Girl that friendzoned me told me that she slept with another guy. I asked her to not talk to me anymore.

nicetimeisback · 2017-03-22T06:24:55+00:00

she told you the same way she would tell to a female friend of her.

in her eyes you don't even have a dick.

ghost that bitch, block her and hard next forever.

Auvergnat · 2017-03-22T00:53:59+00:00

Had to make ending conversation her responsibility? Own your life.

If you dont want to talk to her, stop talking. Don't make her do the heavy lifting

abdada · 2017-03-21T23:26:23+00:00

You had oneitis and you continued to talk to her?

She did you a favor.

But now you still feel sorry for her.

Emotional tampon: max level.

MrAnderzon · 2017-03-21T23:27:38+00:00

Yea ghost her and don't initiate any conversation with her unless she wants to fuck.

yummyluckycharms · 2017-03-22T05:52:39+00:00

You can be friends with women all the time....just some pointers

never be friends with a woman that you still have even the slightest shred of romantic/sexual feelings for
never talk in matters regarding love/sex....their hamsters would'nt be able to understand
make sure the relationship goes both ways....if she isnt providing something in return - cut

Platos_slow_brother · 2017-03-21T23:39:33+00:00

You made a mistake in letting her think you were someone with whom to have that sort of coversation to begin with. You should have been emotionally distant and unavailable to her after she LJBFed you.

Cantloginhere · 2017-03-22T00:54:53+00:00

There is the possibility she thinks you will be jealous, and or is letting you know she is sexually desired. Women are messed up like that.

They see Chad banging other women as upping his smv and mistakenly believe guys think the same way. When in fact a woman talking about another guy or being a slut actually has the opposite effect.

XZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT · 2017-03-21T23:38:27+00:00

OP you need to start lifting.

MALE_TIME · 2017-03-21T23:24:29+00:00

Sounds like you did the right thing. You don't need friends like that, don't waste your time with her.

smirk_addict · 2017-03-22T03:50:59+00:00

I think you handled this perfectly. I don't agree with other posters telling you just cease contact. When you do that, you have that annoying time frame where that person reaches out to you or still tries to be chummy with you. You act all short and distant until they get the hint.. To me, that's just some faggot ass shit.

If you don't want to communicate with someone anymore, it's best to be direct about why and just straight up tell them you no longer want any kind of friendship/relationship with them. Nothing to speculate. If they want to be apart of your life again, they know the issue and what needs to be addressed(this doesn't apply to you OP. Nothing to fix with this. Nothing to gain).

theoctopuss · 2017-03-22T15:02:59+00:00

Why do you give a fuck? Ghost this hoe, get jacked, then maybe one day if you see her again you can apply red pill and smash her pussy in.

If she starts talking about this kind of shit, don't reply. She'll get the hint.

PissedPajamas · 2017-03-22T03:58:02+00:00

Should've ignored and ghosted her. She would've taken the hint

prodigy2throw · 2017-03-22T04:34:13+00:00

You did good bud. You're learning. Now stick with t and don't talk to her unless it's on your terms. And your terms should be no pants party or fuck off

solstice38 · 2017-03-22T08:53:11+00:00

Keep in mind that there are literally 4 billion women out there.

Don't waste time with someone who's in a dynamic that's not providing for your wants and needs.

trancedj · 2017-03-22T03:30:52+00:00

"I hope I did this right now".

If this is what you wanted to do and you have zero expectations from this woman. Then yes. Anything else is a no, you're fucking up. And that's ok. I've had plenty of grenades blow up in my face. It's the only way to learn.

Story time! I met this athlete on tinder. I'd give her a solid HB7. She had the best legs and ass I'd ever seen with very small boobs. Anyway, we get done banging and I ask her, "so when did you get your breast reduction?" She responded by leaving and never speaking to me again. Went for the soft tease and ended up dropping a tactical nuke.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-03-22T11:20:27+00:00

Why were you even still talking to her to begin with

Stop being an orbiting loser. Ghost forever.

[deleted] · 2017-03-22T09:47:46+00:00

Why should she exist to you, when your dick plainly doesn't exist to her? You did good. Keep moving!

helgisson · 2017-03-22T11:32:00+00:00

You did well to break it off, but you don't need to specifically tell her "don't talk to me anymore." It's unnecessarily dramatic. Just break off contact and ignore her - clearly she's into other guys so it's not worth your time. No hard feelings, just "next."

[deleted] · 2017-03-22T14:05:31+00:00

You're either her girlfriend or fucking her. Which one is you?

Why are you wasting your time with women that aren't fucking you? She played fair here, you should know better. Spend time improving yourself. A lot of time.

SouloftheVoid · 2017-03-22T18:04:14+00:00

You shouldn't have even apologized, just hold a funeral for her in your head and treat her like she's in the cemetery.

DanskJack · 2017-03-22T13:10:57+00:00

OP you fucked up getting friendzoned and you fucked up by how you ended things, but this is all positive. In life either succeed or learn from mistakes. You will probably make these mistakes again on your journey, but take a positive spin on these events. You already done great by seeking advice here, keep on going.

maniclurker · 2017-03-22T05:22:54+00:00

Why the fuck...

Why are you here? You're not learning any of the lessons. Do you want a high five for admitting to being a giant pussy?

Grow some nuts. Even now, you would let this bitch whisper over the phone about how she licks the cum off some other guys shaft, while you spank your dick with your eyes closed, wishing fervently that she'd come touch your little pecker.

Nut the fuck up dude. Stop telling us about how much of a beta bitch you are. Do something about it.

hugaddiction · 2017-03-22T06:41:47+00:00

one down, the rest to go. Good luck, keep it up.

aga080 · 2017-03-22T14:07:50+00:00

never had something like this happen to me, but i will ghost a bitch if they even say something wrong, so you did the right thing OP

TheRedStoic · 2017-03-22T20:14:09+00:00

You did well.

Don't use please so easily. Frame things as statements. It'll get you far.

Aaronindhouse · 2017-03-22T23:43:02+00:00

You took a step forward OP. maybe not the best step or the ideal step, but still it was a step forward.

Returnofthemack3 · 2017-03-23T00:35:06+00:00

you did the right thing. If you have feelings for a girl, and she's not reciprocating, you should never work under the delusion that you can be friends. This goes beyond red pill, honestly. It's just common fucking advice

SoulRedemption · 2017-03-23T07:56:14+00:00

If you were being a beta orbiter, you spoke to her again after letting go? You need to read more. Before asking others if you did the right thing, ask yourself if you did the right thing comparing it to all the learning material and posts provided.

RedAsBlood · 2017-03-25T14:09:40+00:00

Good for you for setting boundaries. You are on the right path.

Now you just need to polarize asap after you meet them and this won't happen any more.

Mckallidon · 2017-03-25T21:57:08+00:00

You told her you were sorry for her bad life choices. She's going to laugh about this while some other dudes load oozes out of her lol.

Don't ever explain yourself to woman. Whether hurt or discarding ass trash, just do it and leave. You 1) never owe anyone, ever, an explanation, and 2) you never tell a woman how you feel.

not_humorous · 2017-03-22T18:28:46+00:00

You guys are pathetic, you can be friends with a woman without being a dickless beta. You can do many things with a girl without an intention of fucking her.

Trooper_1868 · 2017-03-22T05:28:46+00:00

In this situation, what if your platonic? aka You will never ever want to fuck/date/hook up etc. My best friend, is super innocent, but if she told me this, it wouldnt phase me. I would just throw it aside as, lets not talk about this or congratulate her, and make fun of her.

vampiresareposeurs · 2017-03-22T11:54:11+00:00

Its none of your business who she sleeps with it's her choice, she doesn't owe you shit because you talk to her or whatever. If you don't wanna talk to her because she slept with someone then it's not her loss and you're just kinda a dick.

Title	Girl that friendzoned me told me that she slept with another guy. I asked her to not talk to me anymore.
Author	pleeskeen
Upvotes	126
Comments	108
Date	March 21, 2017 11:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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