Lessons from Matt Lauer et al

yummyluckycharms · 2017-11-29T19:29:17+00:00

The greatest danger is from female co-workers - they will do anything to either get ahead or to knock you down a peg. As someone in consulting with its up or out mentality, may I humbly offer you the following tips to avoid getting back stabbed (or to minimize the damage of it as it will happen eventually)

try to avoid having women on your teams in the first place. If assigned a woman, give her a make work busy task that is non critical. This removes leverage on you
never close your office door when with a female co-worker - make sure its a well known policy of yours and there are no exceptions. Oh - a female coworkers granny is sick and she needs to cry - no the door stays open but no worries - no one will think less of you when you cry.
go to the dollar store and get a cheap digital recorder - keep it in the desk at all times. If you want to splurge, you can get one that will data dump via wi-fi to your desktop and then to your home computer at the end of the day. But whenever you have someone come in to talk to you about anything - record it.
try to ensure a paper trail summarizing your conversation with a co-worker after it happened. At the end of the email, have a line saying please email me if the details of this email are inaccurate or if there is something missing.
paradox alert - try to get a female mentor - usually older females that are gruff - male mentors will throw you under the bus in a second if they need to virtue signal. Mother bear bosses tend not to do this, and see any attacks on their protege as an attack on them. Exploit this

In general , when people get off of rape charges or what have you, its because they had evidence to at least make firing them expensive for the companies. Is it legal to record convos, who cares? Its better to ask forgiveness than for permission and having a recording often makes HR dept fear about bad PR.

FrodnarFancypants · 2017-11-29T19:13:29+00:00

I hate to say this because it's essentially admitting "I don't want to play this game anymore," but this #MeToo trend and the high profile accusations flying around has made me less interested in women than I ever thought possible. I don't know why, it just feels like a no-win game now. I don't want to sound like a quitter but I really just want to focus on me from now on. Good God I don't want to be a MGTOW, fuck.

niczar · 2017-11-29T20:30:55+00:00

Report to HR if you must.

DO NOT.

HR is not your friend.

XcoomieX1 · 2017-11-30T08:39:52+00:00

Very informative, thanks a mill

MikeHaines · 2017-11-30T14:00:33+00:00

"Who keeps you up at night?" a report asked General James Mattis, current Secretary of Defense. Without hesitation he shot back, "No one. I keep others up at night."

Mattis is such a bad motherfucker.

julesssssssssss · 2017-12-02T03:05:10+00:00

I assure you, no one wanted to see LK or Weinsetin jerk it. Not in a plant. Not in a room. Not with a friend. Or Orlando Bloom.

No one wants to see some dude pull out their junk. Not sexy. And I promise, your dick pic will not make a person do a 180 and want to sleep with you.

A person jerking off in a plant or is weird but if the other party is a consensual, willing participant, it goes from harassment to couple who is into weird shit. Notice I said couple, not employees. A relationship were someone puts up with your weird quirks, not someone you barely see.

If only one person is randomly asking if they can jerk off and the other person is not participating and have never participated, it's still harassment even if you ask. No one actually thought the comedian was being serious when he asked.

Sexual harassment is serious, and it sounds like you are all recording people, without their consent to cover your ass. Be honest, have a conversation and sign a document.

No means no. If a person is genuinely interested in advancing the relationship into a sexual one, you never have to talk them into it. Someone dressing nice is not an invitation.

Stop blaming the victims.

JohnnySixguns · 2017-11-30T04:57:12+00:00

Even if you live in a two/multi party state, recording audio may be a good idea, especially if it's gonna be a ONS.

OK, I agree it's better to get cracked for wiretapping than rape. But has it really come to this?

I'm so glad I didn't have to deal with this when I was younger.

Top_Brazzler · 2017-11-29T22:30:22+00:00

There was a good Joe Rogan podcast with Peter Schiff recently:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=by1OgqQQANg

The moral of the story is do not hire hot women or even decent looking women if there is a qualified ugly woman to do the same job. It's amazing how fast the "business world" adapts and responds in a weird way to all the sexual harassment claims that big companies have faced in the last few months.

It's a very clever solution to a problem which the media portrays completely differently.

racethesunset · 2017-11-29T17:50:23+00:00

Good summary here. One more thing to note is that if you have established yourself well, women will respect the boundaries and rules of conduct that you set. You can move boundaries as needed.

TRP_Only · 2017-11-29T22:29:14+00:00

is on my list of To-Do's. As well as getting a good dash cam. Driving a nice vehicle with insurance can be a really bad thing in the south, and bit me in the ass already once.

Rhynovirus · 2017-11-29T23:48:31+00:00

11) She gets one token LMR.

Anything more than one token LMR? Time to put my pants back on.

This right here. Abundance gents! She is replaceable and nothing is worth sacrificing your peace of mind.

nowwhatjoe · 2017-11-29T18:51:13+00:00

It’s important to keep in mind that these guys got in deep shit not because they hit on women. They got in deep shit because they were completely insane in their approach. It doesn’t take any TRP or seduction theory to know that you shouldn’t jerk off, grope, or get naked in front of women right off the bat.

I’ve read in this subreddit and elsewhere that these events will lead to the end of game as we know it, but that’s an exaggeration. What all these guys have in common is that they are ugly, have no game, and relied solely on status and bullish behavior to get women. So far there has been no evidence that you’ll get in trouble by hitting on women like a descent person.

popcornready14 · 2017-11-30T01:33:40+00:00

This witch hunt is kind of getting ridiculous.

I mean women coming out of the wood work 5, 10, 30 years later is a bit much imo.

The he said she said thing should have some sort of limitations.

i_got_the_clearance · 2017-11-30T04:42:59+00:00

Question: is this overblown? This article [https://archive.fo/bRoH1] states that reported harassment on one survey (over a 12 month period) was less than 4% and that was way down from 2002. Author makes the point that there is no harassment epidemic. Including Matt Lauer, about 50 men have been accused in entertainment, media and politics - a fair number, but not overwhelming. And each man was brought down either by someone with a grudge (and previously disclosed accusations), or by the press. I have not seen evidence in my industry of mass false (or true) reporting of harassment or people getting fired. Has anyone else?

red_reality · 2017-11-30T07:22:32+00:00

11 is king.

Lmr is healthy and natural. Responding with "we can do whatever you're comfortable with" or "I don't want you to do anything that you don't wanna do" is the only frame to have in this situation.

She is shit or comfort testing you. She wants to know either that you're okay with her rejecting you in the moment and not going to get pissy and also, in the comfort test scenario, that you possess the compassion necessary to consider her needs during the impending slam session.

88Will88 · 2017-11-30T04:43:39+00:00

Great post, I would also add this:

When you initiate kino start with hand holding, if she likes this, give her hand a little squeeze, if she squeezes back, move to the knee or the shoulder. If she is responding, lean in gently for a kiss. If at any stage she withdraws, treat it exactly like OP suggests for LMR, withdraw attention, try one more hand hold. If she doesn’t respond very keenly, GTFO of there. End the date, delete her number, you cannot negotiate attraction. No one ever got accused of “inappropriately holding hands”. Even the leftard MSM is not going to be able to spin that as harassment.

Original_Dankster · 2017-11-30T12:47:15+00:00

She gets one token LMR.

Excellent advice. I use the same rule myself. I'll say "you don't seem certain you want this, I'll get you an uber home." Or something.

If I see that woman again (there's no guarantee I will however) then at least she knows not to play the LMR game with me after that.

MyDarkSideOfTheMoon · 2017-11-30T02:32:34+00:00

After reading these tips you guys must all live some really exciting successful lives. I wish I had even half of these temptations.

ohyeawellyousuck · 2017-11-30T10:13:05+00:00

Cmon guys. I went 7 years without having sex. Did I want sex? Yes. Did I get arrested for sexual assault or make irrational decisions because I was in some sort of fictitious sexual debt? No. Regardless of your opinions of the facts of the cases (I disagree with some of the things I hear as well), not having sex doesn’t mean you make irrational choices, unless your weak.

I was arguably more successful in my career, my fitness, my sports, and my hobbies back then as compared to know where sex comes easier.

Stop using “back up” as a crutch to making bad decisions as if you need sex in order to do something with your life. It’s pathetic. Stop being weak minded, shells of men and blaming it on sex.

I didn’t read the rest but my hope is it got better from there. You got some upvotes so maybe I’ll read the rest when I feel up to it.

redarkane · 2017-11-29T21:17:15+00:00

Mgtow is better.

Only fuck escorts.

WISE_TURD · 2017-11-30T04:36:19+00:00

Number 7 saves time while simultaneously covering your ass. Best way to go.

hawkjor · 2017-11-30T14:33:05+00:00

9) Please do not record yourself having sex without the other person's consent. Audio is one thing, but a video is an invasion of privacy.

wanderer779 · 2017-12-01T03:29:15+00:00

If they accuse you let them talk and say nothing.

For example say she accuses you of assaulting her at the company Christmas party and you weren't even there. Your temptation is to respond immediately with your evidence to shut it down. That gives her a chance to correct herself and say she got the date wrong but she's sure it happened. Instead let her keep talking and adding details, "I remember he was wearing a Santa hat and he kept doing his Bing Crosby impression.". The more details she adds the further she digs herself in on a story that you will show later to be a lie.

Also, get a lawyer as soon as she makes the accusation.

So yeah, stfu and lawyer up.

thickandheavy · 2017-12-10T01:47:22+00:00

Lawyer here to ease your minds a bit. It may seem super prevalent with everything going on in the media, but only around 2% of all rape accusations are determined to be false, which is about the same percentage as false claims about all other felonies. Unless you have done something reprehensible in the past or crossed boundaries you know you shouldn't have, most of this anxiety surrounding false accusations is unfounded. (Law enforcement officers will tell you the same, most of the time where there is smoke there is fire.)

king_of_red_alphas · 2017-11-29T18:52:42+00:00

Man. #1 hits home.

I’m doing this whole no-fap November and my one and only “plate” dropped over a month ago after months of the best sex of my life.

Now I’m ready to do just about anything to fuck. I can’t think straight, I am on the verge of having wet dreams, and extremely irritable.

Thing is, I can’t get over the mental barrier of paying a pro, even though I feel like it would be the better option that rubbing one out.

I have a hard time with “scripted” sex as it is (I need it to unfold naturally and feel actual desire on the part of the girl)

How do you handle this?

bloodycptvane · 2017-11-29T18:20:33+00:00

good points

especially 3 and 4.

davebrain · 2017-11-30T10:08:42+00:00

You need sex.

If you've gone more than months or even just one month without good sex, understand that you are backed up and you will most likely act irrationally for sex.

Wow. The OP has never heard of rubbing one out.

icecoldwhoknows · 2017-11-29T18:48:08+00:00

Men will be men, but don't holler at babes in the workplace. No exceptions.

U-94 · 2017-11-29T23:28:48+00:00

I can't believe people that old, established and wealthy still give a fuck about this stuff. I worked for a creepy producer once who was probably all about this behavior but I knew he was taking testosterone so it probably wasn't natural.

thebigkick · 2017-11-30T01:39:37+00:00

Could you please elaborate a little on 5. What do you mean plate? frame?

Thanks

janowski_d · 2017-11-29T18:45:09+00:00

And most importantly, learn pick-up.

These faggots didn't have to cause they used their power.

Title	Lessons from Matt Lauer et al
Author	Bear-With-Bit
Upvotes	406
Comments	168
Date	November 29, 2017 4:55 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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