have, we will continue to act more and more towards this natural state.

ArkiF · 2014-12-04T19:30:10+00:00

Do redpillers think that a majority of heterosexual sex happens between most women but only a small minority of men?

I'm having trouble understanding the OP question.

winndixie · 2014-12-08T14:50:14+00:00

Yes, I do.

wombatinaburrow · 2014-12-04T06:59:39+00:00

This doesn't extend beyond the age when everyone else's balls drop and they get their acts together.

[deleted] · 2014-12-04T12:50:28+00:00

Yes. Perhaps not a small minority but something like 30% of men and 80% women.

Christian_Kong · 2014-12-06T00:31:34+00:00

I lean red and believe this is true. This coming from college and many years of bar experience. I've never met many younger girls that can go very long without sex. It at many times starts with a bad relationship or a broken up relationship where the girl keeps the ex for a fuck buddy. Usually from there the have a period where they sleep with hot guys(or the hottest they can get). They dont really have to do anything or put any effort into getting laid so they get with the hot guys and become a "plate" and occasionally have several dudes as their plates.

Men don't have the same option as cause most girls(from average to hot) are sleeping around with the hot guys. Most of the hot guys dont mind having a warchest of girls from average to hot while those average to hot girls would rather sleep with hot guys.

When at the bar and a new barfly shows up you know which regulars she is most likely going to bang.

CulturalMarxistCult · 2014-12-04T08:14:34+00:00

Most definitely it is. Men and women have different mating strategies. Men are most fullfilled with spinning plates, women are most fullfilled through serial monogamy. Women don't mind sharing one man if has high enough quality. Men do mind sharing. Women are extremely harsh when judging the opposite sex for mating quality. Men are extremely forgiving when judging the opposite sex for mating quality.

Add all these things up and you get: hot guys spinning plates with harems of 2-10 women, not hot guys jerking off in the corner or begging their SO for a bj for their birthday. Hot dudes are hot, girls want to get fucked by them, a lot... its not uncommon to fuck a girl 3-4 times in a night, every single night of the week. Sometimes the sex is so frequent it rubs my dick raw and I need to take days off so I can heal properly. Guys running the BB paradigm typically court their gf for 2-3 sexless months, then "fall in love" with all that vanilla cringeworthy sex, then they move in together and his beta nature amplifies, then she loses what little attraction she had for him and sex goes from once every few days to once a week to once a month to nothing.

Married couples have sex an average of 58 times a year, 111 times a year for married couples in their 20s... that's like 1-3 months worth of sex for proper plate spinner. A laughable amount. Even a moderate plate spinner should be averaging more than once per day, bringing us to at least 365 bangs a year for a plate spinner, vrs the high end of 111 times for a married couple and the math is clear as fucking day, they are having at least 3-4x the amount of sex with many many more women. And the would be worthy suitors these women could be shacking up with are likely sitting at home watching youporn fantasizing about how they are going to convince Shirley, the cheerleader next door, to go on a date with them while she is getting bent over doggy style by the captain of the football team.

But hey, don't listen to what I have to say... it's all just a bunch of neckbeard fetish porn writting and doesnt really happen this way. So just go back to burying your head in the dirt and pretending I don't exist.

Title	Do redpillers think that a majority of heterosexual sex happens between most women but only a small minority of men?
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