Cuckolding becoming mainstream

greycloud24 · 2015-05-28T21:52:13+00:00

just another good reason not to get married at all.

scarletspider3 · 2015-05-29T00:22:12+00:00

Absolutely disgusting. I can't believe the comment that compared this to people that were against interracial dating. If you don't let other dudes ram your wife then you're like a racist?

Like Tomassi said, their could be a future where husbands that refuse to let their wives sleep around could be viewed as controlling and emotionally abusive. Just sickening. And did you guys catch the part where she said that marriages are transactional. Another reason to not get married. If you want to be a slut then get the fuck out, but i'm not gonna finance it.

grendalor · 2015-05-29T00:04:47+00:00

Note how the husband is not interviewed, and the article never says that he has any action of his own going on at all outside the marriage. My guess is that he does not, and this is a fairly standard situation where the guy's SMV is in the tank compared to his still-in-shape cougar wife, and so he's fucked up the river without a paddle.

Bastard had no choice, really. I mean I'm sure she basically told him she wants to fuck other guys (and girls), and so either she's going to do it while they are still married, or she's going to ass-rape him brutally and remorselessly in a divorce after he has worked his life to support her and the kids. Guy was fucked -- had no chance. Made a horrific choice to marry a divorced ho of a wife, and that's what you get when you make a colossal fucked up decision like that.

Of course, don't marry. But if you MUST marry, fucking don't marry a divorced ho who had an affair which broke up her first marriage, just because she is a nice piece of ass. Don't be stupid, gentlemen.

dr_warlock · 2015-05-28T22:00:08+00:00

“If you look at marriage, it developed as a survival strategy and a means of raising kids,” Wade said. “But relationships are no longer a necessary component of life. People have careers and other interests — they can survive without them.”

Yeah women can survive because daddy government is holding a gun to responsible single men's heads and forcing them to pay taxes on single mother subsides that create ghetto neighbourhoods like Baltimore. Take away child support, alimony, low income, WIC, food stamps, welfare, and section 8 and see how far these "independent womyn" get.

ScholarInRed · 2015-05-28T22:29:45+00:00

Maybe this is just bias working against me, but every time I read an article now I look to see the gender of the author.

There's a correlation between bullshit and female authors. It's not absolute, but it's there.

That’s not wrong, says Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist and one of the world’s leading relationship researchers.

I'll bet the hamster is strong in this one.

“Nothing about this is new. It’s as old as the hills,” Fisher said. “What is new is that women are now also being more adulterous — and so people are beginning to be more open about it.”

At least she doesn't deny that modern society is fundamentally different from our natural environment.

She and her husband still have sex, still go to social functions, still celebrate anniversaries.

Read: She will occasionally starfish as a form of service fee on the limitless credit card that is her BB, use his social influence to look for new branch swings, and let him grovel when it's that time of year again.

More and more women will make this choice or consider it, Fisher expects; it’s in keeping with decades of widespread social change and women’s empowerment. Just 30 years ago, when Jessie was in her 20s, the average woman married at 23 and had her first child within the year. Her mother’s generation didn’t even leave the home. The majority simply raised kids, preached chastity and finger-waved their hair. “That’s all sliding away from us,” Fisher said. “We’re shedding all these agricultural traditions . . . [and] returning to the way we were millions of years ago.”

Millions of years ago. When we were sub-mammal creatures in the primordial gloop, maybe. There was no CC back then, or even before the rise of feminism since then, as women were treated in the way that poor little boys treat found toys - greedily, with aggresive guarding. Then came marriage and a gentler but still firm hold on one's woman. Now comes this utter shit.

Internal data from Open Minded would appear to back that up: Thus far, most of its self-declared “monogamish” users are under 33. In other words, they’re women (and men) who paid off their own student loans, fooled around on Tinder — and grew up with a notion of personal independence much different from the one taught in the 1st century A.D.

Yeah. It now goes something like 'fuk effort ur perfect lol'.

But there's hope in the comments, gents;

1 Yes...one might say marriage is joke these days and that we all ought to buy into the new 'progressive' outlook of having it all at any time while supplies last... Not me...I am content at going it alone and letting others run on empty values.

2 This article and many of the comments can be synthesized to this logic: non-monogamous relationships are common place (i.e. everyone is doing it), ergo they should be as socially acceptable as monogamous relationships. You know what else is very common - lying. People lie all the time! Perhaps we should all just promote lying as equal to telling the truth... To say nothing of the totally twisted understanding of the meaning and nature of love that a person would have to espouse in order to live such a lifestyle... If you feel this way, do the world (and your potential spouse a favor), don't get married.

3 From the article, "Dogs mate for life."
If this demonstrates the level of knowledge of the world around her or science possessed by this woman, it is reasonable to dismiss the rest of her
science" for what it is, garbage.

RP_Student · 2015-05-28T23:10:02+00:00

This is absolutely disgusting. The bitch's first marriage ended in an affair. She's a slut. She probably got bored of sneaking around with her side boyfriends (yeah right a ho like that would wait until a "Big Conversation" to sleep around), went up to her husband and said "hey your dumpy, bald, prius driving ass can go try to get some but I'm going to be bringing one of my four (what?) lovers around to bang in our bedroom every now and again and if you don't like that, give me half of the shit you've spent your lifetime earning."

SportingCP21 · 2015-05-29T00:18:30+00:00

Another astonishing piece of stupid from the "were-just-smart-monkeys" people. Here's an alternative description of people such as Jessie: self-indulgent, self-absorbed losers unable to hold off near-term physical gratification long enough to experience the success, joy of working through life's hard times with a committed person, AKA spouse. Good thing there's an army of people with PhDs willing to make them feel okay about being self-absorbed, self-indulgent losers.

SportingCP21 · 2015-05-29T00:20:24+00:00

This was a fad in the 60s, called "open marriage." It led to lots of misery and divorce. If you want multiple partners don't get married. Have yourself tested regularly for STD

moose_war · 2015-05-29T04:28:02+00:00

One of the most disturbing things I've noticed recently is how quickly cuckolding seems to be catching on.

For one, women today seem to be completely into "open relationships"...which is really just the best of both worlds for the woman. A guy can fuck and chuck a woman and be satisfied, but women DO enjoy having the emotional side of the relationship from at least one guy. With this "open relationship" bullshit, she can get sex from the guys she wants while just getting the emotional, romantic side from some well-off beta.

Secondly, guys seem to be into it more than women sometimes. I have no respect for any man that is into stuff like filming his wife getting fucked. What a piece of shit. Even worse is FinDom. When I learned about that shit, I lost all hope for the modern man.

At this point, I have no desire to form a long term relationship with a woman. The odds seem stacked against a woman being capable of love and I can't put my neck on the line for something so dicey. Traveling the world alone, training in martial arts, lifting weights, building a career and eating good food all seem like way better time to be spent.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-05-29T01:34:23+00:00

This only gets praised when the wife goes out and gets banged. If it was hubby, he'd be a Durty Dawg. The hamster is fine, when the hamster is getting its hamster tingles, but once hubby plows some new 'tang, suddenly it will be a horrible idea. Like what happened with the "Wild Oats" project, where the wife goes out and whores it up in a domestic version of "Eat, Pray, Slut", and then gets bent of shape when hubby lands himself a younger woman.

TheReasoner94 · 2015-05-29T01:11:13+00:00

First of all, we are to believe that this full throated slut stayed faithful for twenty years and that her fairly prodigious philandering is only at the book ends of that monogamy. Hmmm. There's a reason she hasn't told her kids, if she was so confident this was the right thing to do why so much shame? Because you're a fucking slut that's why.

IronMeltsinmyHands · 2015-05-29T01:29:08+00:00

Tell me we need more women's rights.

The only plane men and women cab be equal in an economic plane.

They've succeeded in destroying the family unit. With the advent of free sex, everything had become watered down. Men are not men and women are not women.

This mode of living won't be able to sustain itself for long. Maybe a decade or two.

Once men and women become dissatisfied, they'll run to create a system where two pieces make a whole. And the roles for each of the two are specific to that gender assigned.

Even if one or two men are better are child-rearing or if a few women are better are business.

It's like this, half of India studies to become engineers. 5 percent of them are good at that shit, and even less of them get jobs. The rest are mediocre or cast aside by the world.

Tell me you want to comfort all of these people. You can't. A handful of exceptions does not negate the whole.

The world tomorrow, is devoid of any worth. It's like having meth for the 1000th time. There is no high, not anymore.

LastRevision · 2015-05-28T23:30:11+00:00

There will be a major social push for normalized polygamy in the next ten years:

http://www.gallup.com/poll/183413/americans-continue-shift-left-key-moral-issues.aspx?utm_source=twitterbutton&utm_medium=twitter&utm_campaign=sharing

mrmeyhemn · 2015-05-29T07:20:00+00:00

5 years ago I dated a younger girl that was an 8. she was 30, no kids, perfect body, teeth, skin, tits, exercised, no cellulite, etc. she had a BB boyfriend when we met and she tried to use me as an emotional tampon, which I countered with "if you aren't happy come over to my house and I'll "please" you and give you the validation you seek." and no shit it worked. after about a week she came over showing her birth control implants off. after her next period she started asking for raw dog and internal cream. she had plenty proof that she was on birth control and I went for it. she never got pregnant. this woman would have sex with me, get up without cleaning herself at all, dress, and go home for her bb bf to go down on. i ended it when she told me this and asked if he could come over and watch, and get his dose of me "fresh" out of her.

fuck just thinking about that is gross and exactly why I don't eat the pussycat.

twomansound · 2015-05-29T08:12:42+00:00

Jessie already had an inkling that maybe she wasn’t quite like the ladies she saw at church

You see, she is different. That's what makes her a cheating whore - not her choice. You can't choose to be different.

She thought about cheating on her husband of 20 years. She considered bars, parties, a review of the lapses in her mid-20s. Instead, she sat her husband down and told him something that more and more progressive couples are beginning to realize.

Instead of going out there and cheating on her husband of 20 years with a stranger because one day she woke up feeling like it, she sat down with him an told him I want to fuck strangers because I feel like it and you're gonna like it. Practically a saint.

But you see, more and more progressive couples are doing it so it's totally right.

in the age of Tinder and Ashley Madison and OkCupid, they also both wanted to have other options.

Both.

And yet the article lists only her profile and talks only about her "polyamorous" life.

But he guesses that most of his 70,000 users are people like Jessie: Those in committed, conventional relationships, who realize that, statistically speaking, few modern couples stay with a single person their whole lives.

Well, statistically speaking, if you go around telling people that cheating is okay and everybody is doing it then I can imagine you'll see more of it. Statistically speaking.

But you know, statistically speaking most people do not stay with a single person their whole life so me sucking Chad's 8 inch cock on my knees in the club's toilet is totally natural and not my fault, and you shouldn't feel threathened by it.

What you say, I never done that with you? But that's because I love you and I respect you too much for acting like that with you. Of course it is.

But relationships are no longer a necessary component of life. People have careers and other interests — they can survive without them.

Yea, sure. So let's stop alimony right away then.

There’s a long history of married men sleeping around, Fisher said.

You've done that first!

And the romantic notion that relationships are anything but transactions is relatively recent.

Yea, like just some hundreds of thousands of years old, no big deal.

We’re biologically programmed to form pair-bonds, yes, but some people — many people — are also programmed to seek out variety.

You have a strange definition of biologically programmed then. When you say biologically programmed I think of things like "feel hunger when no food for a long time". But of course I am pretty sure there's many people out there that don't feel like eating after a 7 days fast.

Jessie doesn’t like that word. Adultery. It conjures images of lipstick stains and burner phones. Or worse, stonings and scarlet A’s. It also reminds her of her first marriage, which ended after an affair. She hated the lying, the sneaking around. This time, she wanted to be more honest.

She doesn't like the word - it smells of personal responsability.

She hated the lying and the sneaking around. But she loved the thundercocks. Let's keep those and get rid of the rest.

More and more women will make this choice or consider it, Fisher expects; it’s in keeping with decades of widespread social change and women’s empowerment

Yeah, women's empowerment. Like, literally. At the expense of whom?

Just 30 years ago, when Jessie was in her 20s, the average woman married at 23 and had her first child within the year. Her mother’s generation didn’t even leave the home. The majority simply raised kids, preached chastity and finger-waved their hair.

What a terrible world they lived in. All that of course while their husbands went to war, broke their backs in the fields and generally expended their life just to make so that they were safe and well fed.

But nobody seem to remember that too. And that's of course still part of the deal.

“That’s all sliding away from us,” Fisher said. “We’re shedding all these agricultural traditions . . . [and] returning to the way we were millions of years ago.”

You're so right, and you don't even know it.

I am so disgusted right now.

RationalistFaith1 · 2015-05-29T00:31:23+00:00

Good thing nature has all types of STD's and STI's. When you're on the side of the objective truth, you shan't worry. The irrational ripples will die out in the objective rational pond of the universe.

TheReasoner94 · 2015-05-29T01:08:19+00:00

Just consider the number of married men who have partners outside of their marriage — more than 40 percent in the United States.

Wait wheres the statistical evidence to back up this claim? Or did you pull that statistic from your ass to justify women acting like sluts and being "free"?

Belerion · 2015-05-29T00:11:36+00:00

Guys, guys...... Dogs do not mate for life.

gokurakumaru · 2015-05-28T23:53:56+00:00

"Publicly, no one knows about this arrangement. (It’s why we have agreed to just use her first name in this story.)"

Except the dudes she's fucking, anybody they tell, and anybody who browses the dating sites she uses. I like the way the article portrays this as something nobody will ever know about. Hope she doesn't match her son on Tinder.

snobocracy · 2015-05-29T03:30:45+00:00

Ok. Are the husbands allowed to fuck prostitutes? If not, why not?

StarDestinyGuy · 2015-05-29T05:30:55+00:00

In 2010, Jessie approached her husband with an idea she called “ethical non-monogamy.” They would stay together as each other’s primary, lifelong partners, but they wouldn’t rule out other relationships — as long as they happened openly.

At which point he should have told her no and probably just left her.

Jessie has shown her husband her profile on several dating sites, including Open Minded. When she returns from her weekly date with one of her four extramarital partners, she tells him as much, or as little, as he likes.

One of four? Wow. This dude's wife is getting railed by four other guys. I wonder how many other girls he's fucking in this open marriage. The article doesn't really seem to go into that...

SportingCP21 · 2015-05-29T10:35:37+00:00

the astonishing thing is what these women fights tooth and nail for makes them MISERABLE. do you think this lady ever caught a man she was attracted to and loved? she is LOW QUALITY and could only get low quality. she thinks every relationship is as bad as hers.

she will never get a man to truly connect with her - because she's not worthy of that. I feel sorry for her.

redpillshadow · 2015-05-29T14:20:49+00:00

Expected this thread to be about Bella and the Bulldogs. A teen show on Cuckelodeon.

Filled with message glorifying cuckolding.

chillmonkey88 · 2015-05-29T08:20:34+00:00

Title says it all... cake and eat it too attitude.

RS73 · 2015-05-30T01:05:11+00:00

A couple of years ago the LA Times had an article about three lesbians living together and having children. The article stated at least a couple of times that this is "a growing trend" and said things like "We see more and more of these unconventional family arrangements...and they're thriving!" Zowie! That's so...diverse 'n' stuff!

This kind of horseshit has little to do with reality and nothing to do with "growing trends." Are there more dyke threesomes living together and swapping sperm donations now than there were two or three years ago? I very much doubt it. In fact, there may be fewer such arrangements today since they've always been almost nonexistent to begin with.

These stories are all about titillation and, most of all, social conditioning. The assholes who run and work in media want to sell clicks and products with sex and they also want to push "progressive" ideas on to the public. Hey, all the "smart set" is feminist or queer or shoving baseball bats up their asses! They don't so much care if you do it too so long as you become dulled to the showboating weirdness and idiocy and become afraid to criticize or call it out for what it is - abnormal and very possibly destructive to human life.

"Political correctness is communist propaganda writ small. In my study of communist societies, I came to the conclusion that the purpose of communist propaganda was not to persuade or convince, nor to inform, but to humiliate; and therefore, the less it corresponded to reality the better. When people are forced to remain silent when they are being told the most obvious lies, or even worse when they are forced to repeat the lies themselves, they lose once and for all their sense of probity. To assent to obvious lies is to co-operate with evil, and in some small way to become evil oneself. One’s standing to resist anything is thus eroded, and even destroyed. A society of emasculated liars is easy to control. I think if you examine political correctness, it has the same effect and is intended to." - Theodore Dalrymple

Doctor_Mayhem · 2015-05-29T03:37:04+00:00

Jesus... And leftists call Real Americans insane for pointing out the shit behind "Bella and the Bulldogs"...

Nocontactorder · 2015-05-28T23:43:00+00:00

Title misleading. I saw an article abt swingers, not white guys paying black dudes to fuck their gfs.

bsutansalt · 2015-05-29T12:19:55+00:00

You're lucky this sparked an interesting discussion, or I'd pull this thread. Do NOT direct link. In the future make a text post and include the link in that, along with a commentary on why you think it's TRP relevant.

[deleted] · 2015-05-29T02:41:03+00:00

We should give some support to cuckqeans to balance it out. They love their alphas.

f3yleaf · 2015-05-29T02:55:48+00:00

Brilliant! Its gonna really suck for beta's if being poly goes mainstream tho :D

MyReddit4 · 2015-05-29T06:01:59+00:00

Dangerous trend, so what of "men as the gatekeepers of commitment" if commitment is pulled off the market?

BlackHeart89 · 2015-06-01T16:42:22+00:00

The whole article seemed pointless to me.

She wants an open relationship after 20 years. So what? Honestly, I always found it hard to believe that a couple could live together with one another for 20+ years and still only be exclusive to one another for the entire time.

My thing is, a man should NEVER consider sharing his woman with another man if he himself is married or plans to marry this woman. Regardless of him being completely okay with it or not, if she decides to leave for one of her several dozen on the side lovers, he's getting fucked. For every guy she fucks, that increases the chances of her leaving and fucking him over.

the_red_scimitar · 2015-05-29T02:03:13+00:00

Guys, men open relationships too. Actually, very often.

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Title	Cuckolding becoming mainstream
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