In your life, how high is "getting fe/male attention" ranked in terms of importance? What things in life do you consider more important than getting fe/male attention?

So take the typical list of various assets and aspects of life: friendships, relationships, sex, careers, family, hobbies and recreation, education, mental/physical health, politics, etc. How do you rank them, importance-wise, in your life? I know they overlap here and there but you get the idea.

Specifically, I am asking how these aspects rank relative to "getting fe/male attention" - in other words getting romantic/sexual attention from (wo)men. How importance is this aspect of life to you, relative to everything else? Do you care about this more than, say your career, friendships, etc?

The way you can answer this is by asking: of all the self-improvement you do in life, what is the ultimate end-goal you hope to achieve via this improvement? If you have only ONE answer to this, then this answer is the highest-ranking importance in your life.