By my mid twenties I had developed a groove between my eyebrows due to stress. I remember being kind of upset at how it made me look older, and I tried to stop frowning and allowing worry to show on my face, but I couldn't stop. I had a Negative Value Man for a father who was causing so much constant drama with his abuse. I was resigned to my forehead groove just gradually increasing through the rest of my life.

I have been with my husband quite a long time now and we've gone through a lot of stuff together, but mostly stuff that comes at us, rather than stress we've caused each other. I was looking in the mirror and suddenly remembered that groove I used to have. It is not there anymore! You have to be about 1 foot away to even see the tiny folds in the skin that used to be wrinkles and are now only a faint shadow. I've never had Botox or any cosmetic procedure, btw. I was shocked. Apparently I just don't have that expression much anymore at all.

Either a good man or no man is far far better for your health and happiness than a lazy or bad man is.