Been married slightly over a year and together for 7 years total. 6 months into the marriage I find myself walking on constant egg shells around her. She comes home in a bad mood after work and has a horrible attitude towards me. She cut off sex after 5 months of marriage and we were only having sex maybe twice a month prior to that at the most. I was very vocal about the lack of intimacy and the sudden cutoff even though we weren’t having much of it anyway and she claimed it was because I wasn’t giving her what she needed emotionally so she couldn’t have a physical relationship with me until I filled her love tank. Fast forward to this past November, I get the random idea that I don’t deserve to be treated this way so I see her Apple Watch on the dresser when she forgot to wear it and miraculously guess her password and find she’d been texting another guy in a another state that she had met on a work trip in Vegas. She was telling him about wanting to get divorced and planning a vacation together after it was official. Am I crazy to go ahead and file or is this just playful banter as my mother in-law describes it? My wife claims he’s just a friend and theres no significance behind the conversation with him. She’s since been begging me not to file for divorce and the amount of hysterical bonding attempts is taring me up. Thoughts?