When you're too busy trying to be the "cool girl", you end up being a pickme and walked all over. Honestly, I wish I could shake some sense into pickmes but they're not ready until they are.

Pasdepromesses · 2020-07-26T01:13:54+00:00

I'm a former pickme who met a HVM who somehow stick around long enough to show me what I deserved. I remember when he told me he never went to a strip club. I thought it was so weird, so I (omg) asked him if he wanted to go with me, he said no. I said I would be ok if he ever wanted to go with his friend. He told me he just didn't see the point of it. It litterally took me YEARS to understand that it was a normal behavior.

Sage_Planter · 2020-07-26T00:48:53+00:00

It's so sad that women are conditioned to think any of this is something that they shouldn't be accepting to begin with.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-26T02:02:49+00:00

She's so dumb. He knows she's a chump and he's fucking other women left, right and center right in her face. Oh and, his friends don't respect her either.

Just imagine the shitfest that would ensue if she got multiple lap dances by 6'2, beefy hotties with giant bulges! He certainly wouldn't be paying for that with a smile.

loudest_gusset · 2020-07-26T01:02:16+00:00

Excuse me? And why would you even want to be with a man who has an interest in strip clubs? Leave him there and never take him back.

talldrankofH2O · 2020-07-26T01:30:46+00:00

In what world, was him being in a strip club & getting lap dances ok either?

daisy_0720 · 2020-07-26T07:23:29+00:00

"I supported my boyfriend seeking sexual gratification from other women in front of me, now I feel disrespected because he sought sexual gratification from another woman in front of me!" -- a Pickme

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-07-26T00:52:06+00:00

Major eye rolls reading this 👀🤦🏼‍♀️

ErNz77 · 2020-07-26T02:01:08+00:00

Reading the parts when she says lol at the end of a couple of sentences reminds me of talking to someone & they fake laugh.

honeybeeroll · 2020-07-26T04:01:39+00:00

She PAID for his lap dances 😂🤡. Please tell me this is fake 😭

barmitzvahmoney · 2020-07-26T01:54:26+00:00

Honestly no stripper would EVER give a random patron her phone number this has to be fake

CharTheCatMom · 2020-07-26T01:32:21+00:00

Oh my fucking God I'm so over this bullshit seriously

lowfattitties · 2020-07-26T03:09:22+00:00

My ex’s friends pickmiesha girlfriends always tried to pressure me to go to the strip club with them. I was like no I’m not comfortable on multiple occasions.

YveisGrey · 2020-07-26T04:52:16+00:00

Mistake #1 going to a strip club with your man

SubstantialBedroom81 · 2020-07-26T01:05:29+00:00

Can we please start using the word women. I am honestly so bothered by seeing comments like

"No man who's taken should be getting any females numbers?"

I hate bullshit like this. Stop referring to people by genitals.

2020-07-26T04:15:08+00:00

I called the Lord name in vain 2 sentences in.

seraphinelysion · 2020-07-26T13:32:11+00:00

I love how she said she "lost" him for like 20 minutes as if she was only there with him to make sure he didn't do anything wrong. Girl, if you have to babysit your own man, he ain't a man. 😂 Miss me with that shit.

moredollals · 2020-07-26T04:54:17+00:00

Let me clarify that that isnt my comment underneath, it came up on my feed.

timetofliptables · 2020-07-26T03:39:55+00:00

“That’s weird.”

Nah, not weird. Fucked up.

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-07-26T12:42:17+00:00

"That's weird" = shorthand for "this is blatant misogyny but society has taught me to deny it and the cognitive dissonance is messing with me."

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-07-26T09:57:20+00:00

At this point I can't even feel sorry for pickmeishas. She must either be mind numbingly stupid or have some sort of cucking kink otherwise WHY would you pay for your boyfriend to get lap danced on by other women? Her fault either way jesus christ. This is what you get when you try to be the cool girl.

2020-07-26T12:19:29+00:00

Just COMMUNICATE!!! I'm sure he doesn't really want to cheat on you with her since you're such a cOoL gIrL right?

lowfattitties · 2020-08-04T03:42:39+00:00

I could see the men in a friend group thinking that. I’m glad you stood up for yourself.

2020-07-26T01:02:45+00:00

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GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-07-26T09:01:27+00:00

I'd understand if they were both just curious to see what is it like in strip club, but him getting stripper's number is reason to dump him.

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