My wife and I decided to get divorced about a month ago. We talked to an attorney and came up with a plan. We wrote up our divorce agreement together. She's continuing to live in the house for now, but once the divorce is final she'll be leaving. She can't find another mortgage while she's on this mortgage, so we're in this weird limbo where I can't refi until the divorce is complete, and she can't find alternate living arrangements until I refi. So here we sit, in limbo, just waiting for the attorneys and judges and everyone. When we started this arrangement, it was amicable with no anger.

Now she's aggressive with me in every single interaction. I am trying to stay calm and civil. I asked her about some of our financial issues today and she lashed out, getting very angry. I once again tried to stay calm, assuring her I was not accusing her of anything or acting like she lied to me... but she started yelling at me. I grey-rocked it and just said "ok, I see" while walking away and she screamed "you're such a fucking hypocrite" as I left the room.

Not a fan of how this divorce is going. And it seems that we're stuck in this limbo for at least another few weeks or months. It is painful. Awkward. Uncomfortable. I've tried to encourage her to find a temporary apartment to stay at for a couple weeks. The request fell on deaf ears.

I just hope this newfound anger doesn't lead to her trying to renegotiate the in-progress divorce agreement and try to get more money out of me.