Contemplating divorce with my wife. It’s been in my head for over a year but feel I need to move forward with it now. We don’t have kids but she is pushing for us to start trying. My wife 31F and me 31M have only been married for 3 years but there is already a lack of love in the relationship. It feels as if she is more of a roommate as the sex is almost non-existent. We’ve been to an intimacy therapist at my wishes, and it led to some sex to check the box but even that has fallen off. There also is an imbalance when it comes to the chores. Whether its cooking, doing the dishes, laundry, grocery shopping: I end up doing more than my fair share and anytime I bring it up it devolves into a big argument. I don’t want to have a wife who acts like a teenager while also having to raise a kid as well. We don’t have a lot of the same interests, have different desires as to where to live in the city and how to spend our vacation time. We both work full time jobs and don’t have kids so I feel like this would be an easier split than most people on this sub, and I think we have plenty of time to rebuild our lives as we are still fairly young. I don’t hate my spouse, she isn’t a bad person. I just don’t feel like we are meant to be together forever and I don’t want to hold her back from being a mother as this is her only goal at this moment.