Repeat after me: Statistically casual sex for straight women does NOT include orgasms!

fireforestfairy · 2021-07-23T00:28:45+00:00

Tbh I don't get why some women are into hookups. I need the emotional connection to enjoy sex. The idea of having sex with a strangers scares me.

Pryras · 2021-07-23T02:20:37+00:00

No women in hookup culture are sleeping with men for orgasms.

A lot of it is just self harming behaviours and they know it

Joohoneybee_002 · 2021-07-23T03:17:41+00:00

More and more I start to feel like being a heterosexual woman is some sick joke or a scam. Many times I’ve even wished to be asexual… Why does it seem like every aspect of dealing with men has to include some bs 🥲There was a time where I felt left out for being a virgin, but now I see that I may have saved myself from grave disappointment. I’m probably going to stay one until I feel like I won’t be somebody’s throwaway fleshlight.

Well, I’ll just go back to working on myself and manifesting the kind of guy I’d want lol

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-07-23T01:03:30+00:00

I mean, the girl friend I had years back that was the most encouraging about hookups and “sex-positive” with all the libfem fixins outright admitted to me that she’d never come with a man. She framed it as HER shortcoming, not realizing it was all the 🤡 she slept with.

The second most encouraging “go get it, girl, yeah!” …was a lesbian! Aside from one short-lived high school boyfriend, she never touched guys.

ApprehensiveGiftBox · 2021-07-23T00:36:29+00:00

I desperately want to experience great sex. I've NEVER even had good sex. Males are worthless, sex is what they live for and they still suck at it.

HereForTheFreeFoodOk · 2021-07-23T01:39:32+00:00

Most women have a choice between no sex and casual sex😭 so they choose casual sex not knowing that it is worse than fast food for their body, mind and soul.

Agreed. I had the opportunity to continue a super sexy, fun and respectful sexual hook up with a outrageously delicious and gorgeous man.

He had wonderful sexual ettiquette. Was beautifully groomed. Tasted like heaven. Sexy.. the works!

But I chose to decline the arrangement. Simply because I knew my female bonding hormones could easily kick in and I would bring upon a world of pain for myself.

Not worth it

I do think fondly of his perfect sexy body and sweet demeanour whenever I need to remind myself that beautiful sexy gorgeous men - who are great at sexytimes actually exist.

say10s-exwife · 2021-07-23T03:59:38+00:00

I'm so traumatized by the hookup phase I had as a pick me that I never want to be touched again lmao

jupitaur9 · 2021-07-23T16:37:21+00:00

Might be the intermittent reward mechanism at work. It’s like gambling. If you only win sometimes, you will increase your attempts in order to get to the next win.

Unfortunately, those who do this don’t think about how to improve their odds. They’d do better to try a different game.

But they’ve had the odds hidden from them. And been taught you shouldn’t play the game that gives you good results, because that’s unfair to the bad players on the other side.

Stop drawing to the inside straight, ladies! Drop out if you don’t have a good hand!

complex_answer_22 · 2021-07-23T17:57:57+00:00

An ex-friend of mine told me she'd had over 100 sexual partners. She also told me she'd only had a orgasm a handful of times. Like girl what? What are you doing this for?

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2021-07-23T04:34:37+00:00

It definitely was not worth the STD and emotional scars I got from some scrote I knew through mutual friends. And to make matters worse, he told everyone I was bad at sex and spread other rumors about me. This is why we are careful and selective when it comes to sexual partners! I learned the hard way that situationships are not worth it!

Devils_Tango · 2021-07-23T17:58:18+00:00

Prior to finding FDS, I had casual sex for the first time this year after going on a handful of dates first. I was thirstyyy because of my divorce and not having sex for a year. I thought thr sex was SO GOOD….at first. Then weeks later after finding FDS, I realized it was actually mediocre, I didn’t orgasm at all (to be fair this was also due to my meds), and both guys’ dicks failed at some point. I’m laughing at myself for the standards I accepted.

IndividualRoutine661 · 2021-07-23T18:58:57+00:00

Hookups have always seemed pointless to me, it takes time to build a connection

EsotericKnowledge · 2021-07-23T19:18:47+00:00

I have tried to explain this to exes and guy friends, and they just don't seem to get it. This is why hookups and casual sex will never be "equal" even though a warm and willing woman can almost always find someone willing to pump n dump her. One even said to me in disbelief, "Well, it wont end like that [no orgasm] if you make them!" --- make them. MAKE THEM. The casual use of that lingo and the comfort in just suggesting it, not only the complete ignorance of how that couldn't possibly fucking work. Apparently, it's our fault that hookups DGAF enough to get us off. And the solution is r*pe OF ALL THINGS

Title	Repeat after me: Statistically casual sex for straight women does NOT include orgasms!
Author	Aocwannabe
Upvotes	704
Comments	49
Date	July 22, 2021 11:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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