Your partner just went through a life changing, PAINFUL, major surgery and all you can think about is your dick and kinks? As someone working on getting my own breast reduction, this makes me really angry. It take a full year for your breasts to be properly healed from a BR btw. 6 weeks is nothing.

heleninthealps · 2020-10-19T10:23:25+00:00

This is so much "MuH pEnIs" it belongs to the "MuH pEnIs" hall of fame".

"i don't think he had bondage in mind..." LIKE OH REALLY YOU DON'T SAY THAT MOST FUCKING PEOPLE DON'T HAVE BONDAGE IN MIND ANSWERING ANY FUCKING QUESTIONS (about non-sex topics).

wondertarget · 2020-10-19T11:23:03+00:00

Leave aside for one moment his shrivelled dick, he’s obviously not attending post-surgical appointments with her, which is what a HVM would do, because if he was, he could ask his creepy questions himself, instead of dragging her into his depravity. Poor woman.

LevelTurbulent · 2020-10-19T12:06:16+00:00

I don't think she's too shy to ask. I think she's devastated that he doesn't give a fuck about her and he just wants to tie up her tits after surgery to get off. That's a lot to get dropped on you. I hope when she comes to terms with it, she gets rid of him.

Lavender_flow · 2020-10-19T12:14:51+00:00

I dont understand why women put up with dating these assholes with all their disgusting kinks. It is so obvious these men do not give a fuck about their partners at all, or have any empathy what so ever. Just because someone says "I love you" it doesnt mean shit. I just watched the Chris watts documentary on netflix, he literally wrote to her that he loved her etc. blablabla and murdered her in cold blood no that long after. They dont give a fuck. This guy is a psycho who wrote this. She should run for the hills.

VikingDotter · 2020-10-19T12:08:23+00:00

Anyone else thinks she doesn't want to ask because she doesn't want an answer? Without an answer, she can delay it for as long as possible. If she asks the doctor, there will be a day where her partner will pushing for it and where the excuse of her breast reduction won't be applicable anymore. I can almost hear the guy: "The doctor said it's fine from now on! I've literally had a countdown to today! If the doctor thinks it's okay, then why not? What's stopping us?" And if she even suggests she wants to delay more, he'll inevitably hit her with a "Do you not want to do it, is that it? I thought you said you liked it?" and guilt her into thinking she's sex negative for not wanting her tits bound and abused.

Fucking disgusting.

Knitter-of-Data · 2020-10-19T12:22:40+00:00

OMG it’s 6 weeks before you can drive on your own! This poor woman needs an intervention😥 My daughter is now 3 mo post reduction surgery and though she does feel much better, she’s still not even wearing fully supportive / structured bras...

Edited to add it feels so wrong to upvote this! lol

Did the r/reduction ladies run him outta town???

fabianoid · 2020-10-19T15:48:46+00:00

Yeah this is pretty awful isn't it. I remember before I had a colposcopy for precancerous cells, my partner was texting me (he waited in the car, pre covid but he didn't want to come wait with me or be in the room with me) asking when we would be able to have sex again afterwards. When it was over and I told him I wasn't able to he would say well you can do blow jobs so.....? The lack of empathy displayed by some men is utterly astounding.

Sewud · 2020-10-19T16:06:08+00:00

"she's too shy to do it"

Yeah she's ashamed of how much of a doormat she's become.

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-10-19T15:49:21+00:00

They should have banned this sicko from their sub. He is probably getting off on the post-op pictures.

Summerisle7 · 2020-10-19T16:26:27+00:00

It is of course "my partner" not "my wife."

For the substance of the post, this is new depths of degeneracy. Where are all our BDSM apologists when we need them??

UmamiMamaa · 2020-10-19T16:23:38+00:00

‘No mAttEr hOw mUcH i iNsiSt...’ what the hell! ‘she’s too shy’ is just a way of saying ‘she says no but I’m going to hound her to do painful things after a surgery because my dick demands it’.

jayohday · 2020-10-19T15:21:55+00:00

Wtf is breast bondage??? Nvm, I don’t want to know.

lil_monstera · 2020-10-19T14:02:30+00:00

Men are depraved

Summerisle7 · 2020-10-19T15:53:57+00:00

The fuck is wrong with this guy??? Omg

LadyGrimes · 2020-10-20T00:19:13+00:00

This is what porn culture does to men and I'm sick of it. Too many assholes are like this and women have to suffer for it.

Now that this shithead has shown his true colors I hope she leaves him.

ModernDayOracle · 2020-10-20T06:43:14+00:00

This is unbelievable. A female partner had a breast reduction while we were dating, and she could only just bear to wear a soft crop top at the 6 week mark. Breast bondage would very likely damage the sensitive tissues that are still healing!!!!!

wonkyeyes8877 · 2020-10-20T18:52:46+00:00

This is so deeply disturbing.

Eldest_Muse · 2020-10-21T02:13:11+00:00

Too shy to ask for medical advice but allows her partner to abuse her breast? She is clearly feeling obligated to perform a painful sex act for this fucker who clearly can not respect the fact that she just had surgery to the body part he fetishizes and abuses. That's why she is "shy" around a medical professional that professional touched and assessed her body. This is her way of saying she does not want her breasts abused. Wtf is wrong with some men? She needs to tell her surgeon to at least get help in leaving this POS

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