Think about it. A guy can be tall, muscular, be wealthy, good looking, etc. and still lose by just being slightly autistic, which compounds if he did not make many friends. Sure, life gave him everything else, but it took from him something so fundamental that he basically is at the level of low status men. Or how women are considered attractive by most men, in such a small window of time. How unfair pregnancy is to their bodies, etc. Sure, men here will argue that dating is still more fair for women, and maybe it is, but that is not the point... the point is that you have to be very lucky in this universe or be very smart to compensate for what you lack, and even so a lot of it cannot even be compensated and you are doomed to ephemeral relationships with people that barely like you and viceversa.

This universe is unbelievably and unfathomably unfair beyond belief... no wonder Christian Gnostics thought it was created by a literally retarded demon (Yaldabaooth).

Yet, here we are, still we ask for fairness and complain when people play dirty to get sex and relationships, or when they use them to get money or wealth, and yet such practice is not more unfair than nature itself is. Somehow we created rules that don't really exist and are vague, and expect others to follow, and yet breaking them don't have many consequences at the end except maybe being considered an asshole.

This create a cognitive dissonance between "life is not fair" and "you have to play fairly" and yet we are part of life and life of us, and there is no authority forcing us to play in any way, nor punishing us for playing bad. We only have shame and hate to enforce it, and we are not so important for those people to care about what we think about them... no wonder why people who play dirty win. They are not even breaking rules, as those rules themselves are made up. Maybe the unfair thing is the assumption those rules, our rules, must somehow exist and be enforced to fit our delusion of love and fairness and justice.

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