If I acted on all my impulses with LVM, I would have made many grave mistakes. And even withholding from my impulses, I feel like I have really hindered myself by not being able to control my feelings with LVM.

I use to be an awful pickmeisha basically until I found this sub. I honestly had no framework for relationships or anything. I just kept getting with guys that liked me that I felt a certain way for. I would fall hard and fast.

NO. THIS IS NOT A STRATEGY. It’s a recipe for disaster.

I’ve been in relationships with LVM who have cheated on me, emotionally and mentally abused me, and neglected me. FDS literally made me confront my past.

These relationships resulted in YEARS of wasted time and lots of emotional heartache. And keep in mind being with a LVM makes you lose time looking for and being with a HVM.

My advice to all you: P L E A S E learn to control your emotions around men. YOU WILL FALL FOR LVM. YOU WILL RATIONALIZE TO BE WITH THEM. The only cure for this is SELF DISCIPLINE. Walk away.