Scrote brings strippers to house, wife wonders if shé's the asshole

K0rla · 2021-02-19T09:35:24+00:00

Soooo teaching a son to be a man is not about welcoming him into adulthood, teaching accountability, encouraging him to follow his dreams or to have a nice career... it’s about showing him how to objectify women. Disgusting.

eveloe · 2021-02-19T09:05:20+00:00

WHAT THE FUCK?!

RiasXgremoryX · 2021-02-19T10:20:41+00:00

Why do I feel like he used his son's birthday as an excuse to bring his favorite stripper into the house?

This is what happens when you let men slide, they start ice skating. Her husband(who has been cheating this whole time btw, that's why he's been more irritable lately) thought "since she's okay with letting me go the strip club to cheat every month, she'll be okay with me bringing a stripper home and cheating under her roof!"

This entire post is a horror story and what can happen when you keep accepting bad behavior from men as "normal."

creamtart_ · 2021-02-19T09:34:17+00:00

What in the pick me hell is this shit?!?!

I’m all for people setting their own boundaries and all, but how in the hell does she think it’s acceptable and not cheating for her husband to ogle and mentally fuck another woman, and then go as far to socialise THEIR OWN FUCKING SON to dehumanise and degrade women, reducing their humanity to mere sleazy “entertainment”.

WOW. This is terrible parenting. Yeah he’s 21 now but he has had terrible behaviour modelled from both his parents growing up. Being okay with your NVM trash fire husband is one thing, but raising another NVM out of it is another. I feel so so sorry for women like this, absolutely no self-respect.

Fiebre · 2021-02-19T09:59:01+00:00

Ok that's... that's next level. I was disgusted from the very first sentence. What fucking strip clubs? Poor woman even talked herself into justifying this behaviour, wtf. And in the end, the husband leaving "until she comes to her senses" oh god the nerve of him, HER coming to her senses. Just no.

puddinh · 2021-02-19T11:04:53+00:00

She sounds scared.

"I know this is not the same as cheating" "I know they are grown men and can do what they want" etc.

These don't sound like her own words/beliefs but things he has yelled at her so many times (and maybe got other men to "confirm") that she now expects abuse unless she adds them as a disclaimer.

SansaDeservedBetter · 2021-02-19T12:10:39+00:00

She was working overnight in the hospital during a pandemic while he did this?

He’s irritable because the strip clubs are closed and he can’t see his mistresses anymore.

There’s no way no one fucked that stripper. This man sounds so depraved that I bet he brought a prostitute over to have sex with his son, probably while he and his disgusting friends watched. Then, they probably took their turn.

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-02-19T09:07:25+00:00

Jfc what decade is she living in? Sounds like the early 1900s.

CelibateQueen · 2021-02-19T10:51:26+00:00

Basically: Objectifying women is a bonding experience for son and father. There are no other ways for him to bond with his son, because his monkey brain cannot comprehend anything but tits.

justforfds · 2021-02-19T10:40:21+00:00

These men lied because they know what they did is unacceptable and don't respect her, not even the 21 year old adult living under his mother's roof, lying and stonewalling her and helping his father gaslight her.

This woman is out working hard night shifts yet praises her husband in a special way for merely also working. Look at how the son shows his appreciation on her return from work! Disgusting.

I suspect she does most or all of the domestic work and the men in the house have no real reason to need to 'get away'as the husband demands. 'Getting away' from home for LVM is code for secretive activities or avoiding being asked to contribute in the housework and childcare.

We know what LVM are capable of but when a father encourages the son to disrespect his mother like this, the son too is a lost cause. She should get out of that house, divorce and leave them both to their own devices.

I suspect the man will already be covering his behind and preparing for divorce so she must protect her finances and any joint assets immediately. In fact, this screams to me of a man who had already decided the relationship was over. Even if she let's him walk all over her now, he'll want to either openly cheat or divorce her.

That husband is almost certainly cheating on her and using porn. To behave so brazenly in view of his wife and neighbours! To enlist his friends to bring it into her home, further underlining his desire to humiliate her!

There must have been an avenue of red flags leading to this.

She must tell everyone what he and her son did.

If it's simply male bonding to them and a father showing love for his son, they should feel proud and happy for anyone to know./s

Saitschik · 2021-02-19T11:59:31+00:00

A rule for life: don't marry misogynistic men who treat women like objects. You will end up miserable.

That the son doesn't talk to her now shows very well what he learned from his abusive and sexist father. Disrespect towards women runs in the family.

I pity women who follow a men have needs mindset and sacrifice themselves for it.

Hardwatergal · 2021-02-19T11:19:05+00:00

You knowingly had a child with this “sex work buyer” and he’s raising another misogynist and punter. Surprise surprise.

jp2117515 · 2021-02-19T12:22:12+00:00

So gross that the dad brings his son into his boner party. Everything about this is disgusting but trying to share your sexual fetishes with your son is exceptionally foul to me. Who wants to see their dad in action?!? 🤮🤢. Trash

BrooklynBabe33 · 2021-02-19T10:43:35+00:00

Gross she should kick both of them out -

randomgirlimok · 2021-02-19T13:03:07+00:00

Bonding with your son = getting boners together? Gross

EarthKveik · 2021-02-19T10:10:28+00:00

Pickme mum, low value son. Sad.

StarfishSabbatical · 2021-02-19T13:26:31+00:00

"He said this is something he and his son had wanted to do for a long time"

Ladies, if you have the stomach, can you please imagine a grown man talking to his son and dreaming together about the day they can get aroused together by treating some poor woman like a dog?

Colour_riot · 2021-02-19T13:25:15+00:00

Ouch the scrote genes were just too strong huh. God do I not want a son ever

giftofnocondemnation · 2021-02-19T13:11:45+00:00

This woman needs to hire a chippendale to come to her house and strip all sexy like. Also the chippendale can serve the cheating NVM the divorce papers. If I was a rich woman I would send him for her.

Diamond_fairy · 2021-02-19T10:13:36+00:00

This needs a trigger warning, I'm literally shaking thinking at how painful and heartbreaking this is. Not only that disgusting scrote had the audacity to violate the sacred place that the family house is, but he also ruined forever the life that she generated with a lot of sacrifices.

To not even talk about that yes, that's cheating, and there's no need to be ok with it if she's not comfortable. There's no terms of divorce that will ever be able to bring justice to this, but at least it will make things a bit more even and allow her to move on from the trashcan that he is.

VanessaViews · 2021-02-19T13:44:09+00:00

"I understand he has a hard job and needs to unwind sometimes" she is literally working overnights at a hospital during covid but yeah I'm sure work is so hard for him.

ItsFreezen · 2021-02-19T13:17:37+00:00

I doubt his job is "hard". More lies men tell.

Title	Scrote brings strippers to house, wife wonders if shé's the asshole
Author	amorchicho
Upvotes	138
Comments	36
Date	February 19, 2021 8:37 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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