I have no words...

denimbastard · 2022-03-29T17:42:33+00:00

I've screenshot about 5 today wanting to share them here but don't want to be too doomy but my god there are some dumpster fires emerging. The couple with the pregnant nanny, the woman who wants advice on how not to be jealous about her husband having sex with another woman...

Buggy1218 · 2022-03-29T16:24:36+00:00

Above all, this is just sad.

Imagine thinking about all the mistakes you’ve made in the past and how hard you cringe. That’s because you know better now.

You can just tell by the way she speaks so wistfully and romantically that she hasn’t learned a thing.

applestorm · 2022-03-29T15:47:43+00:00

I've recently discovered the French-British fashion influencer Camille Charrière after stumbling on pictures of her wedding. I loved the retro theme and the risqué dress she wore. Intrigued, I looked her up and found two articles about her talking about her love life.

The first article was on how she ditched a training at a top law firm in Paris to move to London for her boyfriend and then he dumped her two years later. The second article is about her mentioning a "funny" anecdote: she was into a guy who didn't care for her so she decided that she was going to ignore his opinion and pursued him HARD. She befriended all his friends so that she could run into him. One of the guy's friend called her "williamsexual" (william is the fake name she gave him) as a joke and she used it unironically as her phone's background image.

Then she kept raving over her husband, how he's a catch etc. Even on her IG, she's constantly captioning how she's lucky to be his wife, how she can't believe he married her blah blah. Meanwhile, her husband's captions about her are very short and dry (he never wrote that he was lucky to have her as his wife).

Anyway, I don't want to clown her even if she's a clown. She actually made me sad. Most of her behaviors come from Hollywood movies in which women are brainwashed into believing their #1 goal is to find love and once they have it, then need to sacrifice everything (including themselves) for it.

I hope she'll wake up one day.

ububTkuc · 2022-03-29T20:51:46+00:00

She could have called her prior piss poor choices boneheaded and bounced back.

Instead she's putting lipstick on a pig by talking about how shes in a "relationship" with London and all this quasi-poetic pickme crap. She's probably living a hand to mouth existence as an independent journalist (having given up a of the doors that would have been opened by a training at a top firm), dating pump and dump dudes. Worst if all, she's packaging up this hellscape as something glamorous and to be admired by younger women.

AnniaT · 2022-03-29T22:09:44+00:00

I know this is not the point but on the first screen shot she talks about how her ex asked for a couple months break on the relationship and with such a scroty excuse. This is a huge red flag. If someone loves you and is serious about you, they won't risk losing you by asking for a break. They'll also not take you for granted thinking they can go around have sex with other women and then come back. This should be all the information she needed to break up with him right away and don't move for him.

alpinepunch2021 · 2022-03-29T18:38:34+00:00

Damn! I'm so surprised someone this conventionally attractive and apparently almost-successful still feels such a desperate urge to chase. I wonder how that happened. I actually feel really bad for her, because I think her attitude in relationships can be really nice, but only if it's reciprocated at the same intensity.

Meepnit · 2022-03-29T19:28:42+00:00

This was so painful to read..... 😓😓 The only grace in her life is that she enjoys her job ATM, instead of still being dependent on her male counterpart 🙌🏻

asoww · 2022-03-30T01:04:52+00:00

I mean she could have got that job in Paris and get transferred to London. The need to romanticise everything.... So glad I've never moved for any boy lol

PeanutButterPigeon85 · 2022-03-29T22:50:57+00:00

Yikes. Like someone else said on this sub once, not even waterboarding would get a story like that out of me.

basuragoddess · 2022-03-30T04:23:38+00:00

What in the f*ck did I just read

CrazyPaine · 2022-03-30T00:27:19+00:00

I wanted to read all of it but I'm afraid imma be horrified the more I read it.

dating-adventures · 2022-03-30T00:28:55+00:00

Wait is the woman in the first set of photos (the smaller text) the same as the one in the article?

BooksandEarlGreyTea · 2022-03-30T17:57:59+00:00

When she mentioned what she gave up I had to pick my jaw up from hell. I wish I had known what I wanted to do for a career as a child/ teen and had the support to go get it. To hear how she squandered such an opportunity almost physically hurt.

I feel bad for her, you can see she is still burying her head in the sand like she used to do a kid. It seems now she is going around in circles in the same 24 year old mindset, it is hard to be there (I have done it)

I also feel like she is willfully keeping herself there though, she is clearly in therapy and then says no-one has time to work on being the best version of themselves. Especially when she said "healthy relationships come when you have developed a loving relationship with yourself", then admits she doesn't have the inclination to do the hard work.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-30T09:27:15+00:00

Embarrassing and creepy

Erocitnam · 2022-04-02T01:31:52+00:00

"who has time to develop a loving relationship with themselves these days?"

Actually, you can't afford NOT to. That is the single most important thing to accomplish during your life.

Title	I have no words...
Author	applestorm
Upvotes	284
Comments	37
Date	March 29, 2022 3:41 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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