It is such a difficult thing to hear people refer to the other person as your “wife” (or “husband”). I can understand the idea of still being legally married, but why persist in still calling someone your wife if they are trying to or have:

1) filed a false police report on you 2) left you for another person 3) accuse you of domestic violence 4) accuse you of child abuse 5) wants to destroy your relationship with your kids

The list goes on

Why still refer to them as your “wife” or “husband”….. neither would ever do those things to you.

Stop torturing yourself. Most of your pointed enemies won’t do the above things to you.