There are lots of posts I see by women, that goes along the following lines:

Women have the power over men, you can tell by the full inbox on their dating apps and the fact that their inbox is filled with enough hot men to take them out regularly.

I don't really understand how these women think and if they have the capacity to think at all.

There are about equal amount of men and women, so how is it possible for men or women to have power?

Well there is only one way, and it is by definition non monogamous, if a woman shares a hot man with 10 other women, then technically she is getting a top tier man and it is possible to get more, I won't argue about that.

But since we still live in a monogamous society, this is merely an illusion of power which would disappear immediately once you want to get off the sharing model, this is similar to a game of musical chairs with 80 women and 20 chairs or even less, once the music stops most of these women will realize that there are no chairs left for them while it was playing the amount of chairs looked abundant since there was no issue moving from one chair to the next.

So can someone translate what exactly these women actually mean?