Hi guys, just want to share my experience. 20 month post seperation, mostly over the divore and everything. Life is good, working hard, paying of debt, gym is going great. The main problem is I'm not interested in intimacy at all, I've gotten cold, the only company I honestly enjoy is my dogs. My ex-wife wants to meet up for coffer every 2-3 months, when I meet her I don't really care, it does not affect my mood, to be honest I even feel kind sorry for her in some ways, I think she still may have some feelings left. The whole thing left me with a few conclusions, don't trust anyone, the whole support circle is bulshit, you can only depend on your self (don't have kids, so proably if I had them, they would most likely overwrite what I said so far) and yeah life's good, the calm is great.