This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.

frustratedmarxistfem · 2021-08-08T19:46:48+00:00

Shes on point. They tell on themselves with these comments, "you're not good enough to demand a dinner." So you admit the only reason you're not taking a woman to dinner is because you don't want her that much?

The most important realization I had is that men will fuck anyone. They will put in some bit of effort to fuck a woman they don't want at all. Thats why we test them to be sure they really want us. Listen to what men say, they'll tell you exactly how it is.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-08-08T16:05:24+00:00

And this is EXACTLY the retort for women who lament how FDS is only for hot chicks. It’s not. And she’s right, plain janes need to be even more strict so we aren’t stuck with some loser who later writes on Reddit about how he “loves” his “nice, great” gf of 2 years but he’s not really “sexually attracted” to her and he wants to dump her to have a chance with a hotter woman.

Coconutnpear · 2021-08-08T15:24:16+00:00

She is preaching here. Excellent points.

SoybeanApocalypse · 2021-08-08T18:18:17+00:00

Yeah lowering standards if you feel unattractive just means men will take advantage. HVM will want a woman attractive to them, but similarly to women this will depend on more than youth or fitness. They have a more holistic view and include things like what they admire about you and your achievements as a person. Regardless of how women look that is the way a compatible HVM will see her, so filter for the ones who can demonstrate that.

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-08-08T18:44:58+00:00

It doesn’t matter how good looking a woman is. If she says something a man doesn’t like, he will call her ugly. I’ve seen men say that Beyoncé and Gigi Hadid were 5/10 because he didn’t like their political opinions 🙄

Men try to “humble” women by calling them ugly because they know it helps lower other women’s standards, and it makes women easier to manipulate and use. Women are afraid of getting dragged, they’re afraid of getting put on blast and being told “you’re not even good looking enough to have those standards,” so they just go along with accepting the bare minimum. It’s an attack on the collective self esteem of women everywhere.

Misogynistic men want you to believe that the only thing you have to offer is your looks and they want you to think that your looks aren’t good enough for the men that you want. They want you to settle. It’s a very obvious and childish manipulation tactic from bitter men who themselves are nowhere near good looking enough to attack you. Don’t fall for it.

olivelemon88 · 2021-08-08T18:13:16+00:00

HVMs love paying for their girls. Every man (young and old) in my giant extended family does that, with a smile. Years ago my dad set up a tab for my mom at the nicest spa in our town where she gets keratin hair treatments, blowouts, pedicures and facials regularly. He always say “yes she is expensive and I don’t mind that one bit”.

He compliments her all the time and points out to his kids how “expensive” his wife looks, like he’s so proud that his wife takes care of herself and is more than happy to facilitate that w his cc. Quality men love pampering their lady loves.

arnezuara · 2021-08-08T14:15:36+00:00

Pretty or not, he’s fucked in the brain if he thinks your value should be defined by looks or what you “bring to the table”.

I think it’s time we let the male species (unless proven HV) d** out 💞

Muffcakelord · 2021-08-09T00:38:23+00:00

The example with her overweight friend suddenly finding a boyfriend after setting basic standards says it all and is really all the proof we ever need

Educational_Okra_798 · 2021-08-08T14:47:28+00:00

Saving this 💕

dancedancedance7 · 2021-08-08T20:11:57+00:00

Oh she's on fire 🔥 great reasoning.

ItsFreezen · 2021-08-08T17:32:47+00:00

Ha Ha Scrotes, She Proved Your Point. Brilliant Video.

VividPsychology7 · 2021-08-09T19:16:00+00:00

Scrotes be like “What?! No!!! I don’t wanna take you to dinner, yOu HaVeNt EaRnEd A dInNeR”

They really do tell on themselves so early on, doing us the favour of taking their trashy selves out so we don’t have to 😂 thanks scrotes

glendoraza · 2021-08-08T14:34:04+00:00

I wish her username didn’t say Asian Bimbo 69

Pasdepromesses · 2021-08-09T06:27:10+00:00

After two years of celibacy I started dating recently.

All men picked up the tab, one even asked if I would ‘do him the favour’.

The guy I’m dating now is 8 figures, so picking up the tab isn’t a big deal for him. He tries to show his effort in other ways too like finding me diet appropriate restaurants (even visiting beforehand to check out the vibe and the menu) and going out of his comfort zone on dates to make me enjoy it more. Learning me stuff like how to sail his boats, etc. Going to my favourite museums.

Guys who are serious about you will tell and show you from the start.

I asked him why it didn’t work out with the woman he dated before me, he told me he wasn’t in love with her and told her so, but she was willing to wait if it would happen in the future. She was very sweet and loving and did a lot of ‘practical things’ for him what he really appreciated and he ‘let it go on longer than he should have’. Their first date was at his house. I get the feeling she tried to ‘keep him’ by being very loving and ironing his shirts and stuff. They ‘dated’ for 6 months.

I’m not sure if he’s HV yet. But it shows again and again that men, even the rich ones that have housekeepers and gardeners, will keep you around as a bangmaid if you’re offering. Even if they don’t like you enough to be their girlfriend.

This is the same man who picks me up, drives me around, changes his schedule to fit me, buys me groceries and doesn’t mind when I am fashionably late and never brought him anything or did anything for him. You don’t need to ‘give’ them anything than your presence if they’re really into you. In fact, I even think that this makes them like you more.

miss_peach94 · 2021-08-10T07:03:07+00:00

I'm about to go follow her 😂

Title	This girl gets it. Dinner dates ensure a man thinks you’re worth the effort no matter how you look or feel about yourself.
Author	Vmchik
Upvotes	907
Comments	55
Date	August 8, 2021 1:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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