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[–]janeaustenfan99FDS Newbie223 points224 points225 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This makes me feel better about my own experiences...
[–]a-net_FDS Disciple50 points51 points52 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I should be sending this text to some but for the sake of no contact I am not doing it 🙏
[–]Chip_Man56746 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, that’s the point
[–]greenappletwFDS Apprentice169 points170 points171 points 6 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
She's right.
But also I think a lot of these guys are narcissistic. Meaning their internal problem comes before their actions. They start off empty and completely insecure inside, like a vacuum. They use others as a result. And then they fall deeper into their pit of despair once the high of using others is over. They will repeat the cycle until they die, in or out of marriage.
I highly recommend that any woman dating in current times become very familiar with narcissists and their red flags. If you know enough, they will start to stand out to you like a sore thumb.
Dr. Ramani and Surviving Narcissim are two great YouTube channels that will give you the basics.
[–]o_charlie_oFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My ex was like this, addicted to validation from women. Made him dress all kinds of loud ways and always post statements pretending to be “deep” and “woke” fishing for conversations from women but all he really was doing was echoing shit I said in private conversations from a raw females perspective on FB for attention because I wouldn’t ever see it since I didn’t have one. I’m glad my friend finally told me and I’m outta that hot mess
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[–]o_charlie_oFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sing it louder for the people in the back girl! They’re just fishing for attention
[–]o_charlie_oFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah it made me feel gross whenever I thought about him once I figured out it was all an act. Im so embarrassed that I dated him. I’m dating a shy guy now and he’s amazing! Reserved, calm supportive and helpful. Thank fuck my ex is gone and I’m happy I knew to watch out for the overly charismatic ones that always seem to say the right thing but can’t handle being told no, most of the time they’re manipulating.
[–]curlygirl507FDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I agree and would also like to add that the YouTube Channel "Assc Direct" helped me as well.
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[–]redbirdfliesFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I want to recommend Melanie Tonia Evans. She is an expert in helping those who suffer with the trauma of being in a relationship with a narcissist
She was a huge help in not just understanding narcissism but healing from it. Most of what I found on the internet was explaining narcissism and while it was worthwhile to arm myself with the knowledge, I also got caught up in the obsession to understand it in order to make sense of the trauma I suffered. Understanding it is one thing, and its helpful to do so, however, it didn’t help the healing process. It actually made it more difficult because it’s so easy to get triggered back in to trauma.
Melanie has a system of learning to heal. It’s a bit new-age-y . A bit life-coach-y and it may not be for everyone but it helped me tremendously. The program itself costs money but she has tons of healing guides for free on YouTube so there’s no need to invest in it if you don’t have the means. She has a Facebook page and one night in my darkest moment when my ex was threatening a smear campaign against me and gaslighting me to the point of a panic attack I messaged her and she answered me within two minutes. She guided me through the worst hour of my life in real time. She is a true angel.
If you have time, look her up. I was able to completely sever the ties to a year long relationship with a cerebral narcissist with her help.
[–]frecklesinbostonFDS Newbie107 points108 points109 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Wow! I think this was well put and makes total sense to me. It reminds me of an interesting read from The NY Times regarding men who never settled down “meet the New York bachelors who yearn for something more”. I haven’t reread it but basically about how they never settled down when they were young and now they’re lonely.
[–]loveshackerFDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
uh duh! that’s generally what happens when you don’t build relationships with people 😖
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[–]EmergencyShitFDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My mom and dad divorced when i was really little, but one thing my dad did well for himself was keep his friendships active. He has friends from HS that he still sees regularly.
My husband on the other hand does almost zero labor in his friend circle. If we weren’t neighbors with his brother and SIL then he would see friends like twice a year lol. His bro is his best friend (and I think it counts bc some people aren’t friends with their siblings).
Sometimes he’ll lament that he’s bad at staying in touch and I’m just like “yeah you should do something about it.” And nothing happens. vOv
[–]magenta_mojoFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One of my husband's friends was going out with a really amazing woman for 2 years. She had a great job, was fun and smart. She wanted to get married and he didn't. She left him. Got married and is now happy.
Him? He's about to turn 50 and is renting a room in an apartment with a couple of other 20-something guys in NYC. What kind of life is that, at 50. Still brings her up to my husband... "I miss Lisa." My husband: "I don't even wanna hear it. I told you you were making a mistake."
It's pretty sad...
[–]saucypieceFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Imo, these guys probably have more issues at play than what this article states. If they’re so “eligible”, then why do no women want to stick around or alternatively how is no woman good enough for them?
[–]MagnoliaMirageFDS Newbie148 points149 points150 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Damn she went for the jugular
[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie83 points84 points85 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Didn't know the Jugular is located in the penis
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🥴🥴😭😭😭😭
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The truth HURTS.
[–]themissdaydreamerFDS Disciple81 points82 points83 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
they crave the emotional connection but haven't developed the empathy and self-awareness to get it. they see other males as competition or bros', women are always 'ho*es', no real bonding. so they come to reddit to complain about having no friends and how nobody has complimented/hugged them for a year or so. I'm yet to see one of theses dudes who don't act like the world has failed them in getting success in life and love.
and I think that's why saying the 'FDS is PUA for women' is so misleading. while PUA commodifies relationships into power play, FDS advocates for building rapport and establishing healthy relationships of all kinds. we see people as multidimensional human beings instead of labeling other females as 'competition' and men as 'prey'. and even if we're out of the dating marketing, we're focusing on improving our lives and don't dwell in loneless for too long, since we have a support system of loved ones, let it be family or just friends.
basically just stop using your genitals as your moral compass and maybe you'll start geeting hugs again.
[–]gothoneybonesFDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
just stop using your genitals as your moral compass
omg i love this 🙌
[–]afroteacherismFDS Newbie62 points63 points64 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Do they even have the self awareness get this?? I fear not.
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think some do and they rarely come online to say so. Those are the guys u know irl who for whatever reason breaks down in front of you and confesses this.
Guys online, if they're going to expend energy into saying something, its rarely anything that would showcase their vulnerability like this. Which is trash bc how refreshing would it be to safely communicate with men online away from their dereliction and playboy dreams
Imagine what it would do for the sexes if some of the more jaded men online had more to talk about than their penis? But ok I guess angry manifestos and dark online lair circle jerks work too
[–]anchovycupcakesFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
I think they are getting this. There's a lot of desperation amongst men and I for one feel very little sympathy whatsoever for them because dating in 2013 - 2017 in my city was A LIVING HELL. No one felt sympathy for me when I felt disposable and unimportant a despaired over my experiences trying to find an honest and genuine relationship with a man in this transactional Tinder hellscape.
But in the last few years, they all whine about how tired of swiping they are and how empty it all is... OHHHH REEEAAALLLY.
And they're so fucking desperate is absolutely repellant.
Meanwhile, I've transformed into a whole different beast. I'm independent. I have many friends. I have my beautiful apartment and my travels and my work. I've had to adjust to the idea that my dreams of a romantic relationship might not happen, so let's look elsewhere and cultivate all the other areas of life that can bring me joy and contentment.
In doing that, my life is pretty great. Yes, I don't have a husband, but I actually don't want one unless he fits into my world practically seamlessly and improves it. I'm not making space for Mr Slobby, or Mr Average and definitely not for Mr Minimal Effort.
Every man I've met lately is fawning and desperate and clingy and just over-the-top in trying to lock something down and I couldn't be further away from giving a fuck about ever having one in my life.
My city has a horrible male-to-female ratio and when Tinder arrived, they were just AWFUL. They would hardly buy you a fricking drink and no one made any effort to get to know you, the first thing they would get out of the way is that they don't want anything serious and then the next thing would be figuring out of you're DTF. Years and years of this shit in my town.
So the way I am is a reaction to that. I had to give up thinking I could ever have a loving, honest relationship and I did. I gave it up. And now they've all done a 180 and think they can just flip a switch and make women like me open and vulnerable again, just because they're lonely and desperate all of a sudden.
Fuck off. Talk to a therapist. Not my problem.
I've had men I had such electric and genuine chemistry with who just discarded me because they wanted to "have fun" come back out of the woodwork and APOLOGISE and tell me how great I really was and what a mistake it was... But guess what? I don't want them anymore. They literally make me sick. I cried and cried over them when it happened, thinking I was crazy and it must be one sided because I couldn't undertand how they could discard what I was feeling, but no, I wasn't mistaken... They just thought they could have their cake and eat it too. YOU CAN'T.
I'm super picky and completely unapologetic about it. Bring your A-game and don't be too fawning and desperate please.
[–]yeontanwFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I cried and cried over them when it happened, thinking I was crazy and it must be one sided because I couldn't undertand how they could discard what I was feeling
Oh gosh yes this is what I am currently going through, really felt love with this one guy who wants to keep searching for someone better, and it was painful to let him go because I love and respect myself. Obviously he still tries to be existent in my life but I've upgraded from free trial to platinum.
[–]anchovycupcakesFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm glad to hear that. Once he passes you up, NEVER let him come crawling back. He'll never respect you or value you, no matter what he says. True love is mutual respect and valuing one another from day dot with no shadows and blemishes on your story with how you got together. It's honesty and integrity. Mr Multi-dater, who wants to have his cake and eat it too and get a taste of every piece he can is never, ever going to be that guy.
I think it's easier to get over them to when you're resolute about them being unworthy and never giving them the time of day. You mourn when you delude yourself into thinking it could have been something great. It was never going to be that, he's not that guy. Next!
[–]Queencake504FDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👑👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
[–]NitenitedragoniteFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I imagine them blankly staring at the phone screen, reading this, and saying out loud in a monotone voice, “nahhh.” Then they click on her pics and begin to jerk off while simultaneously texting their N̶e̶x̶t̶ ̶v̶i̶c̶t̶i̶m̶ low self esteem hook up for the night (who’s totally willing because she thinks sex will keep him around) what sexy things to wear and that she’s the only one he wants.
[–]afroteacherismFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I imagine you're right!!
[–]gigababejflFDS Newbie100 points101 points102 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is a strong af statement. Wow. Too true.
I wonder if any guy like this read this and really recieved the truth of it. At least one.
[–]saucypieceFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They usually need to learn the hard way.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist191 points192 points193 points 6 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
LVM: 'HuRrr DuRrRRr - I need to find me a down ass woman (male speak for budget mommy), not these dumb instagram WhOrEs HuRr dUrRrR ' \insert something about chad/ 80/20/ goldiggas/divorce rape**
*Meets attractive smart loyal woman who is technically too good for him anyway: treats her like a joke until she gets bored of his immaturity and ditches him because she has too many options/too much going to tolerate his clownfoolery & BLATANT cheating. He will call her 'hypergamous' & 'superficial' for not tolerating this- maybe neg her for extra esteem points. Tells the next girl she 'cheated' on him & that's why he 'struggles to be emotionally available' \sob sob*- when in fact she ditched him for being an ass. Continues to repeat this cycle treating women as commodities for his consumption and calls them 'entitled' 'demanding' 'stuckup' for expecting basic respect / consistency from him to stick around. Has silent depression breakdown & cries salty tears onto his mothers spare (now mouldy) mattress cos he feels 'alone' & mIsUndErsToOd & his life is not going the direction he wants because he's too fucking lazy/narcissistic to admit he does anything wrong. Can't talk to 'tHe BrO's' about it so hunts empathetic single women to use as a crutch again. Admires himself in the mirror like Johnny Bravo through his salty tears: 'I AM A KING!!! FUCK YEAH TRP *beats chest*. Scoffs at therapy /doing anything that requires effort to improve himself- blames feminism or the government or something. Gives some sob story about the broken home he grew up in whilst treating women like UTTER garbage. Continues destructive behaviours & trying to leech off pickmeishas emotional labour/ clown innocent higher value women for a fragile ego boost with ZILCH to offer them except humiliation, drama & lies. Laments lack of 'good women' and 'stuckup whores' not appreciating him for the KING he believes he is. Repeat x50 until he ends up with a pickmeisha baby mother he will later accuse of 'trapping' him & 'raping' him in court.*
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’ve perfectly described the typical LVM behind all those “Miss u”, “hey how r u” and the belated “Happy New Year” texts. Sad.
[–]ceramicunicornFDS Disciple23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is dying to be a short film.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly I would love to do skits on fuckboys- I get a ladyboner from exposing their blatant insecurities.
[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist35 points36 points37 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You just described my ex. Wow
[–]MissChienIKFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same yeesh
[–]alliroxoxoFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was just about to say the same thing, I nearly choked on my water, I legit thought she had met my first ex-boyfriend 😂
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you know, my father had to divorce my mother and he never made one single complaint about paying thousands of dollars every month for like 10 years in child support. Why? Because he loves his children and children need money to survive.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WhAt you mean children need MONEY to survive????? Nah- it must be so the megabitch mother can get her nails done- the kids can feed themselves obv
Loool LVM find excuses for everything
[–]saucypieceFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have no idea how all divorce proceedings work... yet. But, I’m sure “divorce rape” affects women too. These guys choose to stay blind to how a divorce affects a woman and only care to see how it affects them. They demonize their wives/girlfriends/women. They’re not willing to take any responsibility for their own actions and how they contributed to their own so called demise. They can never understand how a “nice” passive aggressive, selfish, and probably delusional guy like him could have such a cruel manipulative megabitch (see: assertive woman) dump his ass.
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Repeat x50 until he ends up with a pickmeisha baby mother he will later accuse of 'trapping' him & dragging him to court.
What a fate perfect for the LVM!
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems like you know my ex fwb personally😭🙈
[–]yeontanwFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sis went off damn queen.
[–]dkarmFDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I think guys go into the whole nsa thing thinking they’re going to have lots of sex with lots of women and really party it up. I think they do meet women occasionally who go along with that and want it too. But for the most part, especially on dating sites where they’re plainly stating their intentions, they don’t get much response and find it’s not as easy as they think. I’m never matched with a guy on the sites who hit me up immediately who doesn’t sound pathetic and desperate.
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
they'll put that they're looking for a relationship as a way to lure women for sex and for whatever else a "relationship" requires from HER part; not his
[–]dkarmFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good point. When I was young and naive (meaning when I first got on dating sites a couple of years ago), I would give guys my phone number thinking we’d talk for a bit and set up a date. Nope. Almost always they’d get gross the minute we started talking. Now I’ve learned to not give out phone numbers until after we’ve made plans and met. I think the type of guys you’re talking about are the ones who think they’re slick. And it probably does work better for them.
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am and theyve done it because its worked before and on me 😅 When i give my number out, its my google voice number. They dont get my real number because 1) they usually show their asses before meeting 2) i have to go on a date with them AND THEY MUST PAY!
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex is finally realizing this cold, hard truth. He claimed to have changed dramatically and so, after a year of ignoring his texts, I agreed to go out with him on a couple dates, then on a short trip with him to see for myself. When he went RIGHT back to his old ways and I said “no thanks” to more of that shit, he told me “you haven’t changed at all!” Lol. Buddy, the onus was never on ME to change! He actually hoped that I had changed and wouldn’t “trigger” him, because you all are right - if they haven’t changed by say age 30, it’s not going to happen. He’s 43 btw, and will never face himself and never change.
[–]circescircusFDS Disciple178 points179 points180 points 6 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
I don't think most LVM have the self-awareness or intelligence to connect the dots. A lot will continue to blame women and society for everything wrong in their life, until they die.
It's a good post, but she still gives men too much credit. They don't have the self-awareness or empathy to connect the dots like this.
The only time they'll regret a missed connection or opportunity, is if they see an ex and she looks great, has a better life than him. And even then, it's a case of wanting what you don't have, it's not a moment of reflection, where you suddenly appreciate what you once had.
And in any case, porn, video games, drugs, alcohol and manosphere sites are not going anywhere-- whenever they have bad feelings (which is very often), they'll indulge in those things. As they currently do, and will probably continue to do.
The human brain doesn't finish developing until around age 25. This is the age where people start to become who they are, and they largely don't change in major ways after that. If a man can't figure this stuff out from 25-30, he likely never will.
[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They don't get it, because they want easy casual sex from 500 different women, and ALSO someone to come home to every night who loves them unconditionally and emotionally supports them.
They don't get why they can't have both things handed to them with zero effort on their part.
[–]saucypieceFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s even sadder when the empathy is there, but they’re too fucking stupid for their own good...
“I feel guilty when you tell me you’re hurt over something I did, exactly what I did that hurt you, and why it hurts you. This means you’re guilt-tripping me. Guilt-tripping is manipulative. Therefore, you’re manipulating me.”
Tl;dr: “I feel guilty when I hurt you so you’re manipulating me.”
I’m mad at you for being mad at me!
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I cant stand that childish ass shit. The lack of their luck with women is their fault cause no woman in her right mind would put up with that shit and they hate it; but want the respect of being called a mAn😂😂😂
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I read up on sociopathy. The onset of it is about 15 and I'm starting to believe that's as far as their mindsets will go...
[–]saucypieceFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Aren’t sociopaths supposed to be intelligent? More so than your average narcissist?
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They can be. Sociopaths will know how to read you, manipulate you, and can have multiple engagements with different people and also you
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They aren't that smart if they trash the beautiful gift of life
[–]saucypieceFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think this type of guy rationalizes things by telling himself “don’t you worry, buddy! That bitch is going to hit the wall soon. Doesn’t even matter that I practically totaled when I hit the wall!”
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahahahaha!!!
[–]merlinsmoonFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alllll of this.
[–]Killer_BhreeFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can think of a few people who needed to hear this years ago
[–]AkuabafefeFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS!! My God THIS!!!
[–]HoneyNJ2000FDS Apprentice27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh...only the very astute ones will figure that out. Not holding out too much hope, however.
[–]ritablueboys1FDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dont feel sorry for guys who do women wrong. Theyre just suffering from karma and want us to feel bad for them LOL
[–]Kate-DaGr8FDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How are they so dumb that they literally let base urges ruin their lives.
[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because men are actually weak af
[–]galizaceiveFDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This, but including the part where they have to pay for sex
[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You’re wrong though! They don’t pay for sex - they pay her to leave 😂 😂 😂 🙄
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
B O O M!
[–]Lekina55FDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No such thing as “no strings attached”. EVER
[–]sweatydeathRuthless Strategist15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMAO. Same happened with me & some guy at work. Thankfully he works at a different office, but I saw him one time. Luckily I had my lashes and hair done that day so I looked professional (sometimes I come to work casual). He struggled to make eye contact - it was great. My initial thought upon seeing him was "my BF is way hotter".
[–]agnosticaPhoenixFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man you have got to be really desperate to put up with that though. Fantasy is infinitely better than that nightmare. I mean you'd have to be completely down on yourself.
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist65 points66 points67 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fucking yes. To all this.
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This, soooo much!!!
[–]throwaway64857FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow this perfectly describes one of my exes. Im glad someone put it onto words so well
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is gold.
[–]thegifthatkeepsonFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That gave me chills!
[–]v042636 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This one hit hard
[–]Gostofrij10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Apparently this is EXACTLY what happened to roosh v ... he got so high and mighty that he fell so far down.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Selfishness comes with a price. This phrase is now etched into my mind, eternally.
[–]okayrightsickcoolFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yes!!!
[–]greenteaapplepie69Ruthless Strategist11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love this post. I’ve always hated how casual LVM treat everything. Compartmentalising love, sex and whatever else.
[–]iLikeGooodboysAt-Risk Pick Me Youth12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
1 day they will be old bad and creepy and lonely and wont be able to attract women and will be begging for love and for a woman to wipe there ass and take care of them for ever.
[–]k97aw01FDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh snap.
[–]hcnnchFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so true, everything I’ve ever thought about casual no strings but never knew how to word it til now
[–]kaylafakenameduhhhThrowaway Account5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is too good of a point.
[–]creepingforresearch6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The check always comes due
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[–]inthelapofthegods_FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know right? I love victim blaming too, it’s so much easier than holding shitty people accountable. High five!
[–]DJSparksalotFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Literally the point of this sub is to highlight and avoid that but okay.
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[–]janeaustenfan99FDS Newbie223 points224 points225 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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[–]MagnoliaMirageFDS Newbie148 points149 points150 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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[–]themissdaydreamerFDS Disciple81 points82 points83 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist191 points192 points193 points (13 children) | Copy Link
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist30 points31 points32 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Ms_TillyRuthless Strategist35 points36 points37 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist65 points66 points67 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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