If a man is always telling you how “busy” he is from the start, he is just setting it up so you have low expectations for his effort and communication because he is so “busy.” ABORT!!! You are busy too but you don’t talk about it constantly.

If a man wants to put in time for you, he will. No one is ever too busy for what they care about.

Yes, a true HVM will be busy but you won’t notice too much because he will make you a priority. He also won’t constantly talk about it.