Fairytale

Weary_Landscape_7098 · 2023-04-18T02:40:52+00:00

My ex is too narcissistic and arrogant to ever admit she made a mistake.

Diablo_Canyon2 · 2023-04-18T03:13:23+00:00

My wife has never admitted any mistake she's ever made, I don't know why she'd start now.

Accomplished-Toe5220 · 2023-04-18T01:09:14+00:00

I remember my ex literally dropped on her knees with her mouth wide open when she found out I had someone I was talking too. Trust me the sex life improves. I remember her crying during sex while I said this is the last time while we were smashing.

email68 · 2023-04-18T04:53:24+00:00

Twice. First time during when she realized her affair dude was catfishing her and she was one of many. Wanted to tell the judge never mind after everything was settled just waiting judge signature. I said nope.

Second time was five years later when alimony was about to end and she realized she will have to work the rest of her life. I said nope.

stent00 · 2023-04-18T01:18:52+00:00

First Christmas after separation she wanted to work on things and go to marriage counseling.... shot that down quick..that's something you do before separation!!

SelectionNo3078 · 2023-04-17T21:59:41+00:00

100% mine will not

ranger69danger · 2023-04-17T22:30:02+00:00

Not gonna happen. But maybe that’s because I am the fairytale chaser. My life is immensely better one year after I moved across the Continental Divide to get away from exwife. Finalized the divorce 1/23 and I am not looking back, ever.

Grand-Expression-493 · 2023-04-17T22:35:53+00:00

Oooh ooh meeeeeeeee. More on the marriage side actually, as soon as the party and new bride feeling ended, it all crashed and burned.

My STBXW is such a daddy's princess that she has no opinions of her own so I highly doubt she will have any realizations or reactions of divorce. She couldn't give 2 fucks.

Agitated-Fee-6497 · 2023-04-18T00:11:26+00:00

Mine will not.....she needs to chase the next shinny new thing and I'm not shinny anymore lol

goodlowdee · 2023-04-18T03:59:11+00:00

Once my divorce was final, I changed everything communication wise so she had no way to reach me. Idk where she’s at now, but she didn’t know where I was the day after it was final.

ijustdontcare74 · 2023-04-18T05:58:42+00:00

My ex tried when her money ran dry and her house needed extensive repairs. Her attempt was so painfully transparent I just laughed in her face.

Adorable_FecalSpray · 2023-04-17T22:26:30+00:00

I wouldn’t say she came crawling back but before the actual divorce was finalized she tried to “reminisce about the good times and maybe we could… ?” type of conversation with me. She had been the one that threatened divorced every other month over the past 15 years and was the one that filed. (She is undiagnosed BPD).

Once she left, my life got 100% more peaceful. No way in the world would I ever let her back into it.

I shot that idea down so hard to her. I think she was taken a bit back by how much I said I did not want that to ever happen. There is no “we”.

-NukeX- · 2023-04-18T12:45:35+00:00

She didn't come crawling back, but she has made several comments as to hooking up, spending more time together, hanging out, being friends, and other sexual things. She has also started to badger me constantly about if I'm dating anyone, etc. I have absolutely zero desire to ever EVER have sex with her again. Plus, she has gained about 100 pounds on top of the 75 she gained pretty much after we got married. I just can't even imagine being able to get it up if I wanted to.

Throwaway_858493 · 2023-04-18T02:14:52+00:00

Won’t happen for me either.

dnbndnb · 2023-04-18T13:47:22+00:00

Mine summed up our total 35 years together with “well we had some good times”. Also said “you remember everything, I have a memory Liske a sieve.” Yeah right, she doesn’t want to remember all the shitty things she did in our marriage because then she’ll have to be accountable for them. I doubt there will ever be any “crawling back” here. He got plenty of “cash & prizes” plus a community of friends to keep her busy. But if life truly were fair, lightning would strike her.

Renee9485 · 2023-04-18T14:42:59+00:00

Thank God, not mine. I struggle to even look mine in the face. Her attorney asked me in court the other day if I have any respect for my ex anymore. I answered with a flat out "NO". This woman has physically and mentally reduced herself to such a vile human being, the only thing I can find respect for is the fact that she had a working uterus and I didn't. I couldn't imagine trying to ram her again. ::Puke:: I can't even agree on a pediatrician with her anymore she's such a degenerate let alone feel remotely attracted to her.

Girl_Dad42 · 2023-04-18T19:02:43+00:00

About a year after everything was finalized, my ex told me she was only bluffing about wanting a divorce. I just laughed at and asked was that before or after she was spreading her legs for someone else.

1Cobbler · 2023-04-18T07:50:51+00:00

I hope mine never does, although looking at her these days I'm reasonably confident that she's not happy.

Life is so much less drama without her. Given the gross bitches she ditched our life together for, the idea of rekinfling just makes me sick in the stomach

trashlymctrashface · 2023-04-18T10:29:10+00:00

Mine did. Twice. I ended up getting a restraining order against her.

steaksauce872 · 2023-04-18T01:53:27+00:00

I would be absolutely shocked if my STBXW did this. I’m kind of hoping for it, I’m not sure whether I’d want her back or not.

Title	Fairytale
Author	Fearless-Journey
Upvotes	22
Comments	41
Date	April 17, 2023 9:28 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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