Alpha widow laments feeling single (because sexually unfulfilled) while in a committed relationship. She can't be satisfied with a good man that provides her with commitment (and love) because she has been broken by the 50+ cocks she had on the carousel...and that one that got away.

moorekom · 2021-06-16T19:40:57+00:00

This is a good reminder that cock carousel leads to "Cumulative-Chad" hunting and misery.

I also want to remind everyone that (sexual) maturity in a woman is a useless thing to a man.

Women look for mastery. Men look for innocence. Most women don't even think about teaching a man because it is not in their nature to elevate a man. Notice how she never mentioned trying to teach her bf how to fuck. While she mentions dropping hints that he should fuck her better and laments that she has to use toys while imagining him fucking her, she just wants the situation to get better without any effort from her part. She is 30 and yet she is no better than a spoilt kid.

Jake-Orion · 2021-06-16T19:08:42+00:00

Gentlemen, I'll just save you the headache of even attempting to read that, much less make any sense of it:

Basketcase. Full tutti-fruitti nutbar.

EDIT: I'll just sum up her posts.

Post 1: finally "got over" super Chad. Insert emotional constipation rant filler.

Post 2: having lots of sex, but still lonely. Tired of being sex toy. Insert more emotional constipation here.

Post 3: found guy, but virtually premature ejaculator. Sex life is frustrating. More emotional constipation.

Post 4: how to make guy better sex partner. Still frustrated with sex with him. Even more emotional constipation.

Post 5: bordering LTR with premature ejaculator. My tingles are over but he's in love with me now. Insert [you guessed it] even more emotional constipation.

Jihocech_Honza · 2021-06-16T20:01:42+00:00

"I´ve slept with quite a few people throughout my life. About 50 men."

Words have really lost its meaning.

Recklessterror · 2021-06-16T21:04:26+00:00

TL:DR

"I've slept with hundreds of men (im lying and pretending it was only 50) and now i cant bond with any single man (but casual sex is not the issue and i think the solution is to have more casual sex), can you guys please validate me being an ever bigger slut and leaving my BF"

Glittering-Meat3088 · 2021-06-16T19:20:45+00:00

I skimmed it. Broken women complaining about being broken but having no intention of doing anything about it. More insane behavior and a complete lack of accountability trying to be passed off as normal.

plainnsimpleforever · 2021-06-16T20:52:44+00:00

Girls in their mid-30s are either real Alpha widows, meaning like this girl, that they have experienced an alpha and can't get over it, or they are virtual Alpha widows, meaning that they have formed a composite man of all the best qualities from all their men. Either way no man can compete.

DaleGribble692 · 2021-06-16T21:14:30+00:00

With 50+ guys under her belt chances are the best sex she ever had was with a random hookup who never spoke to her again. I think that shows a lot about what her issue is. She has no class, she lacks character and integrity. She’s wants to leave this great guy because he doesn’t fuck her right but she’s scared to be alone so she stays with home for the security. I truly hope this guy gets wind of her intentions and bails before her makes any legal decisions about her. She’s going to cheat, probably already is. She’s the kind of person who would cheat two hours before her wedding. She would have to redo her makeup and hair because of the splooging she received in her wedding dress, she would justify it as her last as a single woman.

mustangfrank · 2021-06-16T21:06:35+00:00

Heidi the Alpha Widow

In an apartment complex that I lived in Houston, there was a loose knit collection of about 10-15 singles. We would meet at the pool on the weekends, and have informal parities. If one person knew of a singles event, they would inform the rest, and whoever wanted could attend. I even dated one of the girls in the group for a short time.

In the group, was an attractive girl named Heidi. She was a degreed professional in the oil business. And you couldn’t miss her. She was 5’11”, blonde hair, with blue eyes. Typical for a tall girl, she didn’t have much up top, but she have broad curvy hips and an hour glass waist. She, needless to say, she got the attention of single men.

One Saturday, I was catching rays and drinking beer with some of the other guys at the apartment complex pool, when one man I knew walked up to the group of us. He stated he had proposed to Heidi, and she had turned him down. He approached us in the off chance that someone might know Heidi and put the good word in for him with her. Months later, I was at my section’s pool of the apartment complex. There was a water polo game in progress, one man about 10 feet away me on my left, was playing boom box, and about 10 feet in the other direction were two girls from the group talking about how Heidi had rejected two other men's marriage proposals. I wasn’t getting all the details of the conversation due to noise at the pool and that fact I didn’t really care, so I don’t know if the two girls were jealous of Heidi getting the attention of these two men, or if these women were mocking these men as losers, due to Heidi rejecting them. But the point here is not only was Heidi getting the attention of single men, but marriage proposals.

Fast forward 12 years, one child and one divorce later on my part. A friend wanted me to join a dating agency. He would get a bonus if I joined, and I could join at a discount. I said before I join, I wanted to see what the single girls in the agency look like. I was given a binder of women 30-34 years of age. In the binder were pages of women. At the top of the page, in about 1 inch high letters was the girl's name, then below that a 2"x3" photo of her and below that 3 or 4 paragraphs that she wrote of herself. I started looking, when I got to page 7 or 8, I noticed the name Heidi. I took a good look, and it was her. I quickly scanned her paragraphs. I remembered a phrase of one sentence, it read, “34 years old, never married, no children.” I thought how could this be? I knew of three men who wanted to marry her, and in the 12 years that had passed there must have been more. How was it possible she never married given all the advantages she had? What dating parameters did she employ that failed her so miserably that resulted in her being never married given all the physical advantages she had?

In a social setting, if she were not the most desirable girl, she certainly was one of the more desirable girls. And I am here to tell you Heidi could have had absolutely any man she wanted, and I mean absolutely any man. If a poll had been taken by the single men in the complex of who would be most likely single at the age of 34, I am here to tell you Heidi’s name would not have been at the top of the list. What had she done with her life? How was it possible she never married? Did she think at the age of 34, she would have a bigger and better selection of single males than when she was 24?

I suspect in her 20's, she had a male qualification list as long as her inseam, and if a male were lacking any one of these parameters, he was immediately rejected. She kept saying no to men, until there were no men to say no, to.

I also suspect that all during her early years, she was used to getting plenty of male attention, and assumed her future would be like her past. Why would it change? In her years 17-26, she most likely was the crème de la crème of women. But as she entered her late 20’s, much to her dismay, there were lots of younger girls, many prettier and more approachable, meaning shorter. At 5’11”, she was taller than 99% of the women, 80% of the men and at 28 years of age, older than 90% of both men and women in a single’s bar. She stood out like a sore thumb due to her height and age.

How her story ends? I don’t know. I didn’t join the dating agency. But it was Heidi’s actions and Heidi’s actions alone that made her single. I bet never in her worse nightmare, did she ever think she would be childless and single at the age of 34. She wasted her youth and fertility using extremely flawed dating parameters that she created and imposed on herself and refused to change in spite of years of obvious failure. I can’t say for sure, but I will bet a dollar to a dime, she was a heightist, which made her prospects to find a man even harder.

Updated 11-5-2019

I had been looking at other sites concerning dating, and I discovered the term, Alpha Widow. An Alpha Widow is a woman who pursues Alpha males into her mid 30’s but does not catch them. This is my best guess as to what happened to Heidi.

houseoftolstoy · 2021-06-17T00:29:46+00:00

What a mess she is. A cautionary tale not only for women to avoid having tons of sexual partners, but also for men to avoid the kind of woman that has a promiscuous past. She cannot appreciate her current boyfriend because she has placed sex as being so critically important that she is devastated that she is without it with her current boyfriend.

One point of rebuttal for her claiming that dating is not easier for a woman. She does not account for the very first step, which is getting your foot in the door and being even able to get interest in meeting in the first place. Without this critical step, no relationship can form. Many men struggle with this first step, while far fewer women can say the same. So many men want to just be able to go up to bat, and are not wanting to hear about others saying how hard it is to get a good hit when they are not even able to get the opportunity to swing at a ball. Not that it means that other phases of dating are not difficult, but that first step is far more important than women like her understand.

Autisticus · 2021-06-16T19:25:04+00:00

AWALT

Dont even bother in 2021, men

Cursedwithknowing · 2021-06-16T19:43:47+00:00

That is a USDA Grade A trainwreck. There is no way for her to bond to another man.

slipkid223 · 2021-06-16T20:33:00+00:00

First off apply the 3x rule, so more like 150 guys.

Simp coming in to get the leftovers, doesn't give her tingles. He'll wife her up, she'll invest long enough to get alimony and maybe some sweet child support if he is dumb enough to impregnate her.

rhetorik_ · 2021-06-16T20:42:23+00:00

Thank you for today’s diet of red pills

Leadbaptist · 2021-06-16T20:57:59+00:00

Aww I almost feel bad for her. Modern women get lied to about how they have all this time to find who they are looking for and they don't. You gotta look early, and hold on fuckin tight if you find a solid man.

Cristoff13 · 2021-06-16T22:16:55+00:00

She's completely lacking in self-awareness. Any long term loving relationship, no matter how great the guy, will bore her and be unsatisfying. Only short term relationships with "emotionally unavailable" men will provide her with the excitement and satisfaction she desires. If she were to acknowledge this she would be a lot better off.

anykah_badu · 2021-06-17T07:01:28+00:00

Oh wow. A hundred dates in 5 years, 50 sexual partners, including some she admittedly had no chemistry with(??), almost 1,5 years of intense psychotic stalking of an ex online, and now she is in a relationship with someone she does not love back but only "uses" for all the wrong reasons...

Poor fucking guy.

I believe that when you actually love each other in a healthy way, you can figure out sex. Always. Because in her case, she could just bust out those toys with him, and together they get her off, then let him do his 20 second thing, and everyone is happy.

Plus, does he not have hands?

Guess it's impossible for any "couple" (the way she put boyfriend in quotation marks fucking killed me) to learn new tricks in bed, a very intimate sensitive matter, on such a rotten foundation

Total trainwreck but I guess this is why I keep coming back here

(Hope her mask slips soon and he can move on, sounds like an absolute horror movie because she is 100% faking affection to maintain this shit show. How's she not as bad if not worse than someone faking romance for sex? Most P&D schemes at least seem fairly transparent because I sure avoided all of them so far)

plz_say_sike · 2021-06-16T23:21:35+00:00

I predict she will either cheat, demand an open relationship or cause fights so he breaks up with her so she can play the victim

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-06-17T00:30:34+00:00

All kinds of women admit to having the same experience. Which means those women are choosing shit men and are allowing themselves to be jerked around.

Theextremecheapskate · 2021-06-16T22:16:24+00:00

I would never marry a women unless she is a virgin

addmaster · 2021-06-17T03:02:17+00:00

No ones going to want what’s left of her. This is like going through the buffet after 50 people already have.. I’d rather just go to a newer restaurant.

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2021-06-16T22:47:28+00:00

- Guy that I was crazy about that would generously grace me with his presence for 1 HOUR A WEEK for MONTHS. When I spoke up about it he said that was all he could do. Take it or leave. I took it. Even though I cried for the other 6 days every week.

I mean... What else can be said about her dating choices?

And on a side note, I wonder how many other 1-hour girs this guy had. I kinda admire him. Managing a broken woman in only one hour a week... Never thought it could be done.

vtec__ · 2021-06-16T21:08:57+00:00

she should stop wasting his time. if he isnt a horn dog and she is, it aint gonna work.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2021-06-17T01:03:43+00:00

That...was...hard...to...read. You can usually tell it's a woman from the Wall of Text that they write.

BeeAggressive5232 · 2021-06-17T04:38:24+00:00

hahahahahha christ, what a classic FDS user

WeRAllOnThisBlessedD · 2021-06-17T15:16:12+00:00

From the first post:

You, from across the world, tried to contact me again. Reached out to common friends. Wanted to know how I was doing. Wanted to keep in touch. Wanted to update me on your new life, how happy you were.

But this time, it was me that said no. I didn’t need your crumbs of affection anymore.

Jesus fucking Christ. This guy was just trying to keep in touch with someone he thought was a friend, and she acts like he’s trying to shove it in her face. He didn’t dodge a bullet, he dodged a hydrogen bomb.

Aldabruzzo · 2021-06-17T14:42:01+00:00

So, this is all the same woman? In rough chronological order?

GrannyLesbian · 2021-06-16T19:54:33+00:00

Deeply. So Deeply.

The Deepest you'd ever felt.

Ephidemical · 2021-06-17T10:49:18+00:00

Wow, this simply describes the full circle of female "love" for a beta... You can't make this shit up.

BluepillProfessor · 2021-06-17T23:28:42+00:00

It starts to go bad the minute you pop the freshness seal.

Word.

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-06-16T23:19:03+00:00

Its like watching the descent into madness

khillik · 2021-06-17T12:42:56+00:00

No man can ever truly satisfy a woman. That's why the bad boys don't stay around. They instinctively know the high women get from them is fleeting at best. That's why they leave the leftovers for the beta guys who for the most part never learn when to get outta dodge.

davidscream · 2021-06-17T12:07:07+00:00

Alpha widows they are fucking hot but they are not material for a LTR the only thing you can do with these kind of chicks is pump and dump. Sad situation for her. I'm seeing into the future and I see a lot of cats.

Five_Decades · 2021-06-17T17:45:00+00:00

God damn.

she is going to ruin that guy mentally and emotionally. after they break up he may be too damaged to build a healthy relationship with a decent woman who has her act together.

I hope he runs and forgives himself for falling for her. she will destroy him if he let's her.

kyledontcare · 2021-06-17T21:55:32+00:00

This one is broken beyond repair, alright.

CharlesChrist · 2021-06-17T07:59:59+00:00

Is that from the same girl?

throwaway294738r · 2021-06-17T21:10:02+00:00

Whores really are gross

peguy2000 · 2021-06-17T00:05:24+00:00

AHAHAHAAHAH

denis3056 · 2021-06-18T01:37:14+00:00

Are you telling me women dont know they are getting pumped and dumped? /s

loggingaway · 2021-06-20T17:39:05+00:00

I hope they don’t get married. She absolutely will cheat on him. It’s inevitable.

I’m not going to pile on this nutcase, but sometimes I think one of the better arguments for abstinence is if you sample too much, you’re gonna be addicted to whoever was your best lay, and they may end up being unicorns you’re highly unlikely to find an equivalent to again.

Still, I feel bad for her boyfriend. He will never be able to please her sexually. So it’s time to move on.

Again, I can’t blame her because if my current gf absolutely sucked in bed, I don’t know what I’d do.

meerita · 2021-06-22T10:34:04+00:00

Things I think she is: Asian girl who fucked some Chads, now went back to fuck asian beta males who last nothing in bed. She miss the strong Bruce Lee Cock

BluepillProfessor · 2021-06-22T14:38:32+00:00

Premature ejaculation

Cum again?

Alpha widow laments feeling single (because sexually unfulfilled) while in a committed relationship. She can't be satisfied with a good man that provides her with commitment (and love) because she has been broken by the 50+ cocks she had on the carousel...and that one that got away.

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That's so muh soggy knees stick!!!