When a man wants to split the bill on a date she says— “Oh my god…you wanted to just be friends? I'm so confused - this whole entire time I thought this was a date. I'm so sorry - here's my card.”

slipkid556 · 2023-11-06T01:10:37+00:00

They are all strong, independent boss bitches until the bill comes.

Then they revert back to traditionalism...

NeoNotNeo · 2023-11-06T00:40:39+00:00

Im sure if you ask her, she will insist that she is a feminist. Describes perfectly what equality means for a generation of feminists. Pay me, subsidize me, let me control you financially.

ButWhatOfGlen · 2023-11-06T02:48:01+00:00

So, you pay for her company? There's a name for that...

mr_ogyny · 2023-11-06T01:39:53+00:00

Not into women who want to use me for money whilst she spends her money on herself so that’s perfect, her line isn’t savage as she thinks it is. She can find another dad to pay for her stuff.

Vegetable_Ad1732 · 2023-11-06T03:04:19+00:00

“Study: Men want women to chip in on dates, but are afraid to ask” http://newsfeed.time.com/2013/08/14/study-men-want-women-to-chip-in-on-dates-but-are-afraid-to-ask/

“44% of women were annoyed when men “expected” women to pay”

Vivaelpueblo · 2023-11-06T08:17:38+00:00

"Oh my God! I'm supposed to pay for your company. I'm sorry, I hadn't realised you were a sex worker"

McFeely_Smackup · 2023-11-06T05:22:14+00:00

She honestly thinks she got the last jab in there, by confirming the guy was right about her

play_hard_outside · 2023-11-06T07:51:41+00:00

Hahahaha.

Immediately out of my mouth would be, "Well, I was pretty into you right up until you just said that, so yes, we should keep it friendly. Thanks for picking up your part of the tab."

KrazyJazz · 2023-11-06T04:22:35+00:00

Pearl, from Los Angeles, is a firm believer in 'feminine energy' and prefers when men are comfortable in their role as providers.

Translation: "Throw money at me and I might rent you the V."

gre2704 · 2023-11-06T03:47:24+00:00

My reaction after this would be "after this reaction of you, I don't even wanna be friends anymore. Bye"

chofstone · 2023-11-06T04:56:47+00:00

The correct response to her response.

"No, I don't want to be friends. I was looking for an equal partner. I guess we are incompatible. It is good we found out this early."

rjm101 · 2023-11-06T06:55:14+00:00

Pay and you'll be setting a precedent for the entire relationship that you're her personal piggy bank. For those that pay they only have themselves to blame. Also I bet she considers herself a feminist. Equality for thee but only when it works in her favour 😅

LouisdeRouvroy · 2023-11-06T03:51:07+00:00

Tell me I can pay to get into your pants without telling me I can pay to get into your pants.

RatDontPanic · 2023-11-06T01:20:26+00:00

I've encountered crazy women like this. I walked. So after that I put "split the bill" on my dating profiles. I STILL found women to date. My wife split the bill because she didn't want a man to think she owes him. She's a based feminist.

If she pulls this crap, ditch the <censored>. Plenty of women split the bill now and I ran into a lot of them. Why can't we consider this battle decisively won?

therealpork · 2023-11-06T08:09:00+00:00

There's obviously the one comment that says "The one who invites someone out should pay".

That's called safe sexism. Sit by passively and make men ask you out but it's okay because the inviter must pay, that's gender neutral!

another-cosplaytriot · 2023-11-06T02:46:48+00:00

Cool, tell her she can pick up the tab then.

Waratah888 · 2023-11-06T04:19:37+00:00

She says she's consisten with feminine and masculine roles. If that's the truth then no issue with expectation.

Her handling on the date night is petulant and manipulative though.

LordBogus · 2023-11-06T13:11:52+00:00

There is nothing wrong with dating and expecting the guy be comfortable in his providing role, but dont be suprised when a guy is expecting certain things from you too.

Will you be comfortable in your submissive and caring role too?? I guess we will see the next morning when you made me breakfast in bed

Knight_of_Templar · 2023-11-06T05:08:01+00:00

Even when you're just friends they still expect us to pay

AdobiWanKenobi · 2023-11-06T10:10:17+00:00

Oh fuck off

mylazybutt · 2023-11-06T11:58:09+00:00

OMG I'm so confused, I thought women wanted equality...

standard_tissue · 2023-11-06T04:18:14+00:00

Not everything in life is free. I hope women who do this eventually realize they created stigmas like these. It doesn’t benefit them in any way. Just makes it harder for actual good women to succeed with their dates.

IHazMagics · 2023-11-06T07:40:05+00:00

You know she's saying that with the thought that she's playing 4D chess. I imagine she'd want the guy to understand the subtext she's implying and if he'd fumble over himself to turn it around.

I'd let lady checkpoint me too to be able to pay 50% to avoid a huge problem, rather than 100% to "inherit the desert".

destitiution · 2023-11-06T05:32:49+00:00

The correct answer is “Thank you for paying your half! Otherwise I won’t be able to take this other girl out for a date tomorrow. Ok cya around!”

rahsoft · 2023-11-06T13:42:39+00:00

“Oh my god…you wanted to just be friends? I'm so confused"

its 2023 and equality and all that , but not when we go on a date...

feminist rules for thee, but not for me..

next week on feminist dating logic

oh my god, you're taking me to the cheesefactory !!!

please note the byline in the article. its a pity that she didn't because it would have allowed her to understand the consequences of her dinosaur view .

article byline

A single woman revealed what she says when men ask her to split the bill

sgt_oddball_17 · 2023-11-06T14:58:37+00:00

When you are used to Special Privileges, equality feels like oppression.

Untimely_manners · 2023-11-06T03:10:39+00:00

That is pretty outdated view. I generally offer to pay if I know the person will struggle if they split but usually, they will then offer to pay for drinks. Which then implies the date isn't over and they want to go somewhere else with me for drinks. Then they usually get drunk and the drinks cost more than the meal.

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2023-11-06T07:05:14+00:00

I'd turn it back on her. "If I pay, will we be having sex?"

WeepingWillow_Lotus · 2023-11-06T09:52:22+00:00

Am I the only one who is down to pay for the man 😂

Derpalator · 2023-11-06T11:15:06+00:00

"prefers when men are comfortable in their role as providers."

I agree. I myself prefer when the women are comfortable in their role as blowjob perfectionists.

Trev6ft5 · 2023-11-06T04:35:57+00:00

Atleast she has the decency to have the feminist nose ring to warn off any man with half a brain

Wonderful_Duty_4442 · 2023-11-06T09:40:04+00:00

"Here's my card."

And here's 100% of the bill.

Suck shit.

aigars2 · 2023-11-06T07:52:44+00:00

Bullet offering doging the bullet. 🙏

No-Cable7745 · 2023-11-06T09:18:27+00:00

Friends pay for other friends. Her, being the bigger person (like media always says women are, they can do nothing wrong) should pay for my meal. Lol I would take free dinner over a relationship every day of the week. So yeah, I am definitely ordering shrimps and a rib eye steak.

jonnytechno · 2023-11-06T09:31:23+00:00

What an idiot ... her line only works if we invite you to a restaurant. Fact is hardly anyone does that on a first date anymore and you shouldn't ... thosy kinda dates imo are for people you already know well and loved ones, NOT every gold digging stranger that thinks they may want to get to know you . .. pfft that's what drinks are for and it's quick to see who's a cheapskate and brought no money when drinking

Fuzzy_Department2799 · 2023-11-06T16:06:33+00:00

I saw that tiktok. It was performance piece trying to come across as a bad bitch. Someone made her pay half and she got her feelings hurt. She is "comfortable in her feminine energy" because she is a sugar baby and that's how her bills get paid. Ive been seeing a lot of these "feminine energy" girls lately. Its a new hustle. They try to come across as traditional so they get their bills paid but its all smoke and mirrors. Since this is going viral her follower count is going up so she will be doubling down on this type of content since its popular and will make her money.

ObjectPretty · 2023-11-06T18:14:00+00:00

Oh my god... you wanted to be friends? I was just looking to cut my losses and get away.

Sitheral · 2023-11-06T19:20:51+00:00

If shes waving that pussy card in front of you like for a dog at this phase, think what a kindergarden is waiting if you go further.

No men should ever take that shit. I would rather be alone for bilions of years.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2023-11-06T19:46:42+00:00

The best way to ditch a woman is to get her to break up with you rather than do it yourself (and have her think it was her idea). So if I were on a date that used this "line", I would just be glad that she revealed early on what kind of person I was dealing with and gave me an easy out to "end" things.

One example is I only planned and asked a woman out on very cheap or free dates the first several times. I figured any golddiggers would weed themselves out but any that were actually interested in me would stick around.

I remember reading about another guy who did this and was explaining it to a couple women (and how the "peacocks" often look like they have money but are often broke and just flaunting trying to use it to attract women for short term flings) and it took a bit but it seemed like things finally clicked in their heads that men looking for a LTR want to be wanted for more than just being an ATM.

i_live_in_sweden · 2023-11-06T13:09:13+00:00

I may be a traditionalist when it comes to this because I believe that paying is up to whoevers idea it was to go on a date, and in todays society that is often us men. How ever I have been on dates where the girl insisted on paying and wouldn't let me, so maybe times are changing.

Theimmortalboi · 2023-11-06T21:42:53+00:00

Did you ask her on the date? The. You SHOULD be paying the bill. Stop trying to act oppressed

Theo446_Z · 2023-11-06T17:02:23+00:00

If I ask to split the bill, it's because the Date isn't working out, I probably wouldn't accept the Card either l, you just have to kindly reply: "I don't want your business either. Thanks "

saito200 · 2023-11-06T20:22:06+00:00

I honestly see no problem. the guy's answer can simply be "Ah, no, I wanted to pursue a relationship, but, yes, now that you say it, I think it's better if we're just friends, or perhaps two individuals who met once, and let's leave it at that"

twistedh8 · 2023-11-06T21:32:03+00:00

Use her card to pay for both and bounce.

maplehobo · 2023-11-06T21:38:58+00:00

It’s always these bitches with a mountain of makeup on and a look of a thousand cock stare. We men really need to stop being so thirsty and stop taking these women out on dates. It’s like they publicly advertise how much of a gold digging whores they are and they still have simps willing to pay everything for them. And they aren’t even that hot, remove the make up and these are barely 5s.

PrecisionHat · 2023-11-06T23:33:08+00:00

My response would be, "think of it more like a one-off". I have enough friends already.

kaisear · 2023-11-07T04:03:24+00:00

It must be traumatic, I am heartbroken. Men need to expose these meal scammers on Instagram so other men don't get used.

JordanDevian · 2023-11-07T12:57:38+00:00

If you want me to be traditional you need to be too so close those legs bitch. These dumb ho’s out here expecting traditional men while being the most feminist ran through bitches you can find is just plain delusion!

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