I'm wondering if we can make a formal list in the Recommended Reading section. I'm learning a lot of common red-flag phrases in OLD/texting with men. What are some that are especially sneaky?

For instance, I just learned "I'd like to take things slow and see where it goes" can be code for low effort and expecting girlfriend perks without commitment.

Also, "no drama," "I'm a nice guy," and "I don't believe feminism/#Metoo is necessary" come to mind.

What are some others? Thank you!

Edited to add:

"Self-employed"/"entrepeneur" often means "broke" or underemployed