Wife and I have been together for over 10 years. Dated for 5 and married for 5. The Friday before Thanksgiving she went out with her friend get a bit tipsy and came home to ask for a divorce.

Fast forward to today and I come to the apartment get get the last of my things. Well like an idiot I go looking around and found was 11 out of 12 condoms in the night stand draw. Keep in mind we never used condoms while married.

I've never felt this level of hurt or betrayed in my life. I feel so helpless. Even now I can't sleep because my mind is running while. I've lost so much weight due to stress and now this. My shoulders and back have been so tense that I wake up in pain. I just don't know when I will recover from this.