No matter what. All these places you go and experiences you have are stories that make up your life that you will tell in the future. My lvm ex and I went on so many adventures, like climbing mountains and finding hidden gems and landmarks in nature. As I’m going through the breakup I so wish I had more solo photos of myself as a tangible reminder that I am a badass instead of being reminded of him when I look through my memories. If we choose, these stories make up who we are, and who we are exists regardless of the person we were with at the time.

So girl, always remember that nothing is permanent in your life except for YOU. He may not be around forever so remember to think about yourself as a strong independent being, ask him to take pics of you, check immediately after to make sure you like them (my ex would often take obviously unflattering photos of me and not say anything) and get on with your gorgeous self!