So I've recently talked with one guy from gym and out of the blue he said ''You are very pretty but that girl (we both know her and talk with her) is so much hotter than you are.'' And I was ''....okay'' and I went to ladies' lockerooms. Like I know I am not the prettiest person at the planet but so he is? At first I was upset but then I realized that wow, that guy wanted to start probably a cat fight between us and at the same time probably lower my self-esteem. Of course, I stopped talking to that dude but did something like that happened to you? Do you think dudes say things like this on purpose?