The Truth in the replies to this tweet.

xfelugirlx · 2021-12-12T22:16:41+00:00

“Potential” hate that word because men won’t see it in you sis, they don’t see a “””ugly or fat””” women and said omg the potential, hell no. They are the first scrotes even if they are horrible to bring down women. So stop being so pickme with them, is pathetic

ironglaciers · 2021-12-13T01:15:23+00:00

It's so weird how men don't want to see that same "potential" in women. 🙄

herbivorouscarnivore · 2021-12-12T22:54:51+00:00

A scrote replies to her and acts like she’s going to damage all the men she meets in the future and she claps back: “The flaw is sitting around wasting time trying to believe your SO into becoming what you think he could be instead of accepting who he is and deciding if it’s enough for you. Just because you want to believe a person is more doesn’t mean that they are or will ever live up to that”

Also, the replies to the original tweet are so far men agreeing, women saying hell naw, and men telling those women they’re bitter, problematic, and why men are broken.

Platipus6 · 2021-12-12T23:11:05+00:00

After dating, encouraging, enabling, propping, boosting and doing all the nasty tasks for men with "potential" for over 20 years of my life, not once did I see them do "great shit". In fact, they cheerfully took all the spare hours I gave them and looked at even more porn, racked up even more hours on a bullshit computer game, or started watching even more stupid tv shows.

If he needs external motivation, he ain't it.

hexriot2001 · 2021-12-13T01:26:20+00:00

the only notes women should take from men is to be as ruthless and discerning in what you want and getting as much as you can from a relationship. also LEAVING as soon as it is inconvenient or burdensome to you. we do not play bob the builder over here.

West-Cook · 2021-12-13T03:04:55+00:00

In a thread that hit popular last week men were agreeing that women shouldn’t expect men to change. The example used was: when you date a man who plays video games or use porn, don’t expect him to stop just because you’re in a relationship now. And all the men were agreeing; this was like the third highest comment with hundreds of child comments.

So which is it, men, accept you as you are, or believe you can do better?

inlovewithaloser · 2021-12-13T06:34:06+00:00

I don’t like that POV either, like we’re just supposed to play sidekick, manic pixie dream girl to a guy and help him build his dreams? But virtually never do you hear men talk about investing in their women, helping THEM get to where they want to be, helping their woman start a small business, etc. It’s always about helping the guy, because he’s the main character in everything, right? Oh my fucking God....

scorchedsouI · 2021-12-13T05:18:08+00:00

Fuck them and their "potential". What about women's potential, which actually exists? Who is investing and caring for it?

Buttercup5555 · 2021-12-13T07:10:55+00:00

Again with the mothering your partner... miss me with that bullshit. Yes I believe you, I believe patterns in your behaviour and how much it aligns/ doesn't align with what is coming out of your mouth. If you want to change bless you and genuinely all the best, but I 'm not your therapist, rehab centre, charity, employer etc.

Never in my life have I heard a man say to other men that women do great things when you believe in them.

Guyincognito9876 · 2021-12-13T02:30:00+00:00

A grown adult shouldn’t need someone else cheering them on and supporting them to reach their ‘potential’.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2021-12-13T22:01:56+00:00

And in the off chance that the man you picked out of the dumpster does become successful, all that “potential” you were waiting on will go to benefitting the woman he dumps you for when he decides to “trade up”. No thanks, he can stay in the trash.

pukubr · 2021-12-12T23:03:14+00:00

seeing their potential was their parent's job. If they did such a bad job of raising their son that they need adult women to baby and build them up, they're not dating material. Even if you had a shit hand of cards as a child, when you're a grown man it's up to you to fulfill your potential. A woman who believes in you is a bonus, not a requirement. You think women get built up by their partners? Nah, we have it HARDER. Everyone in the world is fighting to keep us down, wanting us to settle for loser men, wanting us to not work so hard for independence and abundance, other women keeping other women down, men keeping women down. Men are just babies.

jijitsu-princess · 2021-12-14T04:00:23+00:00

Fuck looking for the potential in men.

chai_milk · 2021-12-12T22:45:26+00:00

Nope. Nope. Nope to infinity and beyond. You could see the potential in literally everyone, but they have to see it and want it for themselves. Men will say they don't have anyone who believes in them or in their corner, but will turn on their biggest supporter. Do not do this. The only person to believe in is yourself.

Commercial_Place9807 · 2021-12-13T18:08:07+00:00

You are not “Barb the builder” it was his mamma’s fucking job to get him ready for life.

Uruzdottir · 2021-12-13T00:06:33+00:00

If a man still needs a mommy to tell him how special he is every five minutes, he's too immature to be dating in the first place. Yuck.

Staci_NYC · 2021-12-13T01:21:27+00:00

These are the men you struggle n raise up and then they leave for someone else.

Pleasant_Ad9821 · 2021-12-13T04:24:42+00:00

Damn. The replies name explains a lot

Title	The Truth in the replies to this tweet.
Author	Noogirl
Upvotes	1173
Comments	38
Date	December 12, 2021 10:08 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rezlqt/the_truth_in_the_replies_to_this_tweet/
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