askTRP Megathread October 18

CallMeHaseo · 2017-10-18T15:49:58+00:00

How do you guys go about finding a strong male friend circle?

tornadoboy33 · 2017-10-18T18:02:24+00:00

What are your favorite places to pick up/meet new girls? (If your first answer is a bar or club, please include a second place as well, as I am under 21)

ineedtoquitigotthis · 2017-10-18T18:12:19+00:00

View of TRP on not making use of instagram or other social media platforms?

MastermindGG · 2017-10-18T19:09:02+00:00

Okay guys, so money is a huge part of life. I want to know what you work with and how did you get there? Contacts, school, hobby turned proffesional? What did you do? Right now, I just quit my college, in web design. Cause I hated coding and I assumed there was going to be alot more design. So atm I'm jobless, schooless and only got my hobby. Photography and Filmmaking. What should I do? What's the best route to go? Should I study something else, should I pursue my hobby and work a shitty part time job? Give me suggestions.

AlKhat · 2017-10-18T19:33:35+00:00

Feelings of inferiority.

Ever since discovering this sub 10months ago I've been on a mission on self-improvement and ever looking to increase my SMV. I follow many of the RP tenants- I lift, dress well, do martial arts, read RP books, focused on my education/career path, and managed to apply some TRP sexual strategy with some success. However, I can't seem to escape this ever present feeling of being insufficient, and this is really affecting my social interactions as I don't feel a closeness to anyone anymore and my libido's taking a hit as well. Reading articles by Illimitablemen on Dark Triad has been fucking with my world-view as well. I have this sinking feeling in my stomach/anxiety almost all the time.

Has anyone ever experienced this? Thoughts?

CallMeBR · 2017-10-18T18:37:26+00:00

Why is it important not to share your past sexual history with girls you're looking to fuck? They seem to always want to know as I get asked this question a lot. I usually answer but keep out details. Can anyone explain please?

Archangel_1993 · 2017-10-19T06:14:37+00:00

1)How did you guys quit PMO?

2)How did you find TRP and has it made your life better?

womans_algorithm · 2017-10-19T15:30:07+00:00

I broke Iron rule of Tomassi #2 ("NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover."). To be honest I lied to her (said I had more women than I actually did, of course.) What does this mean for me now? Can I tell her I lied and never tell her the actual number?

the_real_lunch_box · 2017-10-18T13:47:35+00:00

Working on my approaches when I have time outside of lifting and hobbies, work. How early in the interaction is best to show interest? Is a direct opener better than indirect? I've noticed the moment i show interest with a direct opener it feels i'm stepping in her frame a bit... Does direct intent work better when your are more muscular/attractive?

do_it_or_leave · 2017-10-18T13:55:38+00:00

I’m 5-10, 175-180lbs. I’ve lost a lot of weight this year. I’m lifting since May with a few stretches of time off. Im at 305 squat, 290 DL and 145 bench for reps on SL3x5. All that lifting was done on a caloric deficit.

I could lose 10 more lbs to be shredded. However, We’re coming up on winter. My plan is to put that last bit of weight loss on hold and bulk till March 1. Cut from March to summer.

My question is lose the last bit of weight or bulk through winter. Also bulking has some psychological challenges for myself as I don’t want to get fat again. Any advice on that mind part? Logically I think a cleanish bulk should be mostly muscle as I’m still in my first lifting year, yet it’s still a hangup. Never will I allow myself to get fat again.

DSetupDTitleDMenu · 2017-10-18T14:06:49+00:00

Two questions:

1) Best college clubs to meet chicks or just awesome people who love life in general? It'd be great to go to decent parties for once in my life. I'll be a STEM major next year tackling a difficult major if that answers any questions. And don't worry - I know my degree comes first.

2) Any weightlifters ever dealt with a major foot/leg fracture before? I fell from a tree in July and had to have a titanium rod inserted into my leg. I want to get back into weightlifting, but I'm going to have to swear off any kind of physical activity for the end of the year. At least I can tell chicks I'm a cyborg now. Help me, brahs.

mrust · 2017-10-18T23:54:00+00:00

How and when do you transition from treating a girl in a way that she doesn’t feel like she is a whore to treating her like the slut she is? The obvious answer is when she is turned on enough and naked. Any nuances you can share?

Girls will pull all kinds of comfort and shit tests to avoid feeling cheap, and also paradoxically get turned on when you treat them like sluts. Is there a frame you can present that straddles that thin line or is it a matter of getting buy-in before progressing to riskier direct game?

Gotmilkyy · 2017-10-19T00:22:59+00:00

This is going to be sort of vague but how many of you guys have started your own business? I'm 21 and I'm extremely lucky because I basically live rent free right now therefore ive been able to save and invest a good amount of money. However I'm getting tired of working away at someone else's dream 40 to 60 hours a week. I've read a few books in the past on the topic (Millionare Fastlane, Think and Grow Rich, Outwitting the Devil, etc) but just seeking some knowledge/experience from you guys.

Any tips from you older guys with more experience? Or even younger guys just starting out?

JacksOnJaxOff · 2017-10-19T06:38:31+00:00

So idk about all of you guys but physical affection is my thing; kissing, sex, massages, cuddling, you name it, anything involving skin contact. With plates and hook ups and even LTRs, I've always been insatiable and felt like I was never receiving enough affection. It's certainly not that I was getting denied or that they wouldn't be affectionate, it's just that I always wanted more than what was given in the end.

I used to blame it on the girls I was with, thinking they should be giving me more affection, etc. and I would obviously come off as needy. I don't do that anymore, cause that's weaksauce, but now I feel that I still have to subvert them or nudge them in some way to get them to provide me with what I want.

My problem now is, how do you maintain an idgaf attitude, and effectively get a girl that you're regularly seeing to give you physical affection without coming off as needy, and prefereably, having it be something that they do for you, as opposed to having to be sollisicted or rather, initiated by you?

I know it's long, but I feel it's something that I haven't been able to figure out for a long time.

TLDR: How do you get girls to be affectionate TO you without coming off as a needy bitch?

spnger4life · 2017-10-19T07:31:24+00:00

What is the preferred method for breaking up with a plate? I could let her down easy, but since I've been seeing this one I don't want to explain anything. I'm not rude enough to ghost, but since we are physically apart it seems easier to call or something.

WarBoruma · 2017-10-18T19:15:27+00:00

Old ex of mine used to say "you are such a dad".

Can someone translate this? Thanks.

TheGovernorPR · 2017-10-18T20:28:12+00:00

stuck at a weight, have been fasting, and eating less while working out, any recommendations to break the plateau I have hit?

bunny1947 · 2017-10-18T13:45:50+00:00

What you love about TRP if I ask about one?

jackandjill22 · 2017-10-18T15:47:49+00:00

FAKERY seems to be the common-theme here.

Why do girls who've made a series of terrible decisions thirst for guys who seem like they have their shit together?
I've seen in the context of "using guys" girls who have good "girl game" using comfort tests as gauging the interest of the potential orbiter. Girls who're cunning for instance: will use teasing as a way to keep their multiple partners placated as they run them. Similar to "keeping male plates".
she makes herself accessible but cuts contact at key moments. When questioned massive lying & convenient explanations ensue....
They lie so effortlessly, they say anything to keep you comfortable & when you question it they get indignant & throw a "drama-storm" if you don't "Trust them". Essentially Gas-lighting.
"Can't turn a hoe into a housewife" How do you identify these traits in girls when you're meeting them meaning what are behavioral red-flags. & if they're not LTR material how do you make them comfortable enough to "have fun" without them feeling judged by you?
Is there a way to give off certain vibes to women in terms of character/personality to make sure they don't get the wrong impression of you.

do_it_or_leave · 2017-10-18T16:12:00+00:00

Are you guys concerned with being labelled as players?

I have made moves on girls who climb with me, sometimes successfully, sometimes not. These girls know each other and I plan to make moves on another.

I know I don't owe them anything, I just expect you guys to have experiences to share so I can make the best of the situation.

PCS3000 · 2017-10-18T20:19:28+00:00

My ex who I havent talked to in 6 months called me. I went over there. We have a turbulent past and she's hit me, broken my phones, lied to me, etc. our last get together about a week ago - we drank vodka, did blow all night, and boned. She told me she still loved me and missed me. I wake up in the morning and she tells me she feels guilty and is talking to someone else. I told a mutual friend about it and she texted me back days later "You're a loser piece of shit, I hope you go kill yourself". I was out of her spell for 6 months but now I feel like I'm right back in it.

Should I try to patch it up for the sex and good times or just call it quits? I won't lie. I do have feelings for her still.

ImHerWonderland · 2017-10-18T18:37:33+00:00

Can anyone link me to a few decent posts on dark triad methods in general when it comes to plates?

Browly7 · 2017-10-19T00:47:07+00:00

I know this has probably been asked numerous times, but what material should I start with? I am not very familiar with Reddit, and I rarely use it, until recently when I started to explore TRP. I am relatively young (19), so some might say this isn't for me, but I feel like girls are just not attracted to me. I look like an average guy. I never had any relationships. I feel like one of my problems is I am boring. I started doing fitness, running and dressing well but other than that I don't do anything exciting or rather I don't find any hobbies interesting. I met this girl at a party and she seemed kinda interested we talked briefly and danced but after the party we lost contact, or rather I didn't make a move, because I was scared of rejection/I wasn't sure if she was really attracted since I don't think highly of myself (probably because I never had/seen someone attracted to me as a kid?). But basically I am interested in how to get their attention, make them attracted and make a move which this page seems to provide, but I find it hard to navigate :/

theoracleofbromaha · 2017-10-18T22:36:32+00:00

I have a bit of a pickle. I am about to be offered a high visible full time position at a small firm as a Project Manager / Lead for a development team. I also have another offer for a 12 month contract at a very reputable firm (I.E Facebook, Amazon, Netflix).

The smaller company pays less but is in my geographic location and requires no relocation. The other requires me to move to a very expensive area, this it evens out the compensation.

I’m about 4 years into my career, any insight here? I know being a contractor doesn’t guarantee employment however having a big company like FB on your resume is golden.

hybridscience · 2017-10-19T17:25:17+00:00

Need critique on how i handled this situation:

LTR and I have a strict policy: anytime someone else tries to get with us we let the other know right away. Girl i work with who my LTR HATES WITH PASSION keeps trying to get with me for months. My girl is getting sick of it. Ive never had this happen to ke before until today. She shows me a message from a guy who is trying to get with her. I tell her "i know you'll know what to say", which is the same thing i did with the girl thats trying to get with me: leave it on read. I feel like my calm response to that drove her crazy. I didnt show any concern or worry. Just said "i trust you'll do the right thing". And she did, she left him on read. Good girl.

Fast forward that same night. Was talking with my ltr outside her place as i was about to leave. She seems kinda off and i ask her whats up. Tells me she feels like she's being disrespected by this other girl at work who keeps trying to get with me. My ltr said if i dont put my foot down and tell that girl to fuck off that she'll do it herself. Looked her dead in the eye and said "you won't have to, i'll handle it". She was persistent as fuck guys. Kept trying to test my frame by acting mad and upset. She also went on to say "you know im not some weak little girl that you think you're better than, i can handle shit myself". I said "great, good to know. But i'm still going to handle it. You sit back and watch".

I got a strong sense that she was testing my character. She repeadetly said "you know my parents get mad when i stay out late like this i need to be inside with them". I said "alright then go ahead. Im not stopping you". She didnt budge. Stayed outside and kept affirming her tough girl attitude. I never have seen her act this way toward me but i stayed the same as always. Calm, maintained eye contact, and told her id handle it. She hates this other girl with a passion.

What is she trying to get out of this and what do i need to know

Thanks fellas

WorldNewPilla · 2017-10-19T04:52:07+00:00

Seen a few posts and heard stories about girls fucking a guy for couple of times and immediately fall in love with him,just for that. What is the explanation for that?

ProcrastinatingPlz · 2017-10-19T11:16:10+00:00

What is TRP? Is it like AskReddit? How is it different?

zarr0k_kt · 2017-10-19T18:36:57+00:00

I broke up with my ltr gf (6years) 4 months ago and although I have pretty much overcame her sexually I find it hard to stop caring about her. I still have feelings for her and wanna know if she is doing fine (lives abroad alone for the past 2 years), but all trp advice is to ghost her. Should I do what basic trp says or should I act on my own?

We havent been in touch for over a month and the last time she "approached" me and had a chat i was really harsh and distant. This doesnt seem right to me as I loved the girl and I feel like my current behaviour is ruining everything she's thought of me and everything we had.

Ps. Writing this makes me feel really bluepill-ish but i feel like i should question some things here and not take everything for granted.

MrOpppo · 2017-10-20T02:48:33+00:00

Made plans to hang out with a girl I've been banging at night and she agrees. Tell her to come over and she says that she's busy. How to respond? Soft next? Don't even respond and act like nothing happened?

agent_of_chaos90 · 2017-10-20T03:03:37+00:00

What is the advantage of having traits be labeled masculine and feminine? I was debating with a friend (as carefully supporting men as possible) and his point was by shitting on more assertive women and less assertive men, we are enforcing stereotypes that aren't necessarily true at all.

DJ_Nade · 2017-10-20T05:02:54+00:00

This 9 in my class I've been making small talk with and chatting with a bit. When getting her number she was super nervous? Good right? Didn't reply to text at all. Hmm

billybobjoecarl · 2017-10-20T06:47:02+00:00

I was talking with some chick and she kept bragging about all her sexual experience. I mostly ignored her, made a couple jokes about her promiscuity, etc. Is that the right move?

drunkracing19 · 2017-10-18T14:53:54+00:00

Does anyone else spend hours and hours a day driving for work? How do you deal with keeping your mind from getting the best of you? I usually keep the radio turned up, usually helps but not always

Salted_Pretzel · 2017-10-18T15:04:17+00:00

How do you become more confrontational? Is it better to confrot people or ignore them as they are a waste of time.

[deleted] · 2017-10-18T15:18:45+00:00

Reading Evola - where to start and how to proceed?

CallMeHaseo · 2017-10-18T15:51:15+00:00

To any high status males on here how much differently do women treat you now vs back in the day? A brief description of your situation would be great.

LazyMagus · 2017-10-20T07:14:42+00:00

What happened to /u/slmc1? Has he deleted his account? I can't find him on my friends list or by search.

Edit: he has 🤔

CallMeHaseo · 2017-10-18T15:49:17+00:00

How do I get laid while getting my shit together at a community college?

Title	askTRP Megathread October 18
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