As the average American woman is a whopping 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 135lbs and a size 4 to 6 now considered "high standards"?

mairomaster · 2021-06-18T14:01:28+00:00

Damn boy, what sort of elephants do you have in America?

idreamofkitty · 2021-06-18T13:50:12+00:00

Wanting a partner with the discipline to invest in their health seems like a reasonable standard to me.

If you lower your standard, it'll eventually become your liability when you need to take care of a diabetic partner.

_lock_down_ · 2021-06-18T14:12:45+00:00

I would recommend occasionally moving some of your hobbies in to social events. Depending on where you live, there are plenty of clubs for running, biking, etc. Staying within this realm will filter out the unfit and unhealthy.

Do not allow yourself to slide however. If you currently do these things for yourself, only occasionally do them with other people. Do not let your routine slide because the meeting with the hot girls is during the same time. Always put yourself first.

Schhwing · 2021-06-18T10:10:04+00:00

I’d say if you compared the average male American you’d see equally sad results. If you’re ahead of the bell curve, you can expect to hit those ahead of the bell curve.

Coldsteelforreal · 2021-06-18T15:07:36+00:00

It's disgusting how large swathes of western society encourages being fat (for men and women, although far more support and encouragement is given to women).

Also no, there's plenty of slim ones, just know where to meet them. Gym, track, park, etc. If you go into Mcdonalds looking to pick up a chick, you're gonna get a McFatty.

JasonStar79 · 2021-06-18T17:13:46+00:00

Fat is the new sexy. Haven't you seen the ~~propaganda~~ lingerie models nowadays?

throwitdownman · 2021-06-18T20:11:27+00:00

The bigger you are, the smaller they get. Get swole bro!

christopherames · 2021-06-18T15:52:47+00:00

OLD and the obesity epidemic are the two biggest reasons why dating is harder for men than in the past. This topic doesn’t get as much attention on TRP as it should.

TemperateSloth · 2021-06-18T14:16:10+00:00

One issue is that you’re using mean instead of median for weight, which is a horrible idea. There is a lower limit on weight. If you get that low, they will institutionalize you and force you to grow. Or you will just die of starvation. By contrast, someone below the age of 35 can really get about as fat as they want without dying and can expect to live to 50 or so (God bless technology) if they aren’t crazy fat. This means there’s no upper limit, but there is a lower one. This fucks the average, even though the median person isn’t as fat.

The median weight is about 10 lb lower than the average. That means half of all women will have stats lower than 161-ish/5'4''. This puts the median squarely in the middle of overweight, which isn't insane. And remember, it’s a bellcurve so that means many, many more women proportionally are in a more acceptable range.

T00kTheRedPill · 2021-06-18T15:25:24+00:00

Your standards are yours brother and you’re right for having them.

When my current LTR asked for my commitment it was during the Connor Macgreggor and Khabib Nurmagomedov (sp?) fight. That was my queue to set the boundaries and if she wasn’t down for any of them, I’d be cool with staying fuck buddies.

One of my boundaries was / is no bait and switch on looks. She was and is 5’2” and 124 lbs, fit, thin, feminine and long, curly beautiful red hair. If she goes above 124 lbs, I’m immediately out, and I expect her to expect me to not get fat too. She stays between 119 - 124 lbs..

My point is to keep your standards and if you find a cool chick, wait for her to ask for your commitment and when she does, you tell her what you expect. They may shit test you so you let them know what your hard, no-go boundaries are and if she crosses them, you’ve gotta let her go. I’m not going to be committed to a girl who looked good to get my commitment and then turns to a fucking, fat, gooey ass like every other Americunt female. I want to be able to get my dick hard before I try to fuck her and I wish more men were like that.

Guys, stop Gumpin’ !!! -Coach Greg Adams

LLL3peat · 2021-06-18T15:32:57+00:00

Its been known for a while, if you are under 18% body fat you are at least ahead of 75% of the population regards to health and the dating market. Seriously most people will have high success by not being "normal socially accepted overweight" as the new normal instead of being fit and sexy. The HAES movement has ruined everything.

New_Guard · 2021-06-19T02:19:54+00:00

Who cares what anybody else defines things as man? You have your standards, and you will not relax them. If a woman meets your standards, she gets action. If she doesn't, she has no chance with you.

Work hard to be a good enough man that some women who meet your standards will be interested.

tetrachromancy · 2021-06-18T11:21:08+00:00

Move to cities where people are fit

anon111220 · 2021-06-18T22:41:45+00:00

You are absolutely correct, a slim woman in America with average everything else is automatically about 7/10. Even worse, she will have the ego of a 9.5/10.

If you want a slim woman, you need to be capable of pulling about 8 or higher, end of story.

It sucks, and it’s a top reason why America is a shithole country. No nation can claim excellence with so many disgusting women.

Popilou1 · 2021-06-18T22:29:08+00:00

If it is a problem to have standards, sign me up as the douche bag who never bangs a slut over 130 pounds.

misterbigtime · 2021-06-18T22:52:15+00:00

Everyone’s nice and thin in the big cities - get out of the suburbs!

MattyAnon · 2021-06-18T16:50:51+00:00

but it seems that wanting a slim or healthy weight female is now considered "high standards" by a huge entourage of people as the average American female is very overweight

Yes, but who gives a fuck what other people think?

where as guys are going to be judged on facial attractiveness, height and general genetics before fat / bodyweight, as well as status and income

Men are judged on bodyfat too, if you plan on having sex with her. Less so in other areas of life.

Its simply a lot harder now for the average healthy weight guy to get a healthy weight girlfriend.

Yeah, partly because it's 80:20. 80% of the girls are after 20% of the guys, and will get them, at least for sex.

Is it better to just look for foreign women at this point, considering a plain, slim 5/10 American woman has thousands of orbiters she's swatting away and she has the luxury of holding out for that 6'3, 9/10 Chad?

Be very attractive and you can date slim Western women.

OddlyHetero · 2021-06-18T16:55:00+00:00

It’s getting even worse unfortunately. People are getting more and more comfortable with being fat. Especially in the younger generation.

dadudenines · 2021-06-18T17:39:31+00:00

Totally agree. The game has become far harder as the acceptable options have just shrunk in America. Even dolls are beating the real thing out in Austria: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4810660/Austrian-brothel-buys-SECOND-sex-doll-high-demand.html

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-06-18T17:49:45+00:00

where's all the spinners? lets make American great again!

Taipoe · 2021-06-18T18:20:51+00:00

Idk where you live but on the west coast here women aren’t so bad. Of course there are the developing whales but overall the average girl isnt really overweight here. I really don’t believe in “high” standards as I feel like what I’m looking for changes quite often. Do whatever you want and just go for it and try to get with these girls and if doesn’t work out then oh well go next.

cjt11203 · 2021-06-18T18:37:14+00:00

I'm in the military so my reality is a bit skewed. Even though a lot of the men here are married to fatties. I honestly don't know where they find them.

ThickDickWarrior89 · 2021-06-18T18:48:45+00:00

At 5’6 you’d be surprised how good 160 can look, on the right woman. One of my plates was 5’9 180 and had huge ass and legs, while maintaining a small waiste and feminine upper body.

omega_dawg93 · 2021-06-18T19:50:25+00:00

been touting this stat for years. yes the average average woman is that height and weight and in a size 14-16.

but they all want the 50 shades of gray fairy-tale story and REALLY believe they deserve it... even after having 3 kids by 3 different losers, multiple divorces etc.

Magrudagrind · 2021-06-18T20:57:30+00:00

You are in the right sir and not the wrong. It is totally okay with wanting to find someone who mirrors you and you have every right to as well. I think its all social media to blame. A lot of these whales had no avenue up until now: social media granting them windows with passerby simps looking into them. A redpill youtuber MJGetright quoted "Now adays we got Lizzos everywhere with fan pages." And he isn't wrong.

RedwallAllratuRatbar · 2021-06-18T20:59:52+00:00

not sure what is size 8, but indeed. some 155 pounds chicks look awesome, better than slim, some just don't

OneTrueQ · 2021-06-18T21:41:04+00:00

Short answer - yes, in America these are high standards. Most women here are damn hamplanets. Women who are healthy are enjoying this, though. Being small bumps you up 2 smv points and it is almost a given that you’ll have unlimited sexual options in men.

Burner4556 · 2021-06-18T22:14:19+00:00

im in high school and used to think that all girls were like the ones on tik tok and when I pulled up to walmart the other day this shit finally hit me

2021-06-18T23:31:11+00:00

Even if the average overweight girl lost weight that wouldn’t make her tits or ass grow and it wouldn’t improve her face as much girls carry less fat on their face

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2021-06-19T02:22:24+00:00

That's pretty depressing, but yes. Wanting your girlfriend to be slim is a high standard by virtue that it disqualifies a majority of women. That says more about the state of the dating market than your preferences.

BaronIncognito · 2021-06-19T11:10:14+00:00

Anecdotal evidence ahead. At the planet fitness I go to there are way, way more fit dudes than chicks.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-06-19T18:20:57+00:00

I flew to the other side of the planet to get a woman that wasn't fat. Just check out of the shit show already. Let these land whales die alone and let all the skinny women become Alpha widows. Bye Felicias! Can't wait to GTFO of the US when travel restrictions are lifted.

cfbovernfl · 2021-06-18T16:41:02+00:00

Is it better to just look for foreign women at this point, considering a plain, slim 5/10 American woman has thousands of orbiters she's swatting away and she has the luxury of holding out for that 6'3, 9/10 Chad?

Blackpill. Reported, enjoy your ban. You can go hang with the guys at MGTOW.

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