A guy felt devastated after seeing old videos of his fiancee having kinky sex with her EX. People shame him for feeling bad and try to convince that the girl didn't enjoy it and was forced.

Street_rat2426 · 2020-12-21T18:03:21+00:00

Me personally, I would rather burn my money and resources than spend it on some hoe who went through half the town in her early 20s and now finally decided she's ready to settle down now that she "isn't like that anymore".

Don't be a meal ticket for these kind of women folks. Have some self respect

Domebeers · 2020-12-21T17:49:19+00:00

Exactly, OP, correct conclusion. This guy is just upset he found out he is the settle.

All women are sluts, I hate to say it. They love sex. If you are with a girl, especially a LTR that says she loves you blah blah blah and she doesn't do what you want sexually because "reasons", take it as a huge sign she does not find you that attractive, and is probably more into you for safety (provision) than danger (attraction).

Why would you stick around with that? There is pussy everywhere. If the girl you are with isn't down for pleasing you, understand it's an act, and find one who is.

hearse223 · 2020-12-21T18:33:29+00:00

I believe the majority of the stories posted on that sub are fantasy.

Humiliation fetish.

It reads out like one of these comics.

Flying_Wingback · 2020-12-21T23:04:33+00:00

She got a tattoo on her ass? She for the streets

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-12-21T20:45:53+00:00

This is how the blue pill betas fail.

They can’t accept women as sex loving people, they can only accept them as pure chaste angels.

This is why they rationalise aka hamster away her past.

“She’s a chaste pure angel, that ex was sending revenge porn.”

“She was forced to!”

“She didn’t enjoy it, she was faking it because of that abusive boyfriend!”

Bloopies can only accept women under a fake ideal whereas red pill accepts women for what they are.

Red pill knows women are fucked up, but they accept them for that.

Blue pillers can’t.

If you can’t accept women being slutty nymphos, they won’t stop being slutty nymphos, they just won’t be one WITH YOU.

MazerTag · 2020-12-21T18:08:18+00:00

Omg...

Well, maybe she was faking.

Well, maybe she was coerced.

It could have been rape!

This was definitely racism!

Clearly a genocide occurred. Forgive her, you total bastard!!!! How dare you have feelings about your wife being plowed by some bull who she enthusiastically blows but won't touch your dick without oven mitts and two layers of latex!!!

arakouzo · 2020-12-21T17:57:57+00:00

This is one of those things that only makes sense in a woman's mind: Sex is completely contextual.

A woman can be a slutty little whore with a casual partner and do all kinds of things she'd never do with her future husband, and love every minute of it, and consider all of it positive sexual experiences.

Her next boyfriend can pressure her into the exact same sex acts, and she'll hate it and resent him for it and consider it creepy borderline rape and one of the worst experiences of her life.

And she can have vanilla sex with her loving husband and constantly turn him down for anything really lusty because being that kind of lusty with him just doesn't feel right to her. He's not the lusty guy. He's the loving husband guy.

And it's not even that she doesn't like her husband. She likes him just fine. He's just not that kind of guy for her. She has lusty sex with lusty guys and regular sex with loving guys.

This is normal for women. Women will have slutty sex and do all kinds of crazy things with a casual guy they just met while making a guy they actually like jump through hoops for vanilla sex. You'd think they would be more eager and filled with enthusiasm about sex with guys they actually like, and less eager and less filled with enthusiasm about strangers they just met, but women don't work that way.

Women separate love from sex. Casual sex is a fun recreational act. Like doing drugs or drinking too much. Casual sex is a party act that you do with party guys you aren't going to marry. Once you have your husband, you have regular glass of wine with dinner sex because that's what you do with regular non-party guys. You don't have party sex with your husband. You don't have that kind of relationship with him.

bam2_89 · 2020-12-21T22:39:20+00:00

No oral or spanking? Why even have a relationship?

gjfarma · 2020-12-21T22:55:10+00:00

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btc777 · 2020-12-21T19:44:59+00:00

Self-delusion is one of the most powerful and addictive drugs. Deep inside he knows that he is 2nd choice for her.

darchetype · 2020-12-21T19:19:28+00:00

I hope we all understand that reddit is not the type of place to share the sort of sentiments that this guy did. While society IRL is still quite locked under the BP lens, social media platforms like reddit--and especially relationship advice--are overwhelmed with depressing individuals who are just looking to bring others down with them. They have no real, actionable advice and I'd be willing to bet at least 1/3rd of the users on there have ever been with a woman. You're better off finding a strong male counterpart offline to confide in.

LongLiveDetroit · 2020-12-21T20:47:18+00:00

oh hell nah LOL, bruh where all the virgins at? I aint tryin get hit up like that

PFD_2 · 2020-12-21T21:25:23+00:00

Lmao that shit HURT to read, peace to the fallen

aaaGreg · 2020-12-21T17:53:49+00:00

A blistering reminder.. thanks OP

uborka161 · 2020-12-21T19:39:08+00:00

The TRP community should make more posts where the relationship advice posts are reviewed with trp lens.

bottomLobster · 2020-12-21T23:01:09+00:00

If I'm thankful for TRP for something, it's mainly I will never be this guy. It's just disgusting, I honestly think this is worse than if she would cheat.

trele_morele · 2020-12-22T03:12:45+00:00

In a relationship, one partner always settles. If it's not you then guess who

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-12-21T23:16:45+00:00

the rationalizations in those comments are so ridiculous i can't believe ppl actually think like that... honestly i don't even believe ppl think like that it must be cope

subaruguy14 · 2020-12-22T00:19:38+00:00

OP on there figured out he was the beta bux in the worst way. Gotta dip.

ojaskulkarni4 · 2020-12-22T02:39:48+00:00

I wonder what op would do now? Break up? Or get more blue pilled and start putting a leash around his neck? The comment section over there didn't even seem to care about what the guy felt. He was being fed all the stupid revenge porn bs.

BornShook · 2020-12-22T04:24:13+00:00

Imagine being that much of a cuck. Why is she even this dudes fiance? Man I feel bad for him but at the same time nah. Clearly marriage wasn't gonna end well for him anyway. The ex might have saved him actually.

ScalpelLifter · 2020-12-21T20:35:55+00:00

That's horrible to deal with. She's really just settling for him even though her ex was clearly a cunt and he's way better but she's too stupid to realise that

throwitdownman · 2020-12-22T03:56:37+00:00

Note that it is more meaningful to use this to our advantage, than it is to be salty. Women type like this because they really do not care about a man’s past promiscuity. They rather share an alpha, than be stuck with a beta. All those comments come from being honest, and benefit from anonymity.

If you all ever get caught with a situation like this where you are in the female’s position, now you know the sweet nothings to whisper to pass the ‘do you love your ex more than me’ test.

Hypergamy exists, and you WILL be more attractive to women by having options, by being wanted by others. Maintaining dread is not seen as a bad thing to women, which explains their enthusiasm to defend the fiancé.

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SKRedPill · 2020-12-24T01:47:14+00:00

She doesn't enjoy doing things like that... With him.

heyllo_ · 2020-12-22T04:10:19+00:00

From the edited text in his post I can tell he is soo beta, next post from him after a year or two will either be "I found my wife cheating, I feel so depressed what do I do" or "I love cleaning my wife's pussy after her bull is done with her"

anonimo42 · 2020-12-22T05:04:48+00:00

What the fuck did I just read. The comment section is full of feminist bitches trying to justify this hoes acts. Disgusting.

LongTimeOn · 2020-12-22T09:34:34+00:00

Alpha fucks, beta bucks.....a story as old as time itself.

OGHuggles · 2020-12-22T17:11:25+00:00

This guy is just getting off to cuck fantasies, it isn't real lol.

Just gotta read the descriptions to find that out, or his comments, or his post history.

OneRedSock · 2020-12-22T18:17:19+00:00

Best Comment Award: "OP might find some comfort realizing there are things his partner does with him that she [didn't] do with her ex - like being honest ... imho the feeling of safety and love ... is worth 10x more than a slightly bigger dick."

Yeah, a huge dick and wild sex with my girl vs. honesty. Real tough choice there. I'll take Just Castrate Me Already for $500, Alex.

Anyway, that dude has confused his value with how he perceives she views his value in this world, and in comparison to other men. He's fucked unless he drops that mindset. A woman's opinion holds no claim in reality, and by extension no value; rise above and be men.

MS101110 · 2020-12-23T20:41:11+00:00

Read some of the comments, it is truly unbelievable the lengths society will go to defend and make women the victms

Red_Cat69 · 2020-12-26T20:34:31+00:00

The ex who sent the new BF tapes of sex... Nobody wonders about that bitch move?

What was he trying to accomplish?

Red_Cat69 · 2020-12-26T20:36:09+00:00

And this:

my fiancée got a tattoo on her ass about a year into our relationship and she has different colored hair

That already says a lot about her.

bestsparkyalive · 2020-12-21T23:28:46+00:00

The comments here are gold.

Nergaal · 2020-12-22T07:24:42+00:00

it hurt reading that. i had my own pain to deal with, but that stuff must really really hurt

MattyAnon · 2020-12-22T18:38:27+00:00

This is just some next level of delusion and self-deception

Yeah, this is just how deluded the world is about female nature. It is critical to the female sexual strategy that her hypergamy is hidden, so all women do everything they can to hide it.

Most men are fooled.

Here is the narrative that society pushes on men to make them accept the girls who decided to settle after their "stupid girl" phase.

The narrative is necessary to dupe men into being providers. Women directly profit so they will always double down on this narrative. It's instinctive.

So why should she even try?

It's partly about her low effort when she perceives low value. But it's also the fact that she is sexually excited by high value men. Kinky sex with an alpha is exciting. Kinky sex with a beta is ewwwww.

max_peenor · 2020-12-23T20:23:14+00:00

Things I learned from the comments:

Female enthusiastic enjoyment of sex is a ruse to make it end sooner because they aren't actually enjoying it.

Women will stop enjoying sucking cock because the person one was attached to was otherwise a dick.

NOT posting sex videos on a public website it "revenge porn" according to state laws.

He has no right to upset because she is the victim here, because he saw videos of her fucking someone in a way that she would never fuck him.

... thankfully that last one got a lot of counter-fire.

Ricky469 · 2020-12-25T02:47:04+00:00

Getting married is the fatal error. In some ways this guy is lucky. He finds out he's a beta bux before the ceremony. If it's after breaking up will involves courts, lawyers, and lots of money. He needs to walk away. If someone really really wants an LTR never get legally married. As long as you're not in a common law state at least you get out with your assets. One positive recent development is some states like New Jersey for example have stipulated that there is no palimony unless there's a written agreement. Just having short term or FWB relationships are fine.

Keith_Valentine · 2020-12-26T21:02:27+00:00

Absolutely incredible! Great share op.

If anything he is under exaggerating, the comments are fucking insane. Everyone should check that shit out.

Hermandro · 2020-12-28T14:53:46+00:00

This is exactly why women's advice for men just aren't the best.

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