Askmen feels a splinter in their mind

MatrixDream · 2016-01-06T02:10:48+00:00

I read that thread then immediately came here to check if anyone had posted about it. He articulated it in such a good way, a less harsh way of stating exactly what the TRP teaches and received overwhelming support.

It seemed to me the comments could be described as a bunch of men sitting around the table realizing how true it is, then feeling sad about it. Next step is for someone to ask.. so what can you do about it to maximize your happiness, which is the next step TRP takes.

moodyprism · 2016-01-06T02:47:25+00:00

That's a pretty awesome post. The guy gets most of it. The only problem is he seems to believe that men can be relieved of their burden of performance if they work hard enough. If they put enough work they can eventually retire and enjoy a woman's love. They can't. The work never stops and the second you do she's gone. There is no such thing as relationship equity.

herewehoagain · 2016-01-06T04:22:21+00:00

This is why you must nurture the healthy relationships you have with your male friends. Women LOVE to give shit when I hug, compliment on physical progress or say I love you to my guy friends. It's like a jealous child ridiculing what he longs for. Women know that they cannot have genuine relationships with their female friends. They too envy our solidarity. These are the minor points Freud was alluding to regarding penis envy. A woman CANNOT be anything more than a solid first mate. You will always have to be captain, and they can generally be expected to abandon ship when your leadership is weak.

ReasonFreak · 2016-01-06T05:02:58+00:00

The fact that a portion of the comment section morphed into a detailed discussion of "Harem Anime" says a lot about the kinds of men who disdain the Red Pill.

Exogyra_Ponderosa · 2016-01-06T03:22:09+00:00

People don't love you, interact with you, or listen to you unless you provide something of value.

The reality of relationships leave a lot to be desired, hence, the fantasy.

Moolg86 · 2016-01-06T08:29:02+00:00

When he can finally let go of the crank he continually turns day after day in order to earn love and, even if only for a moment, it turns by itself to nourish him in return, that is when he will know he is loved.

Fuckin' beautiful. Shed a thug tear.

cant_hold_me_down · 2016-01-06T06:39:22+00:00

"I wonder if this applies to gay men"

Lol, no. Honey, gay men fuck the bejeezus out of each other using a first come, first served mentality and a little app called grindr. Gay men live the sexual life that most straight men only ever dream of. Gay relationships also seem (at least from the outside looking in) to be a lot more meaningful to the people involved. You never have to wonder,

"Could my boyfriend be out fucking someone else right now if he wanted to?"

Yes. Yes, he absolutely could.

And now that you know that, you can feel confident that he'd rather be here spending time with you. And let's not also forget that gay men are still men, and they don't have to put up with all the self-sabotaging, completely-self-unaware, emotionally-driven baseless bullshit that women so love bringing into relationships.

If being gay was a choice, I'm pretty sure I would choose to be gay. They definitely have an easier time of dating/sex/LTR's.

stopbeingaloser · 2016-01-06T05:32:46+00:00

I already knew this, but reading it the way he put it is depressing. I've been reading TRP for a few years now and I feel like I never completely left the "anger" phase. This post didn't make me angry though, just sad... I want to have children, but unless she's a really great mother and at least somewhat supportive wife I don't see the point. More and more it seems the only good thing a woman can offer me today is her body, and maybe the vapid joy that comes from simply being around one.

MattyAnon · 2016-01-06T11:10:33+00:00

That they keep putting in love tokens and are starting to realise they can never stop.

The trick is to never put in any tokens from the start. Once a beta, always a beta in her eyes.

You always gotta do something. You just shouldn't be doing anything for her.

CornyHoosier · 2016-01-06T15:37:56+00:00

Before acknowledging reality, this boy uncompromisingly believes that he shouldn't have to do anything or change anything about himself to earn a woman's love; he wants to be loved for who he is, not what he does. All men secretly want this, but there comes a day when they eventually compromise out of necessity. After that day, they may spend years honing themselves, working, shaping themselves into the men they believe women want to be chosen by. A massive part of what causes boys to "grow up" is the realization that being loved requires hard work.

This is about as Red Pill as it gets.

My own thoughts: Most men's "unicorn" is the woman that sticks with him when he has failed. When he lost everything and she's still there beside him telling him he'll figure it out next time.

MyLittleAtomBomb · 2016-01-06T17:48:40+00:00

TLDR: Men love out of adoration. Women love out of admiration.

hb8only · 2016-01-06T11:01:29+00:00

being loved is hard work for men

well.. and you have 2 options

B) be a fkng beta, work hard literally on your relationship and making money for her

or

A) be ALPHA - work hard on YOURSELF, on your BODY.

Both options are hard but results are very different. your choice gentlemen...

RedPharaohRising · 2016-01-06T02:19:33+00:00

Thread's been discussed all over IRC. Put it up on here anyway. Lots of excellent comments.

0xdada · 2016-01-06T02:39:57+00:00

Link them to Illimitable Man's response to a polite feminist.

pcadrian · 2016-01-06T13:46:44+00:00

DAMN, by the level of awareness that guy has, I'd be very surprised if he wasn't one of us.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-01-06T14:50:48+00:00

Women are capable of absolute (universal) Love.

The "catch" is that her Love is not some rational and prolonged thing that you can count on over time because unless the woman is your mother she has no biological attachment to you.

Love for a woman is what she feels during the successful form of Sex God method sex where her sexual energy rises higher than her waist and her orgasm triggers a massive radiation of energy from her heart.

For those of us that have achieved this many times (the true Chad) you recognize that this Love she feels is a universal kind of Love that she might give to you or to someone else. In a sense "it's just your turn" because what she feels is so universal that any man with Sex God powers can make a woman reach that energy where her heart feels like it's exploding.

So as men we give this Sex God behavior to women as our "money" and are seen by her as her "prize".

Money translates to "One Eye" so we give her access to her "divine feminine" and she certainly values this highly because the Beta lacks Sex God wisdom and cannot give her this experience because the Beta is misdirected towards his own false Disney Illusion of Love.

Real Love is real.. it's universal... it's not something you can put into a cage.

Love is eternally wild and impossible to tame fully.

Brewjo · 2016-01-06T04:34:38+00:00

Someone asked askmen, indirectly, what their idea of fantasy romance and love is.

And everybody started spamming posts of Futurama- DEATH BY SNu-SNu!

user681 · 2016-01-06T15:35:06+00:00

Excellent post. Will remember this one for future references..

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-01-06T17:32:21+00:00

The reason why it makes men's brain short-circuit is due to how we perceive attraction from our part.

We think that women love us for how we are. Like we love them for how they are. But they turn out to love us for who we are. Unplugged men can't fathom that a person could love so opportunistically and impersonally. So they dismiss the thought, feminist propaganda takes care of the rest.

In order to accept that women don't love in our idealistic way one has to accept that women are not equal to men. And this very notion is hammered out of us deep down to our very core at a young age.

causeandcorrelation · 2016-01-06T22:41:18+00:00

My favourite thing about that post was that everybody knows it to be true and we all feel the weight of the implications of what love really is. Who could honestly be surprised at men being loved proportionally to their value. What other world can even really exist? What world would we live in where men are loved for being useless? How could one useless person love another, use another, rely on another, have affection for another useless person. Good men are needed; for genes, provision and mentoring in whatever capacity.

The implications for love are that it doesn't actually exist. Sexual love is a trick. How else could a self actualised man, even a beta man, be convinced to emotionally invest long term with somebody who constantly needs affection, validation and encouragement; who's loyalty is fickle, who needs commitment in terms of marriage but not in equal terms of performance.

Love is the trick. How else could a useful person be manipulated into loving a useless person.

Foctopus · 2016-01-06T02:23:32+00:00

I kinda want to post a link to TRP there. See how many people convert.

niggertron9000 · 2016-01-06T03:27:33+00:00

I left several comments on that thread including one that linked to here. Funny that, that was the one that was downvoted.

raceAround126 · 2016-01-06T07:15:02+00:00

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Title	Askmen feels a splinter in their mind
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Date	January 6, 2016 1:41 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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