👏 Never 👏 Stop 👏 Vetting 👏

Platipus6 · 2022-02-16T09:33:13+00:00

Well SOMEone's moving house....

enticedflowers · 2022-02-16T10:05:10+00:00

Ugh that’s so disgusting I have blocked a couple guys like that, no self respect or you know just respect as a whole. The porn industry is like Pandora’s box for these weirdos they end up becoming even more of a creep because of it. Very unfortunate she’s in so deep I hope she can get away, it’s definitely a wake up call for me to be a lot more strict.

bleda_princezna · 2022-02-16T08:56:07+00:00

My solution would be forwarding those emails to myself so I have proof in case I need it and getting a good divorce lawyer. Disgusting.

SupremeDearLeader · 2022-02-16T14:35:17+00:00

Time to plan :

Save all evidence quietly

DO NOT CONFRONT HIM

get your finances/ important things secured / get a lawyer

Blindside him by having him served but only AFTER you are in a safe undisclosed location.

AnniaT · 2022-02-16T12:01:30+00:00

Solution is divorce, keep all the evidence in case is needed and cut all economical bonds with him in the future with the help of a lawyer.

ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-02-16T10:55:21+00:00

“I don’t know how to move forward with this” 🤡

jupitarianrise · 2022-02-16T13:47:40+00:00

So he cheated on her with multiple women and she still thinks he’s great…? He’s spending money on other women for his sexual pleasure and she’s ok with that…? This is beyond pickmeism.

FUBARfromLSA · 2022-02-16T13:10:56+00:00

Get the money honey.

At this point I’m so jaded, I would be sad and disappointed about these Dom women but I would be IRATE that he spent OUR money on them.

As a mother she needs to think of her children and divorce him to protect their assets before he spends it all.

50% is better than 0%.

ImpressiveHat8550 · 2022-02-16T08:42:21+00:00

What is happening to men? The effects of those lowered testosterone levels are really starting to show. Men can’t even respect themselves these days and then have the audacity to whine about women not respecting them. They’re not exactly giving us a lot to work with.

And of course the pick me - libfem wife is forgiving him just like that because he has “past trauma” but instead of seeking counselling and therapy, he took the route of - not only cheating on his wife - but PAYING to cheat on his wife. It’s only AFTER getting caught that SHE is going to get HIM therapy. The overwhelming amount of pick me’s and libfems out there and the bullshit they are willing to go through isn’t exactly giving men a lot to work with either…..

This is why we need FDS to go mainstream. The LVM/pick me/libfem pandemic needs to die off already. Society needs to level up.

KetoKittenAround · 2022-02-16T19:10:15+00:00

Is it just me or am I EXTRA offended at this because he is using communal family money to pay for this crap? She is literally stuck paying HALF of whatever he spends cheating on her.

ThrowRA_lantern · 2022-02-16T23:24:31+00:00

This is shocking. It’s like men live double lives. I wish there was more context to this though- like what signs/red flags were she missing?? Especially before marriage. Being able to prevent this is a an FDS priority.

_cnz_ · 2022-02-16T10:08:14+00:00

I refuse to believe that there were no red flags in their 4+ years of being in a relationship. You don’t just develop these depraved kinks all of a sudden, they build up slowly over time.

OP must have completely ignored glaring red flags for years

Searchingforgoodnews · 2022-02-16T10:29:33+00:00

Take your time and think things through. Make the best decision for You and your child. I wish you the best.

Title	👏 Never 👏 Stop 👏 Vetting 👏
Author	Zeniite
Upvotes	449
Comments	43
Date	February 16, 2022 8:32 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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