Joined Reddit just to post. I’ve been lurking this sub for a few weeks now, and it was good timing; my boyfriend of almost a year called me last night while he was having sex with someone else (putting me on speakerphone so I could hear everything, so polite). This was after an argument about how I felt as though he wasn’t calling me often enough.

Just wanted to say thank you so much to all of you! I think I’d probably be feeling like shit right now if I didn’t know about this sub, but I just feel relieved. I’m 20, so I still have a lot to learn about life, but I feel like I’ll have the strength to walk out as soon as I see any hints of a red flag in the future thanks to your example. I’ve never felt this secure in myself before, it’s amazing. You’re all wonderful.