Any ideas for fun, unconventional dates?

harryhoudini66 · 2019-12-24T17:08:01+00:00

Theme parks, paintball, shooting range or anything that creates adrenaline etc. These activities result in misattribution of arousal.

Ulanyouknow · 2019-12-24T14:05:17+00:00

I dont know about how unconventional it is, but its high season for ice skating. Its fun and you can develop some kino and Attraction together

TheDandyWarhol · 2019-12-24T14:24:32+00:00

I'm really into hiking dates. Great way to get to know someone.

Derbel__McDillet · 2019-12-24T15:01:39+00:00

I’m already married but I like this sub’s advice and posts.

Some interesting ideas: Axe throwing, Take a class together (this only works if you’re actually into her and maybe not a first date), Wine and paint, Art museum or something local to your city, Food tours, Wine tasting

haminthefryingpan · 2019-12-24T19:28:16+00:00

Get involved in a hit-and-run and then spend the evening evading the police together.

throwaway5235a · 2019-12-24T13:20:01+00:00

Wow never thought of those types of dates. Did you take them to those types of places on first dates?

liondrius · 2019-12-24T16:26:27+00:00

The trampolines one sound really fun i will try it sometime, i did the arcade thing one time and it was really good (She got very excited and I had to ask her to stop spending so much).

The dates in which I had more fun have all been related to music and dance, even being completely arrhythmic, I just let myself go and make jokes of my "abilities". The important thing is not to turn the date into a dance class, that's boring.

ItsTonesOClock · 2019-12-24T17:39:38+00:00

Take her to random funerals in the area

NewtypeJ · 2019-12-24T15:38:28+00:00

Karaoke is always fun unless she can actually sing well. If you two have similar tastes in music, it’ll be even better.

blessedwiththecurse · 2019-12-24T21:22:56+00:00

This is my go to date idea and is extremely cheap if you’re in London (£5 max)

There’s this place called “leake street tunnel” where graffiti artists go and is the only place in the city where graffitiing is legal. So before the date I grab some cans of spray paint and go to meet the girl. When we meet she will eventually ask what’s in the bag but don’t tell her, let her imagination go wild. So as we walk towards the tunnel and talk, we get to know each other’s interests, passions etc. When we reach the tunnel, whip out the cans and start painting. She’ll think it’s badass af and want to join in. Give her her can and let her creativity go wild and you create works of art next to each other. This is the time to have a laugh and tease her a little! Once you’ve finished, you can walk around the tunnel and look at all the other amazing works of art aswell, you will never run out of cool things to talk about here. I usually end the date straight after this so I don’t mess things up with my big mouth.

After the date, she’ll tell you how cool/different/exciting/fun the date was bla bla bla and how she wants to see you again soon. I usually don’t reply until a couple days have passed to build even more tension. If she was fun, the next date would be a more conventional one at my place where I actually cook food for her and see where the night goes.

thejuice007 · 2019-12-24T16:38:38+00:00

Go Kart is a 3rd or 4th date to see how much adventure is out there.

Koshi_the_yoshi · 2019-12-24T18:52:17+00:00

Absolutely recommend axe throwing. Went a few nights ago with a girl and it was great. Lots of fun, there was a bar and mostly other couples, she was rly into it. Something about throwing sharp objects is just sexy to them apparently.

I’m gonna try taking a girl shooting next to see how it works. Would also recommend that based on the axe throwing experience but don’t know for sure.

Thee420Blaziken · 2019-12-24T16:05:58+00:00

My favorite is bowling as a first date (mostly because I find it fun), plus it gives a little challenge and can br good for kino and teasing. Honorable mention is karaoke. Granted I've done pole dancing (was hilarious, her idea), paint night (meh, I suck at painting)

theosamabahama · 2019-12-24T19:14:51+00:00

The idea of a date is to bond with the other person. For a first date, it's important to spend time in conversation so you can know the other person better and they can know you. So I like vanilla dates for first dates. I leave unconventional dates for further dates. That being said, here are some ideas:

Laser tag, boardgame cafes, have fun with rollerskates or skateboards, 2 person sports like tennis or basketball, amusement parks, take random pictures of you two in a nice scenery, arcades, paintball, playing instruments together, karaoke, cooking together at home, doing a jigsaw puzzle, escape rooms and chilling in a pool or beach.

Alex_O7 · 2019-12-24T16:19:04+00:00

I think that walkimg in the city center if you live in an historical or cool city, is the best thing to do. Bonus points if there is/are park/s in between the walking.

On a walking date you could make a lot of important things like: show leading capabilities, be touchy without the risk of beeing a creep, you could show off your knowledge of the city, make fun of things that happens around you (really important feature also to make good conversation).

Alternatively you can: go in a museum if you and her are into art/history; go hiking if you live outside cities.

xur-- · 2019-12-24T17:58:32+00:00

Indoor climbing together. Bring some snacks.

Ice666White · 2019-12-24T16:46:18+00:00

Check out this ultimate list of date ideas.

Daemonn789 · 2019-12-24T18:49:39+00:00

I recently took a girl to a bookstore. We got coffee and walked around talking about stuff we liked or just laughing at funny book titles. The original idea was to each pick out a book and sit down and read a little bit of it aloud to each other. But we never ended up getting to that point because we were having so much fun just finding stuff that we could relate to through books on the shelves. She said it was the most fun she's ever had on a date.

Ur_X · 2019-12-24T17:48:02+00:00

I went skee balling and dart throwing. It was fun.

shivani74829 · 2019-12-24T18:54:44+00:00

Poop together

mwc_1742 · 2019-12-24T18:50:17+00:00

Near me is a board game cafe, and that has always made for a fun time, is there anything similar to you?

Pudding_people · 2019-12-24T19:46:35+00:00

Bowling for sure. Even better if you can bet her on something.

GeorgePattonArden · 2019-12-25T02:13:09+00:00

If you can afford it buy a suite for one night in the fancies hotel in town tell her to wear a black cocktail dress and spaghetti straps matching shoes and purse ; no underwear only garters and no bra. That’s to start.

no_re-entry · 2019-12-24T18:36:18+00:00

Go see a psychic together

copywhisperer · 2019-12-24T19:32:46+00:00

Antique stores Zip Lining

merf_me2 · 2019-12-24T20:13:49+00:00

For a few hundred bucks at most avation schools you can take an introductory pilot lesson flying in a real plane. It's way more expensive after but they try to get you hooked. Always thought that would be a memorable date

Critical_Slice · 2019-12-24T20:17:56+00:00

My go to, as silly as it sounds, is Mini Golf. There is something to do, but opportunity to talk and get close to each other, and always something to focus on if you find a lul in the conversation. Also fun to act a fool while playing.

ProFriendZoner · 2019-12-24T21:37:12+00:00

Every date can be unconventional if you do it right.

boondock_saint5 · 2019-12-24T22:33:39+00:00

Lazer tag, axe throwing, archery, obstacle course, sledding, snow man building, snow fort building, paintballing, ziplining, indoor rock climbing, escape room, paint and wine class, trivia night at a bar, open mic night, comedy show, swing dancing night somewhere(usually a bar), look at christmas lights on those notable streets during the holidays..

arkadylaw · 2019-12-24T23:09:36+00:00

One simple, fun and seductive enough activity is going to a place with nice views (mountains, hills, ocean) for a photo shoot. It can be as provocative or non provocative as the weather and your comfort level permits. Many if not most women love to have their pictures taken. You can have a lot of fun taking all kinds of shots. She can bring a few different outfits to change. This can a turn-on in all the right ways for both you and her. It would help if you have decent photography skills which you can pick up within a matter of a few hours by taking a class (online or in person) and picking the right places for your adventure.

axe122 · 2019-12-24T23:29:56+00:00

Trying to impress them is a waste of time, do things you wanna do on a first date, I guess if that’s what you really wanna do it hen go for it but I’d do them kinda dates post sex but honestly getting a few drinks is a better first date as your trying to establish connection and sleep with her. This is how you get her out on 2nd and 3rd date, I barely even ask any questions , I just flirt with and tease them the whole time while pushing for physical intimacy is when I get and keep them interested. Any time I’ve tried getting know her on the first date it was a 50/50 shot as to wether I’d see her again. Now that I just drive for sex and flirt the whole time and worry about getting to know her over time. I’d say my percentage of second-third date has jumped to about 90% It’s literally a he difference between me being chosen and being the chooser.

dreamatoriumx · 2019-12-25T05:26:47+00:00

Hitting glow in the dark golf balls into a lake.

Bobandjim12602 · 2019-12-24T18:11:37+00:00

Ideas for fun, unconventional dates?

"Fun...unconventional, hmmmm"

turns to date

"Hey Baby, ever had your asshole licked by a fat man in a trench coat?"

OneHighGiraffa · 2019-12-24T18:31:10+00:00

TARGET . popcorn, icees are very inexpensive but have enough salt, fat, and sugar to make someone feel like they're in love.

a great first date to get to know eachothers like/dislikes and sense of humor. and if you can easily buy them something as a souvenir if you feel so inclined, all for $20 or less!

FussRoDa · 2019-12-24T23:48:08+00:00

Pew pew range. Best place to get upclose and have a great time. +1 if she's anti gun and will probably end up having a good time

NordRedditor91 · 2019-12-24T18:06:04+00:00

Great post OP, I'd also like to have more ideas in this area.

charletorb · 2019-12-24T18:19:50+00:00

When I first started dating my current girlfriend we did power boat rides. I also know how to sail, so every now and then we do either.

Also, just think of something YOU want to do, and invite your significant other along. If you're having fun, they're likely to have fun as well. And you can do the same with something they like.

dbake9 · 2019-12-24T19:01:30+00:00

Rock climbing

chief_yETI · 2019-12-24T19:56:13+00:00

cage match on amateur night at a local fight club. Loser pays for dinner + Uber

pdxtrader · 2019-12-24T20:39:06+00:00

Arcades are fun, take her to a play and then out for a drink, I went on a blind date at a grocery store one time and we got to know each other pretty quickly

edgarthesped · 2019-12-24T21:19:15+00:00

Rockclimbing is super fun and a good physical activity

mkylvr81 · 2019-12-24T23:01:04+00:00

Escape rooms are super fun!

Coffeeapples · 2019-12-24T23:07:55+00:00

Rock-climbing and laser tag!

iambored95 · 2019-12-24T23:21:22+00:00

Mini golf

smokemommer · 2019-12-25T03:44:42+00:00

I went on a date recently where we had dinner, walked around the city, and went through a huge thrift store. It was fun to stop and comment or engage with some unusual items. Interesting way to get to know someone.

gettingintostuff · 2019-12-25T05:09:18+00:00

What are gaming arcades like today?

I’ve never been into it..

noshaveseptember · 2019-12-25T05:12:18+00:00

I took a girl to PetSmart and we just stood there looking at fish for like an hour. She said it was the most fun and unforgettable date she’d ever been on. It was free btw.

LateVariety · 2019-12-28T21:10:09+00:00

When I was dating I used to invite them home to my bedroom. We used to develop a fair bit of intimacy there.

Michelangelor · 2019-12-24T18:53:09+00:00

My go-to date used to be taking girls to this water tower I knew about and sneaking in and climbing it and going swimming at the top inside

Getjiggywithit777 · 2019-12-25T00:20:58+00:00

Swing dancing is really fun, only the guy needs to know how to lead.

Enameloblast · 2019-12-24T21:15:03+00:00

This time of year, taking a girl to look at Christmas lights

Visualize_ · 2019-12-24T15:58:51+00:00

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Title	Any ideas for fun, unconventional dates?
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Date	December 24, 2019 12:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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